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By *ey-you OP Man
over a year ago
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Hey all, so i'm on here on a swinging site and i have a missus (new one), my ex was happy to meet up as a couple but ive not explored it with my new GF so asking how do i approach her about it?  |
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By *ey-you OP Man
over a year ago
Thornton-Cleveleys |
"Have you known her long? I think the best way is to simply say it's something you've enjoyed with a previous partner and would like to try with her."
Known her a while before getting together. Worried that she wont see it how i do x |
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"Hey all, so i'm on here on a swinging site and i have a missus (new one), my ex was happy to meet up as a couple but ive not explored it with my new GF so asking how do i approach her about it? "
Bit late to mention it now tbh  |
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By *ey-you OP Man
over a year ago
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"Hey all, so i'm on here on a swinging site and i have a missus (new one), my ex was happy to meet up as a couple but ive not explored it with my new GF so asking how do i approach her about it?
Bit late to mention it now tbh "
Your probably right...better late than never surely? |
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"Hey all, so i'm on here on a swinging site and i have a missus (new one), my ex was happy to meet up as a couple but ive not explored it with my new GF so asking how do i approach her about it?
Bit late to mention it now tbh
Your probably right...better late than never surely?"
Well youre only 3 months in probbaly best to bring up the subject now.
Unless youre activly looking to cheat on her atm in which case its probbaly best to let her know so we can make her own decision on the relationship before she gets too invested emotionally |
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"Have you known her long? I think the best way is to simply say it's something you've enjoyed with a previous partner and would like to try with her.
Known her a while before getting together. Worried that she wont see it how i do x"
To be honest most women will be deeply hurt if their partner suggests swinging. The first thing that occurs to them is that they're not enough sexually and the second that they're not attractive. That's why I think it's best to either mention it from the very start of a relationship.
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