Good, positive profile that sells you, both what you're looking for and what you have to offer.
A variety of pictures that are flattering and enticing
Positive interaction on the forum or in statuses
Personal, targeted, respectful messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in the same boat, however I note most of my messages are either left unread forever, deleted immediately, or in one case, the woman blocked me for some reason (I was in her age range, and didnt send a dick pic)
Based on the statuses I see women put up, i've come to the conclusion that women get so many messages that unless you're an absolute god of a man, there's a solid chance you're going to be ignored due to being one of 100 messages she's gotta sift through.
Just a matter of being patient I guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can do it
505 words no more no less
Appealing pics as women are really pervy
And speak the lingo of the super shagger
And you my son will be ready
And most important of all
Try not
Do or do not
There is no try
Go get em |
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"Can someone maybe give me some tips as I have had no meets yet"
Your profile is just tragically bad delete everything and start again have a look at some profiles where the guys have had number of mates and take some tips from them do not copy and paste. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can someone maybe give me some tips as I have had no meets yet"
You wont get anywhere without public pics, they dont have to be of your face. With that, and the fact you cant accommodate, screams your attached, which again will make it hard. If thats not the case, then put pics up and actually write some interesting words on your bio. Is dull and boring at the moment.
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"I'm in the same boat, however I note most of my messages are either left unread forever, deleted immediately, or in one case, the woman blocked me for some reason (I was in her age range, and didnt send a dick pic)
Based on the statuses I see women put up, i've come to the conclusion that women get so many messages that unless you're an absolute god of a man, there's a solid chance you're going to be ignored due to being one of 100 messages she's gotta sift through.
Just a matter of being patient I guess "
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Sorry but I dont agree with this.
I'm far from of a God of a man but I've done alright. Met my now girlfriend on here and met some lovely ladies and couples.
Set your expectations realistically. There are hundreds of guys to every woman/couples. Be polite in your messages(which you say you are which is good) include something in your message that shows you have read the profile. Say why you think you would be a good match for them.
Be patient. Socials are a good way to meet new people and chat face to face. Be friendly and chatty and respectful.
That just my two penneths worth. Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm in the same boat, however I note most of my messages are either left unread forever, deleted immediately, or in one case, the woman blocked me for some reason (I was in her age range, and didnt send a dick pic)
Based on the statuses I see women put up, i've come to the conclusion that women get so many messages that unless you're an absolute god of a man, there's a solid chance you're going to be ignored due to being one of 100 messages she's gotta sift through.
Just a matter of being patient I guess .
Sorry but I dont agree with this.
I'm far from of a God of a man but I've done alright. Met my now girlfriend on here and met some lovely ladies and couples.
Set your expectations realistically. There are hundreds of guys to every woman/couples. Be polite in your messages(which you say you are which is good) include something in your message that shows you have read the profile. Say why you think you would be a good match for them.
Be patient. Socials are a good way to meet new people and chat face to face. Be friendly and chatty and respectful.
That just my two penneths worth. Good luck. "
I already acknowledged that the ratio of men and women are skewed, and that you need to be patient. Perhaps you misread what I wrote.
If messages are left unread, it doesnt matter what you're actually writing since you can only see half of the first sentence before clicking into it. It's the same as someone having a shit profile, if nobody is viewing the profile it doesnt matter what it says.
You say you disagree, when my assessment is that you can be ignored (and reasonably so, im not mad people arent interested) because someone simply has too many messages to go through, but then also acknowledge that the ratio of men/women is incredibly high, and therefore you just need to be patient.
We both came to the same conclusion but you disagree? I am confused as to how that works
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well thanks everyone for the tips, I have updated my profile, would someone be able to check it out and see if that's any good for me? Took on board a lot of what was said in here so I hope it is |
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"Well thanks everyone for the tips, I have updated my profile, would someone be able to check it out and see if that's any good for me? Took on board a lot of what was said in here so I hope it is"
I think you really have made the effort, and it is a very good starter. Maybe pad it out with a few more words on what you're looking for, or the type of person you're looking to meet?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You'll have just as much luck as my mrs does on here, next to none lol. All she finds is women that are a waste of time, either stand her up or only after photos/videos.
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"I'm in the same boat, however I note most of my messages are either left unread forever, deleted immediately, or in one case, the woman blocked me for some reason (I was in her age range, and didnt send a dick pic)
Based on the statuses I see women put up, i've come to the conclusion that women get so many messages that unless you're an absolute god of a man, there's a solid chance you're going to be ignored due to being one of 100 messages she's gotta sift through.
Just a matter of being patient I guess .
Sorry but I dont agree with this.
I'm far from of a God of a man but I've done alright. Met my now girlfriend on here and met some lovely ladies and couples.
Set your expectations realistically. There are hundreds of guys to every woman/couples. Be polite in your messages(which you say you are which is good) include something in your message that shows you have read the profile. Say why you think you would be a good match for them.
Be patient. Socials are a good way to meet new people and chat face to face. Be friendly and chatty and respectful.
That just my two penneths worth. Good luck.
I already acknowledged that the ratio of men and women are skewed, and that you need to be patient. Perhaps you misread what I wrote.
If messages are left unread, it doesnt matter what you're actually writing since you can only see half of the first sentence before clicking into it. It's the same as someone having a shit profile, if nobody is viewing the profile it doesnt matter what it says.
You say you disagree, when my assessment is that you can be ignored (and reasonably so, im not mad people arent interested) because someone simply has too many messages to go through, but then also acknowledge that the ratio of men/women is incredibly high, and therefore you just need to be patient.
We both came to the same conclusion but you disagree? I am confused as to how that works
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Was just trying to be helpful. In regards to messages not being read, it generally means they have looked at your profile and decided to not bother reading your message based on that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All I ever seem to get it lads wanting to suck me off ?? not what I came to this site for lol
You can filter them out."
That's true should have really have known that being here before in the past |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All I ever seem to get it lads wanting to suck me off ?? not what I came to this site for lol "
Same here, or it was till I discovered I can block men and tv/ts 
I still gst the occasional idiot that adds me on kik but I just block them on there too. Not sure why men have a habit of not being able to take the hint but it seems to be a pretty wide spread problem by all accounts  |
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"All I ever seem to get it lads wanting to suck me off ?? not what I came to this site for lol
Same here, or it was till I discovered I can block men and tv/ts
I still gst the occasional idiot that adds me on kik but I just block them on there too. Not sure why men have a habit of not being able to take the hint but it seems to be a pretty wide spread problem by all accounts "
Gets annoying aha all sorted now lol had a few guys offer me money aha don't think I could do it for that either ahaha |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"All I ever seem to get it lads wanting to suck me off ?? not what I came to this site for lol
Same here, or it was till I discovered I can block men and tv/ts
I still gst the occasional idiot that adds me on kik but I just block them on there too. Not sure why men have a habit of not being able to take the hint but it seems to be a pretty wide spread problem by all accounts
Gets annoying aha all sorted now lol had a few guys offer me money aha don't think I could do it for that either ahaha "
You need to report as they are breaking site rules. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All I ever seem to get it lads wanting to suck me off ?? not what I came to this site for lol
Same here, or it was till I discovered I can block men and tv/ts
I still gst the occasional idiot that adds me on kik but I just block them on there too. Not sure why men have a habit of not being able to take the hint but it seems to be a pretty wide spread problem by all accounts
Gets annoying aha all sorted now lol had a few guys offer me money aha don't think I could do it for that either ahaha
You need to report as they are breaking site rules. "
True though I have seen some woman say they will only shag single men for money aswell aha. Came here for fun times not an investment ahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hit the nail on the head there. I think it's better for couples, if you look at the membership and average online profiles against the population figures you are more likely to pull on a night out. It's a site that's fun for a few months, then it's time to move on........taxi! |
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