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By *team7279 OP Couple
over a year ago
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So after circling it for a long time, we're taking our first tentative steps into making things happen with a social meet early next month.
We're not sure what to expect, really. Obviously it'll be drinks and chat, but what's the vibe generally like at socials? Is it flirty, or more like a gathering of people sharing an interest? Bit of both? Will Mrs A get hit on all evening? Are there etiquettes we should be aware of? So many questions!
And any advice for making the most of a social beyond just...well...being social?
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over a year ago
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An organised social is just like an evening at a pub with a group of people with shared interests and a bit of flirting.
From my experiance single guys will predominantly not approach a couple and not be pests; it is a much more relaxed vibe and a great way to meet people.
If you can find out who is going and make contact with a few before hand then you will have people to chat to straight away. |
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over a year ago
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We went to our first recently and really enjoyed it if you naturally confident socially you will definitely enjoy it things got very touchy feely in the women's toilets but only if you wanted it too nobody was pouncing on you |
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By *team7279 OP Couple
over a year ago
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Just a follow-up to say we attended the social and it was brilliant. Such a pleasant way to take our first real step into the the lifestyle. Met a lot of lovely people and Mrs A got lots of attention, but none of it pushy or horrible (and some of it quite welcome!) |
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over a year ago
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Newbie here - Have gone to a club but was not much fun not knowing anybody. Done another 1-1 which was ok. What are organised socials? How can we find one? |
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"Just a follow-up to say we attended the social and it was brilliant. Such a pleasant way to take our first real step into the the lifestyle. Met a lot of lovely people and Mrs A got lots of attention, but none of it pushy or horrible (and some of it quite welcome!)"
You looked like you were enjoying yourselves and i for one liked chatting to you two
Rabbit x x  |
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"Just a follow-up to say we attended the social and it was brilliant. Such a pleasant way to take our first real step into the the lifestyle. Met a lot of lovely people and Mrs A got lots of attention, but none of it pushy or horrible (and some of it quite welcome!)"
Some of it?  
Joking aside, it was great to meet you both. So glad you had a great evening. I know the first group social can be a bit daunting.
Ducks to water I'd say. |
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over a year ago
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Thanks for posting this.
We are in the same position and a social is probably the way to go rather than just turning up at a club.
Hopefully we will have he same experience. |
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"Thanks for posting this.
We are in the same position and a social is probably the way to go rather than just turning up at a club.
Hopefully we will have he same experience. "
Keep an eye out for the Manchester Lounge Social, the next one is probably a couple of months away.
If you fancy a road trip there's the Lick and Bicker social in Leicester.
Both highly recommended. |
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"Thanks for posting this.
We are in the same position and a social is probably the way to go rather than just turning up at a club.
Hopefully we will have he same experience.
Keep an eye out for the Manchester Lounge Social, the next one is probably a couple of months away.
If you fancy a road trip there's the Lick and Bicker social in Leicester.
Both highly recommended. "
Errrumm ... there are also more local socials with less travelling !!
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"Thanks for posting this.
We are in the same position and a social is probably the way to go rather than just turning up at a club.
Hopefully we will have he same experience.
Keep an eye out for the Manchester Lounge Social, the next one is probably a couple of months away.
If you fancy a road trip there's the Lick and Bicker social in Leicester.
Both highly recommended.
Errrumm ... there are also more local socials with less travelling !!
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Very true. There's cracking socials in Heathrow. Bit far from Manchester though......
Is there a date for the next Heathrow social?  |
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By *team7279 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"We really enjoy a good group social where people are keen to chat to everyone, not just the people they want to have sex with. We've been to some great inclusive ones."
Yeah, that's what was so nice. And as newbies it was invaluable to get other people's advice in a totally unpressured setting. |
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By *team7279 OP Couple
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"Thanks for posting this.
We are in the same position and a social is probably the way to go rather than just turning up at a club.
Hopefully we will have he same experience. "
Can't recommend it highly enough. Just a great night out at the pub, and really liberating to just be able to have frank and honest chat with people about all this. We were terrified before arriving, and we're made to feel totally at ease immediately. |
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By *team7279 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Newbie here - Have gone to a club but was not much fun not knowing anybody. Done another 1-1 which was ok. What are organised socials? How can we find one? "
Just a night at the pub, basically, but with a bunch of like-minded people. Much less intimidating than we thought it would be. |
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"We really enjoy a good group social where people are keen to chat to everyone, not just the people they want to have sex with. We've been to some great inclusive ones.
Yeah, that's what was so nice. And as newbies it was invaluable to get other people's advice in a totally unpressured setting."
I think that's what's so nice. It such a relief to joke about giving another guy a blow job without your friends looking at you as if you've taken leave of what little sense you have. |
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By *team7279 OP Couple
over a year ago
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You looked like you were enjoying yourselves and i for one liked chatting to you two
Rabbit x x "
Great to meet you too! Heathrow too far for us, but if you do another Kings Cross social sometime, we'll be there! |
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By *team7279 OP Couple
over a year ago
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" Joking aside, it was great to meet you both. So glad you had a great evening. I know the first group social can be a bit daunting.
Ducks to water I'd say. "
Cheers! Hopefully we can chat more next time! I need to get some shirt tips. |
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" Joking aside, it was great to meet you both. So glad you had a great evening. I know the first group social can be a bit daunting.
Ducks to water I'd say.
Cheers! Hopefully we can chat more next time! I need to get some shirt tips. "
I'm not sure the world is ready for two people wearing shirts like mine. |
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" Joking aside, it was great to meet you both. So glad you had a great evening. I know the first group social can be a bit daunting.
Ducks to water I'd say.
Cheers! Hopefully we can chat more next time! I need to get some shirt tips.
I'm not sure the world is ready for two people wearing shirts like mine. "
The world needs more brightness  |
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" Joking aside, it was great to meet you both. So glad you had a great evening. I know the first group social can be a bit daunting.
Ducks to water I'd say.
Cheers! Hopefully we can chat more next time! I need to get some shirt tips.
I'm not sure the world is ready for two people wearing shirts like mine.
The world needs more brightness "
I tend to agree....
I work in the city. Varying shades of black and dark blue everywhere.
A splash of colour stands out like a beacon. |
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