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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Right! i'm looking for advice on how to build my profile because i'v been on here a few weeks now and cannot get a reply for the life of me, maybe.. im just an ugly bastard and i dont know it but yeah i dunno how i'm supposed to meet anyone or get verified or anything if i can't even get a reply.
perhaps my relatively polite introductions aren't the way forward? i really dont get it.
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Just patience and time.
Not been on here long. Can take some time for a meet.
People do not jump into bed straight away (well not always).
Just personalize messages you send and be polite and respectful and sure will happen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you all for the advice! taken on board! keep it coming i will keep my eyes on this post! thanks again."
Try going to clubs and social events to chat to people, get to know others, get your face known and get some verifications that way |
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"Give up.why should he?"
Less competition?
Anyway OP.
Not a bad profile and not a cock pic in sight
As others have said... you need to be patient.
The forums are a good way to get known and I reckon you would do well in clubs.
Nita |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Get on bumble, tinder and pof. You'll do a lot better than on here "
See above. 100% agree. Fab is for couples and anybody who caters to them. There are single ladies but to be honest you have no chance. This is not a reflection of you, just the sheer odds. 1 woman to every 15 men, plus they might not be to your liking. Bit of a good looking bastard like you will do well on dating sites. The ladies are just a filthy as on here.
Club might be different - I've never been. Most advise a club.
Good luck brother |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
Hi Mr Northants. There is nothing wrong with your profile, just keep looking for people who are looking for a guy like you.
TOP TIP:The link below is for a social, put your name down. It will be a good opportunity meet a few people.
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/meets/846527 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lovely pics and nice to see you've taken some advice about your profile text. Makes a refreshing change. Good luck. X"
Always a nice word from Woody.. Great advice..
Get yourself to a local organised social event.. It did wonders for me .. Be polite and respectful and never rude .. It will get you far .. I've only been on 10 months and have 90 varifications. Have a look at the guys who are doing well on here and learn from their profiles . Be a little creative with your pics and I'm sure you will be fine on here .. Happy Fabbing matey
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lovely pics and nice to see you've taken some advice about your profile text. Makes a refreshing change. Good luck. X"
Always a nice word from Woody.. Great advice..
Get yourself to a local organised social event.. It did wonders for me .. Be polite and respectful and never rude .. It will get you far .. I've only been on 10 months and have 90 varifications. Have a look at the guys who are doing well on here and learn from their profiles . Be a little creative with your pics and I'm sure you will be fine on here .. Happy Fabbing matey
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Right! i'm looking for advice on how to build my profile because i'v been on here a few weeks now and cannot get a reply for the life of me, maybe.. im just an ugly bastard and i dont know it but yeah i dunno how i'm supposed to meet anyone or get verified or anything if i can't even get a reply.
perhaps my relatively polite introductions aren't the way forward? i really dont get it.
Any advice appreciated."
Correct op
Your an ugly bar steward
Only kidding |
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"Nothing wrong with your Profile or Pics.
It’s just the fact that you are in competition with about 75 Million Gazzillion other Single Guys. Sad but true. Good Luck x"
that
Best you leave and try match. Reduces the competition |
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By *tarmanMan
over a year ago
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Same here mate. I send polite, friendly messages, with pics and seldom ever receive a reply. I don't accommodate as I live in shared accommodation since my divorce. Shared house with both sexes live here, none are to the best of my knowledge into swinging and I don't wish to cause grief! No more of a red flag than that.I just want to meet someone for casual, enjoyable fun. Not a big ask! I'm clean, have my own hair and teeth, know how to behave, hold a knife and fork. Bit disheartening isnt it? Keep on keeping on mate. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
There are many single guy profiles,with great text and pics, who are very 'successful' on here. So couples and ladies have lots of choice. Those guys with bland, non informative profiles and no pics or not very good pics, will always struggle |
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