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Should I give up?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Same old sob story etc but been on this site for almost a year and have had nothing to show for it, been on cam but no veris, had people stand me up on meets it's just not going my way.
I love this site and how kinky and interesting it is but I don't think the site loves me back, should I just stop? |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else |
No,change your profile to a long rant against women and couples for rejecting you.
Then post a thread like this every 6 weeks, but never reply to to anyone on it.
That's the standard behaviour...  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No,change your profile to a long rant against women and couples for rejecting you.
Then post a thread like this every 6 weeks, but never reply to to anyone on it.
That's the standard behaviour... "
Oh stand back, a comedian is in the forum
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Try a club? If you can behave yourself you'll get a veri, even if you ask staff. Pick an interracial and/or gym fit theme night and you might benefit from being in the niche. "
I'll give it a try, thanks  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hang on, you've been here a year and it hasn't occurred to you to try a club...and I'm the comedian????
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Oh no its crossed the noggin thanks, not as easy as some funny people out there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No,change your profile to a long rant against women and couples for rejecting you.
Then post a thread like this every 6 weeks, but never reply to to anyone on it.
That's the standard behaviour...
Oh stand back, a comedian is in the forum
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Humour can be very attractive.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fanny ain't gonna cum by hermes op
Get out n about
Socials clubs even try Donald and Jacqueline see if they can hook you up
Have the fun n banter on here sure it'll cum good for you pal
If that sounds like too much hard work try going up town with your pals and pull in the traditional way
It's not bloody dial a clunge on here you know
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The only right answer is your own. We should explore and experiment within our own boundaries and learn as we go, without regret, so that we know we've lived. "
that true but most here are afraid to explore that what i think
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same old sob story etc but been on this site for almost a year and have had nothing to show for it, been on cam but no veris, had people stand me up on meets it's just not going my way.
I love this site and how kinky and interesting it is but I don't think the site loves me back, should I just stop?"
Yeah... |
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"No,change your profile to a long rant against women and couples for rejecting you.
Then post a thread like this every 6 weeks, but never reply to to anyone on it.
That's the standard behaviour... "
Omg deja vu. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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Have you taken any advice you've been offered before on your previous 4 threads? Since you haven't asked specifically for profile advice it can't be given. There are plenty of existing threads offering that already, maybe look them up and also advice on mine. I'm sure if you go into a cam room someone will help you out with a veri. If I'm in there and someone asks I'm happy to do so. Probably better to get yourself to an organised social or a club though. Remember, effort in = rewards out OP. Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As Homer Simpson said: “You tried your best and failed miserably. The lesson is, never try.”
He also said: “Trying is the first step towards failure”
Hope that helps"
Wise words indeed.
Was it not the great master Yoda who once said. 'Try not. Do, or do not. There is no try' |
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You’re a single man on a swingers site. The odds are against you from the start.
It seems to be the single guys who have the most verifications have good photos, a well written profile, contribute to the forums, and seem to make an effort to get out to clubs and socials. Just an observation.
Posts like this are more likely to put people off, this isn’t instashag and you aren’t entitled to anything. Maybe delete your profile and start again? Or try Tinder or Pof? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been on and off fab for 5 years. Delete profile and start again is good advice, with new photos. People are more likely to look at the new profile and make judgements about not getting meets in a year. Have a look at other guys profiles who gave lots of veris and see what you can copy.
Also to be successful, you need to out the hours in. Be on the site everyday commenting on forums and emailing women, with good messages and facepics. I have had success emailing newbies when they join up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im moxed to, and clubs and social event are a better option definitely be polite but keep it fun like they said abit of banter often you will meet experienced swinger let them lead the conversation till you knlw each other abit better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have you been to any clubs or socials op ?
Say hello and get to know likeminded people ?
Or are you like the rest of the kiddies on here who think it's fab easymuff
Your dry year I'm thinking the latter tbh
Hot vajayjay is not gonna be left on the doorstep with the milk young man
Stop whinging on the forums and get yourself out there
Harsh yes but all true I'm afraid |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Take the advice given and you'll just have to accept that it might take time but be realistic and patient. I've been on Swingers sites 15 years now and had various different types of profiles, been to socials etc etc but the bottom line is that if you're not someone's type there's nothing you can do about it. Take it from me, I've never been anyone's type yet from who I've met or who's seen me but atleast they've thought I'm a nice guy and as I've been told loads of times from some very lovely people on the scene, I will eventually meet someone who's interested so chin up mate, listen to the experiences people on here and it may just take time. 1 year us nothing believe me! Lol |
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worked for me hehehe 
Soon as see that most will skip by and not even bother reading your profile