Ok we will go first then lol
Your profile sounds more of a dating profile than for swinging. You have a couple of nice smile pics which are drawing attention to the not so good pics.
I think a lot of people reading it will think you want to go for coffee rather than more carnal pursuits.
Be more carnal. Be a Tiger. |
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Your profile text now isn't too bad. Not amazing, but not a no go. Photos could be more sex and less work, though.
Although honestly if you've been on here years without a meet, I'd delete and start again. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
To be honest OP - it's not really that different from lots of other single guy profiles on here and if anything is a little...hmmmm...bland. You need to try and stand out and get some personality across.
A few specific pointers:
- There's a lot of "I" in there about what you want and think you can offer, sex is a two (or more) person thing that works best when it's about both or all of you.
- You say "I'm many things but not ordinary." - how are you not ordinary? Demonstrate how you're not!!
- You say "I've probably said too much..." - actually you've not said a great deal at all!! You've listed a few positive character traits which to be honest are subjective and also the kind of thing most people would *say* they possess as they sound good, but are the kind of thing someone will only *know* by spending time with you.
- Your pics to be honest remind me more of the kind of thing you'd see on a corporate intranet page introducing team members than the kind of thing designed to attract others for no strings sex - there's nothing wrong with them as such (although your two oldest ones are the same pic just cropped) they're just a bit (that word again) bland.
Have a look round at other well verified guys pics and profiles for ideas of what works, but use it as inspiration rather than just copying.
Other than that, if the whole cold messaging thing isn't working for you - look at other ways to get involved and meet people, just getting involved in the forums is a good way to get to know people, and them you - or clubs and organised socials is another way.
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"To be honest OP - it's not really that different from lots of other single guy profiles on here and if anything is a little...hmmmm...bland. You need to try and stand out and get some personality across.
A few specific pointers:
- There's a lot of "I" in there about what you want and think you can offer, sex is a two (or more) person thing that works best when it's about both or all of you.
- You say "I'm many things but not ordinary." - how are you not ordinary? Demonstrate how you're not!!
- You say "I've probably said too much..." - actually you've not said a great deal at all!! You've listed a few positive character traits which to be honest are subjective and also the kind of thing most people would *say* they possess as they sound good, but are the kind of thing someone will only *know* by spending time with you.
- Your pics to be honest remind me more of the kind of thing you'd see on a corporate intranet page introducing team members than the kind of thing designed to attract others for no strings sex - there's nothing wrong with them as such (although your two oldest ones are the same pic just cropped) they're just a bit (that word again) bland.
Have a look round at other well verified guys pics and profiles for ideas of what works, but use it as inspiration rather than just copying.
Other than that, if the whole cold messaging thing isn't working for you - look at other ways to get involved and meet people, just getting involved in the forums is a good way to get to know people, and them you - or clubs and organised socials is another way.
Good luck "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me, the profile is not bad, some variety on pictures would help, semi naked maybe. A bit clearer on what you are looking for in the text. Look at the local competition and see what they have on theirs, to steal ideas.
In general be very active on here, commenting on the forum posts, fabbing local pics, messaging people, checking the meets page and attending clubs.
Get cam verified if you can. Your efforts will pay off and good luck  |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
"Your profile text now isn't too bad. Not amazing, but not a no go. Photos could be more sex and less work, though.
Although honestly if you've been on here years without a meet, I'd delete and start again. "
Exactly this
Many ladies just block guys they aren't interested in so you may find many ladies in your area have already dismissed you. Deleting and starting over may well get past that |
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