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Well now...
1. Bit of a bad username.
2. First thing I see on your profile is that your smoking a joint.
3. Lack of info on your profile.
4. Dick pic, dick pics and more dick pics. Are you a dick on legs or do you have a body to go with them?
Not sure what type of messages your sending so can't help you there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is anyone else not gettin no responses cos of verification? Its impossible to talk to anyone so how will we get verified  "
Yeah, it must be a conspiracy. Fab is just, like, a private party with a cliquey inner circle all fucking each other. It's the only feasible reason. |
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"Is anyone else not gettin no responses cos of verification? Its impossible to talk to anyone so how will we get verified
Yeah, it must be a conspiracy. Fab is just, like, a private party with a cliquey inner circle all fucking each other. It's the only feasible reason."
It's a circle jerk! |
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But seriously.
Your username is juvenile and self congratulatory.
Your pictures are boring.
You've not actually been on the site that long.
Drug use will put many off.
Your profile text is virtually non existent.
Work on those things, probably think about how you message, and your luck might change. |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
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Oh bless you. Have a look at the profiles of some of the dudes on the forums...they tend to be quite decent. Lots of guys do very well here so think about how you can maybe amend your approach to appeal to the Fabarinas. Luck, dude!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely profile. Only uninspiring photos and a lifeless written profile. You'll have to do better than that. You need to sell yourself. What makes you so special |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You messaged me and your message was 'hey'
Nothing inspired me about your profile. Your name was offputting to begin with
You might be on Fabs many months before a meet , don't expect instant sex from this site, women are looking for substance.
Take it easy
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"You messaged me and your message was 'hey'
Nothing inspired me about your profile. Your name was offputting to begin with
You might be on Fabs many months before a meet , don't expect instant sex from this site, women are looking for substance.
Take it easy
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If that's true... Think of messages more like answering a classifieds ad, or a sales pitch.
Messages of less than five words, I'd say I delete 99% of the time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is anyone else not gettin no responses cos of verification? Its impossible to talk to anyone so how will we get verified
Yeah, it must be a conspiracy. Fab is just, like, a private party with a cliquey inner circle all fucking each other. It's the only feasible reason."
yeah man all the woman think there gods gift then haha most of them wouldnt get a look there way in town makes you laugh doesnt it |
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"Is anyone else not gettin no responses cos of verification? Its impossible to talk to anyone so how will we get verified
Yeah, it must be a conspiracy. Fab is just, like, a private party with a cliquey inner circle all fucking each other. It's the only feasible reason.yeah man all the woman think there gods gift then haha most of them wouldnt get a look there way in town makes you laugh doesnt it"
Insulting women on Fab won't get you anywhere, mate...
I know I'm not God's gift. But if I get 50 messages a day (not unusual), why would I choose any of the 45+ idiots who don't read my profile and don't seem bothered as to me as a person? It's not often I fuck more than five guys a day. I can choose. So I do. (and sometimes that choice is me and my hand because I'd rather not) |
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"Is anyone else not gettin no responses cos of verification? Its impossible to talk to anyone so how will we get verified
Yeah, it must be a conspiracy. Fab is just, like, a private party with a cliquey inner circle all fucking each other. It's the only feasible reason.yeah man all the woman think there gods gift then haha most of them wouldnt get a look there way in town makes you laugh doesnt it"
Great attitude donkey fella, you'll be knee deep in clunge before you know it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is anyone else not gettin no responses cos of verification? Its impossible to talk to anyone so how will we get verified
Yeah, it must be a conspiracy. Fab is just, like, a private party with a cliquey inner circle all fucking each other. It's the only feasible reason.yeah man all the woman think there gods gift then haha most of them wouldnt get a look there way in town makes you laugh doesnt it"
Have you heard of sarcasm? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I must admit that the first thought that sprung to mind, without even going anywhere near your profile, was your username is likely a big, big turn off.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry angelina rollie whats holding me back so cos obviously dont need to be decent lookng to get anywhere hahahaha"
Would you like a bigger shovel for that hole you're digging? People have tried to offer advice and now you're insulting them.
You're lucky not all the women on fab read the forum cos every one of them that's read your post is gonna be hitting that block button |
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The insults are rolling off me today, I'm still coming down from yesterday's marathon session I had with a hunk I met from here.
(gauche? Probably. But the guy followed advice from women on Fab and is doing well. And thinks I'm gorgeous) |
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"Is anyone else not gettin no responses cos of verification? Its impossible to talk to anyone so how will we get verified
Yeah, it must be a conspiracy. Fab is just, like, a private party with a cliquey inner circle all fucking each other. It's the only feasible reason.yeah man all the woman think there gods gift then haha most of them wouldnt get a look there way in town makes you laugh doesnt it"
think this thread you started proves that your the one that's not getting a look in...and with that attitude it'll probably stay that way  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The insults are rolling off me today, I'm still coming down from yesterday's marathon session I had with a hunk I met from here.
(gauche? Probably. But the guy followed advice from women on Fab and is doing well. And thinks I'm gorgeous) "
I do too x |
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"The insults are rolling off me today, I'm still coming down from yesterday's marathon session I had with a hunk I met from here.
(gauche? Probably. But the guy followed advice from women on Fab and is doing well. And thinks I'm gorgeous)
I do too x"
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"Sorry angelina rollie whats holding me back so cos obviously dont need to be decent lookng to get anywhere hahahaha"
Think you need to go back to school and learn some manners no wonder we avoid silly children on here I want a real man |
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"Is anyone else not gettin no responses cos of verification? Its impossible to talk to anyone so how will we get verified
Yeah, it must be a conspiracy. Fab is just, like, a private party with a cliquey inner circle all fucking each other. It's the only feasible reason.yeah man all the woman think there gods gift then haha most of them wouldnt get a look there way in town makes you laugh doesnt it"
Look up "irony" in a dictionary.
So what exactly makes you laugh? Come on, earn some more points with the ladies.  |
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Getting looks in town is not exactly a criteria for success. E.g., I would not look at the OP once, let alone twice. At the same time, I get looks from exactly the kind of guys I like, both in and outside the scene.
OP, here goes the best advice for you. Go UNLOS and come back with a different profile and a different attitude.
And yes, I am old, ugly and fat. |
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"The insults are rolling off me today, I'm still coming down from yesterday's marathon session I had with a hunk I met from here.
(gauche? Probably. But the guy followed advice from women on Fab and is doing well. And thinks I'm gorgeous) "
You know what I think..  |
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Also, you know what? Many of the guys I've fucked here wouldn't get a second glance in the street either. But they're friendly, charming, engaging, and trustworthy. Those are much more important for initial replies than looks, for many of us. And some of them are demons in the bedroom. |
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I do sometimes meet guys without verifications
If they put effort into their profile and messages, regardless of newbies -it's always a social first, somewhere 2 minutes from my house, so my time isnt wasted if they don't turn up 
I go home and jump back on fab and might look for someone else
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"I do sometimes meet guys without verifications
If they put effort into their profile and messages, regardless of newbies -it's always a social first, somewhere 2 minutes from my house, so my time isnt wasted if they don't turn up
I go home and jump back on fab and might look for someone else
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Pretty much. I'm trying to sort out a social with a guy who's not meet verified as we speak. I've also cam verified newbies (I don't do this often). |
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Oh shucks I'm almost glad i came back in here.
So the logic appears to be.
"woman not sex me!?"
"woman must be ugly and crazy i have penis!!"
"AH ME SHOUT AT SILLY WOMAN UNTILL KNICKERS COME OFF!"
"me seeeeexxxxxxxaaayyyy"
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"Oh shucks I'm almost glad i came back in here.
So the logic appears to be.
"woman not sex me!?"
"woman must be ugly and crazy i have penis!!"
"AH ME SHOUT AT SILLY WOMAN UNTILL KNICKERS COME OFF!"
"me seeeeexxxxxxxaaayyyy"
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"Is anyone else not gettin no responses cos of verification? Its impossible to talk to anyone so how will we get verified
We??? You have a single male profile...  "
I think that meant, unverified people can't be verified, not we in my profile. |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
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"I do sometimes meet guys without verifications
If they put effort into their profile and messages, regardless of newbies -it's always a social first, somewhere 2 minutes from my house, so my time isnt wasted if they don't turn up
I go home and jump back on fab and might look for someone else
Pretty much. I'm trying to sort out a social with a guy who's not meet verified as we speak. I've also cam verified newbies (I don't do this often). "
Hey, I popped an unveri’s veri cherry a couple of day’s ago! Best social ever and can’t wait to drag him back to my lair, sorry, meet him again . Plus, he’s promised to teach me how to make chicken sour soup.
OP: take heed. He was awesome and fricking gorgeous (in my eyes). I didn’t care that he had no veris. He made me laugh and talked to me as a human being, not just something to get his end away. Just be nice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is anyone else not gettin no responses cos of verification? Its impossible to talk to anyone so how will we get verified
Yeah, it must be a conspiracy. Fab is just, like, a private party with a cliquey inner circle all fucking each other. It's the only feasible reason.yeah man all the woman think there gods gift then haha most of them wouldnt get a look there way in town makes you laugh doesnt it"
And they ate still not interested in you...
Must hurt to he knocked back by women that you hold in such disdain |
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