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Having no luck on here
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Hide your cock pics and send to those people who ask to see them 
Delete the last three paragraphs from your profile text, they’re unnecessary. Concise but precise is all you need, anyone interested will ask for details.
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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OP...it's not luck that will get you a shag here.
It's having the right attitude for swinging.
If you just want to get your dick wet, there are easier ways do it. Swinging is a whole different mindset. |
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"OP...it's not luck that will get you a shag here.
It's having the right attitude for swinging.
If you just want to get your dick wet, there are easier ways do it. Swinging is a whole different mindset."
This |
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"OP...it's not luck that will get you a shag here.
It's having the right attitude for swinging.
If you just want to get your dick wet, there are easier ways do it. Swinging is a whole different mindset."
this but sometimes being at the right place right time help.
You have a nice profile. You have specific interests and age range which is great,it is what you are looking for. But very very much narrows down people who would meet. Not many young single females will just want their picture/video taken with a random stranger.
Hope you find what you looking for. Perseverance is the key.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a little down to luck in my opinion.
I feel lucky that I was online one evening when my long term partner was, on a Facebook app. But I made my own luck by changing my photo to a more provocative one, that caught his eye. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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OP it's not about luck at all, but your attitude, approach and expectations, combined with how your present yourself - get those right and this can be a great place to be, get them wrong and invariably it's frustrating.
You've not asked for profile advice, so I shan't give any, but that's often the first thing that needs adjusting when people state they're not having much "luck" |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"The green arrow is quite telling in this case. i should really get into the habit of looking at this 
The green arrow, often ignored but a wonderful insight when activated "
Got to love that little green arrow!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The green arrow is quite telling in this case. i should really get into the habit of looking at this
The green arrow, often ignored but a wonderful insight when activated
Got to love that little green arrow! "
I forget that the green arrow is a thing!?  |
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We aren't looking for single men, but if we were we wouldn't give you a second glance in fact we wouldn't even read your profile.
No offence but your profile pic is really shite and the other one you look afraid of getting caught or something.
I've no idea what people look for in a single guy but I imagine it will be someone who appears confident but friendly, good looking but not intimidating ?
I don't really pay much attention to other guys photos but when they appear in couples profiles the only ones that make me even pause are usually with clothes, maybe boxers and a classy pose maybe with a towel or something ... then again you probably don't care what I think and my mrs hates photos of men holding cocks. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"It's bloody difficult for a guy on here to get a chat with anyone even if you put on your profile that you are straight or bi and i have been on here for a while now and I have never met anyone "
Your veri suggests otherwise (thumb
As for difficult, it's as difficult as you want to make it - find the right approach, attitude and expectations coupled with a decent profile and pics and, whilst it might not guarantee a thing, it removes any notion of "difficulty" from your head - get any one of those things wrong though and it can seem difficult.
Your experience of the site though, is entirely in your hands |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We aren't looking for single men, but if we were we wouldn't give you a second glance in fact we wouldn't even read your profile.
No offence but your profile pic is really shite and the other one you look afraid of getting caught or something.
I've no idea what people look for in a single guy but I imagine it will be someone who appears confident but friendly, good looking but not intimidating ?
I don't really pay much attention to other guys photos but when they appear in couples profiles the only ones that make me even pause are usually with clothes, maybe boxers and a classy pose maybe with a towel or something ... then again you probably don't care what I think and my mrs hates photos of men holding cocks."
Not everyone is photogenic, or likes having their photo taken, but I to understand where you're coming from. It's all about Marketing, so the OP should play to his strengths..
By the way, the only pics on your profile that might be you, are pics of cocks, so I'm not sure you're in a position to chastise the guy!? |
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"We aren't looking for single men, but if we were we wouldn't give you a second glance in fact we wouldn't even read your profile.
No offence but your profile pic is really shite and the other one you look afraid of getting caught or something.
I've no idea what people look for in a single guy but I imagine it will be someone who appears confident but friendly, good looking but not intimidating ?
I don't really pay much attention to other guys photos but when they appear in couples profiles the only ones that make me even pause are usually with clothes, maybe boxers and a classy pose maybe with a towel or something ... then again you probably don't care what I think and my mrs hates photos of men holding cocks.
Not everyone is photogenic, or likes having their photo taken, but I to understand where you're coming from. It's all about Marketing, so the OP should play to his strengths..
By the way, the only pics on your profile that might be you, are pics of cocks, so I'm not sure you're in a position to chastise the guy!? "
Chastise ???
The gut asked for feedback and he got it !!!
if you read my profile we aren't looking to meet so I'm not marketing myself lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't be disheartened guys ... Keep at it. Get to a club or an organised social event ... You can soon get some varifications if you are prepared to put the work in. Good things come to he who waits . Good luck  |
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"OP...it's not luck that will get you a shag here.
It's having the right attitude for swinging.
If you just want to get your dick wet, there are easier ways do it. Swinging is a whole different mindset."
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"It's bloody difficult for a guy on here to get a chat with anyone even if you put on your profile that you are straight or bi and i have been on here for a while now and I have never met anyone "
People look at profiles first. Start there. |
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"Why is it men get blocked for being honest?
If they not interested it easier to block sometimes then do not show up in search results when looking."
Exactly this! Cut the wheat from the chaff, streamline your local searches down to only the profiles you’re interested in, and sound like you’ll be a match. Then craft an honest, and individual message to the one or two profiles which really grab your attention |
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