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over a year ago
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I really love the thought of blindfolding her and surprising her with another cock as I am the only one she has had. Keeping the blindfold on and then the guy leaves.
The thought of watching her get pleased is my biggest fantasy.
Has anyone done this before and how did it go?
I have mentioned it to her briefly but not exactly told her how much of a burning sensation it is.
Any advice? |
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Agree with everything said above. Please check this is something she will enjoy as, at the end of it all, she's the one who will be sleeping with someone new and she has to be comfortable.
We suggest acting it out with a sex toy. To ease her comfort levels (but also to turn you on) get her to control the sex toy whilst she pleasures you as well.
Build it up by adding in another person's name if that works for you.
Keep talking about it and if it is something she's into then suggest that you are happy to bring someone round for real and then if she agrees to that then you can arrange a surprise date for someone to join you.
However, it might not be the safest way to have your first threesome. Take baby steps, not giant leaps of faith and potential misunderstanding xx |
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"Agree with everything said above. Please check this is something she will enjoy as, at the end of it all, she's the one who will be sleeping with someone new and she has to be comfortable.
We suggest acting it out with a sex toy. To ease her comfort levels (but also to turn you on) get her to control the sex toy whilst she pleasures you as well.
Build it up by adding in another person's name if that works for you.
Keep talking about it and if it is something she's into then suggest that you are happy to bring someone round for real and then if she agrees to that then you can arrange a surprise date for someone to join you.
However, it might not be the safest way to have your first threesome. Take baby steps, not giant leaps of faith and potential misunderstanding xx"
This is amazing advice. Thank you very much x |
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By *isa2018Couple
over a year ago
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This was one of S fantasies so I said I'd arrange it for her. We had a few guys we made contact with so I set aboit arranging one of them to come one evenjng. She dressed up in something hot and I tied her to the bed with a blindfold on. The guy arrived so she heard him come up the stairs etc and everything carried on from there. She couldn't see anything so only had touch to go on as I released her arms and finally her legs. She wasn't allowed to see who it was until we finished with her. She got incredibly horny and loved every minute. The only thing we said we would have changed was to have had the guy leave again so she'd never know who it was. The only problem with that would have been unable to do him a verification for the meet. |
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As a single bloke the only thing I'd add is to bear in mind that if you did this without a LOT of discussion between the two of you first, you potentially put your relationship at risk AND put the other guy in a position where technically he's unwittingly committed an offence. (Extreme end of it I know, but not something to be done lightly as it could change the entire dynamic of everything you have). Obviously everyone is here for the same reason, but absolute consent has to be in place. Good luck - could be amazing! |
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"I really love the thought of blindfolding her and surprising her with another cock as I am the only one she has had. Keeping the blindfold on and then the guy leaves.
The thought of watching her get pleased is my biggest fantasy.
Has anyone done this before and how did it go?
I have mentioned it to her briefly but not exactly told her how much of a burning sensation it is.
Any advice?"
Yes. Tell her not us. |
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"The post was for advice on how to explain to her about the fantasy not carry it out with out her consent"
The problem with that is we don't know her. You're asking this from a couple's profile so can only assume she doesn't access it and will draw certain conclusions from that, rightly or wrongly.
All I can say is sit down with her, tell her how this fantasy excites you and ask her how she feels about it. I genuinely don't know any other way to go about telling a partner about a fantasy other than actually saying it out loud or writing it down for her to read. |
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"The post was for advice on how to explain to her about the fantasy not carry it out with out her consent
The problem with that is we don't know her. You're asking this from a couple's profile so can only assume she doesn't access it and will draw certain conclusions from that, rightly or wrongly.
All I can say is sit down with her, tell her how this fantasy excites you and ask her how she feels about it. I genuinely don't know any other way to go about telling a partner about a fantasy other than actually saying it out loud or writing it down for her to read."
We have spoken about it briefly but I didn't explain how much of a fantasy it is to me. I just need to man up and tell her.
I will keep you updated on my progress |
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"The post was for advice on how to explain to her about the fantasy not carry it out with out her consent
The problem with that is we don't know her. You're asking this from a couple's profile so can only assume she doesn't access it and will draw certain conclusions from that, rightly or wrongly.
All I can say is sit down with her, tell her how this fantasy excites you and ask her how she feels about it. I genuinely don't know any other way to go about telling a partner about a fantasy other than actually saying it out loud or writing it down for her to read.
We have spoken about it briefly but I didn't explain how much of a fantasy it is to me. I just need to man up and tell her.
I will keep you updated on my progress "
There's no need, I think some things are private in a relationship  |
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As said just discuss it she may like the idea. We had a similar conversation about it and looking to try this for her.
