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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Were only looking to attend clubs so others can watch us play and chat to like minded people.
We aren’t into swapping so don’t consider ourselves swingers. Although allowing a girl to join us is on our list.
We are wondering if people would get funny with us as a result within clubs etc? |
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By *dtittyCouple
over a year ago
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Yep it's a hard one isn't it, were not 'swingers` either. Love clubs and sometimes I (mrs) likes to have fun with other ladies.
Last time we were at a club we chatted to a really nice couple, they wanted more but we were very clear we don't swap, then a couple of times when I went to the loo or whatever she'd try it on with the mr. Her reasoning, we were friendly and know one goes to a club and stays within their couple! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Were only looking to attend clubs so others can watch us play and chat to like minded people.
We aren’t into swapping so don’t consider ourselves swingers. Although allowing a girl to join us is on our list.
We are wondering if people would get funny with us as a result within clubs etc?"
Not at all, they have to respect your rules. Lots of swingers only go to socials and clubs then play by themselves.
Good luck xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Rule 1 of swinging: you don't have to play with anyone you don't want to. That applies even if the list of people you don't want to play with is 'everyone'. Some people go to clubs just to socialise, no reason you can't do the same. |
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I went to a couple swingers clubs and I have seen it first hand yeah it does happen at clubs but there isn’t a problem with it. Yeah there is the odd guy or could that make a fuss about it but it’s your rules at the end of the day and it’s up to you. |
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"Were only looking to attend clubs so others can watch us play and chat to like minded people.
We aren’t into swapping so don’t consider ourselves swingers. Although allowing a girl to join us is on our list.
We are wondering if people would get funny with us as a result within clubs etc?"
We love to go and watch big part of the fun. No need to swap (unless you want to  ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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op that sounds like swinging to me no 2 couples are the same stop worrying what other's think and get on and enjoy your self ...the swinging umbrella covers a large area and at least you know what you want as many dont and just stick to your guns at all times ...been on the scene for 23 years now and how we play has changed many many times over those years |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Communicating with people whilst at clubs is the key, too many don’t communicate and when play is initiated especially in open rooms it all goes wrong, unless you communicate then people won’t know your limits, wants and likes |
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Some places have lockable private rooms with viewing windows, so people can watch but not touch.
If you do things more openly, people may ask and there's a risk of being touched, but most will go for gentle arm/leg tap and see how you respond rather than anything super invasive. |
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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago
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"Were only looking to attend clubs so others can watch us play and chat to like minded people.
We aren’t into swapping so don’t consider ourselves swingers. Although allowing a girl to join us is on our list.
We are wondering if people would get funny with us as a result within clubs etc?"
In short no not inside a club, just go into one of the viewing type of rooms. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A lot of couples go to clubs and they will play on the sofas or open beds because they like others watching them, others like yourselfs like others watching and I watched quite a few couples and after they gone in a private room and had sex because they was so turned on my having others watching, you do what you both enjoy doing it’s what turns you two on. So enjoy . |
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