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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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New to fab swingers but not new to swinging. I’m just wondering if you have any suggestions on how to spot fake profiles as I have had a man on offering me his female friend to meet. He won’t show me a photo or anything of the female. I’m thinking the female is imaginary , this man has a few verifications from people with say only 1 cam verification so I’m unsure what’s going on.
Doesn’t seem true maybe I’m thinking too much into it but not going to meet someone I don’t know what they look like |
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"New to fab swingers but not new to swinging. I’m just wondering if you have any suggestions on how to spot fake profiles as I have had a man on offering me his female friend to meet. He won’t show me a photo or anything of the female. I’m thinking the female is imaginary , this man has a few verifications from people with say only 1 cam verification so I’m unsure what’s going on.
Doesn’t seem true maybe I’m thinking too much into it but not going to meet someone I don’t know what they look like "
Trust your gut.
Get a feel for the language of the profile and messages.
Research research research. Follow the verification trail. As an example, saw a profile the other day with 6 verifications from 6 different meets. All phrased very similar, all from Ireland when he himself lived on the south coast of England. May have been perfectly genuine, just looked suspicious....
After a while you get a "feel" for what's right and wrong.
And take your time, don't rush or be rushed. |
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"New to fab swingers but not new to swinging. I’m just wondering if you have any suggestions on how to spot fake profiles as I have had a man on offering me his female friend to meet. He won’t show me a photo or anything of the female. I’m thinking the female is imaginary , this man has a few verifications from people with say only 1 cam verification so I’m unsure what’s going on.
Doesn’t seem true maybe I’m thinking too much into it but not going to meet someone I don’t know what they look like
Trust your gut.
Get a feel for the language of the profile and messages.
Research research research. Follow the verification trail. As an example, saw a profile the other day with 6 verifications from 6 different meets. All phrased very similar, all from Ireland when he himself lived on the south coast of England. May have been perfectly genuine, just looked suspicious....
After a while you get a "feel" for what's right and wrong.
And take your time, don't rush or be rushed."
Good advice, some fakes are more difficult to spot than others but they all reveal themselves in the end |
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There are so many genuine females on this site looking to meet other females. Why do you need a go between? chat with women directly. I don't understand why you're chatting with a man yet your profile states your are looking for females & tv? |
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"New to fab swingers but not new to swinging. I’m just wondering if you have any suggestions on how to spot fake profiles as I have had a man on offering me his female friend to meet. He won’t show me a photo or anything of the female. I’m thinking the female is imaginary , this man has a few verifications from people with say only 1 cam verification so I’m unsure what’s going on.
Doesn’t seem true maybe I’m thinking too much into it but not going to meet someone I don’t know what they look like "
OP just tell him you will chat to his "female friend" if she contacts you from her own profile. Even if she does exercise caution and assume it is just him and she doesn't actually exist. Insist on a phone chat with her before arranging to meet.
There are lots of men on here who try to arrange a meet with a "female friend" and the majority of times the lady can't make it when you arrange to meet but he can still come.
I usually just delete any messages like that. If I want to meet a couple I look at couples profiles, a single man I look at single male profiles and if I was interested in meeting a single lady I would look at single female profiles.
Even so, there are men who masquerade as couples or even a single female so I insist on a social meet in a public place or a club meet for my own safety and peace of mind. |
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