I'm due to do a club today with hubby and we've booked the annual leave, the hotel etc and I've just come on!
As I've got PCOS at the moment it is completely at it's own will I had no idea this would happen. When I do come on it's never heavy it's super light but I'm so worried about what to do now and the etiquette.
My other half is very understanding and if I'm too uncomfortable to go that's fine, but it feels like such a waste.
So what would you do? Would you go anyway, wear a light tampon and do stuff but not have any petting down there, or is it an absolutely no no on a club meet?
Thanks but in advance for your help xxx |
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over a year ago
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Really depends on how you feel.
As you can go to the club,but just soft play. Not engage in full swap play. Use it as a Social side. That way it won't be wasted.
Best of luck in whatever you decide x |
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Sorry to hear of this, fellow pcos sufferer here.
As it's today, you probably wouldn't be able to get your hands on a beppy tampon, which is a sponge tampon with no string you can use and have sex, just have to furtle around getting it out after.
I would suggest going anyway, get to know the club, meet the regulars, have a great social evening with like-minded people all while wearing some sexy lingerie, you can still play privately with your partner if he's ok with it, and you could still do certain things with other people should you have opportunity. There's still chance for a filthy night.
My last club night was social for the same reason but I had a great night meeting lots of new people.
Best of luck x |
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Happened to me last week. Just go and enjoy the social side. You should know your own boundaries if you want to play you can go to a private room x at least if you meet anyone you like you can chat and arrange another meet with them? X enjoy whatever you decide x |
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Thank you so much for the quick replies ladies soooo appreciated!
These beppy tamoobs, are they not sold on the high Street then? Seems like they should be! Whatever we decide to do I'll definitely be stocking up on a few of those for future use!
Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thank you so much for the quick replies ladies soooo appreciated!
These beppy tamoobs, are they not sold on the high Street then? Seems like they should be! Whatever we decide to do I'll definitely be stocking up on a few of those for future use!
Xxx"
Can't say I've seen them in shops but I've not looked. Seen them online and they are expensive for what they are but for an irregular one off instance like this they could come in handy.
A lot of reviews mention difficulty getting them out so just beware. X |
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By *ove and DuckCouple
over a year ago
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"Thank you so much for the quick replies ladies soooo appreciated!
These beppy tamoobs, are they not sold on the high Street then? Seems like they should be! Whatever we decide to do I'll definitely be stocking up on a few of those for future use!
Ebay are the best place to buy them
Xxx"
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They are not available to buy on the High St in the UK, only online.
They are expensive but I think most people who buy them don't use them regularly, only for those times when a regular tampon isn't suitable. I believe many sex workers use them so they can keep working during that time of the month.
I've not used them but from what I've heard they aren't very good if your period is heavy and can be a bit difficult to remove.
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