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"Hi guys bit ov advice really is there anything you can take or do to last longer whilst having intercourse "
You can buy condoms and gel taht depress sensation. Helps you last longer ( discovered this by accident and wondered why I couldn't cum) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1. Don't perve on fab or porn all day before having sex
2. Use a delay condom like Durex Performa, Mutual Pleasure or Extended Pleasure. The numbing agent is inside the condom so only affects him. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
It might help if you define "last longer" OP - the average male in the UK lasts around 5 minutes and you're not considered to suffer from premature ejaculation unless you last less than 2 minutes.
A lot of guys (particularly on here where if you believe everything you read some guys can go all night) think they are "too quick" when actually they are just the same as the majority of blokes.
As others have said, mix things up a little and make intercourse part of your sex life not all of it, there's plenty of other fun to be had besides banging away  |
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Bit extreme, but when I was on antidepressants, I lost the ability to cum altogether. Very frustrating. Girls hated it and thought they couldn’t please me or I didn’t like them.
I find mixing up what you’re doing helps you last as well as training your kegels so you’re in a bit more control of you do go a bit too near the point of no return  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There are various teaching and training techniques in trantic readings that can help with delayed orgasmic pleasures.
Definitely and area to consider.
But as with any training, lots of pratice is required!  |
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Edging. Stop for a few seconds if you feel your going to cum, then go again. If the lady is on top just tell her to stop for a sec... this works well for me and as I take an age to cum I have the opposite problem! Also means you have a very much more intense orgasm.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Codeine (or indeed any opiate), I discovered this by accident when I hurt my back, after 2 days of taking 30 mg of codeine every 6 hours I all of sudden was unable to cum. |
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"Hi guys bit ov advice really is there anything you can take or do to last longer whilst having intercourse "
I take breaks. I like good sex to go on for some time, but interspersed with breaks to rest, talk, build back up again. I'm reasonably in tune with my own body so I can tell if I'm getting over excited.. or out of breath  Or overwhelmed.
There's nothing wrong with calling time out for a bit in my eyes. Failing that, take control and play with their body as yours takes the rest it needs. |
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More sex, I find that the more sex we have the less sensitive I become leading to longer sessions of play.
That and playing bareback with the wife when she isn't on any contraceptives also helps to focus the mind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It might help if you define "last longer" OP - the average male in the UK lasts around 5 minutes and you're not considered to suffer from premature ejaculation unless you last less than 2 minutes.
A lot of guys (particularly on here where if you believe everything you read some guys can go all night) think they are "too quick" when actually they are just the same as the majority of blokes.
As others have said, mix things up a little and make intercourse part of your sex life not all of it, there's plenty of other fun to be had besides banging away "
Five minutes! Blimey. Thank God I haven't experienced the average British male |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Don’t focus on an end goal.
Take timeout to have a laugh, chat, share a drink (and a snack ) play with someone’s hair, stroke their body and then slowly build it up again..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don’t focus on an purposes end goal.
Take timeout to have a laugh, chat, share a drink (and a snack ) play with someone’s hair, stroke their body and then slowly build it up again....."
Roxi you've just sent me on a visual journey gorgeous girl .....
Hope you liked your valentines poem x |
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"1. Don't perve on fab or porn all day before having sex
2. Use a delay condom like Durex Performa, Mutual Pleasure or Extended Pleasure. The numbing agent is inside the condom so only affects him."
Remember using a Performa condom with a girlfriend years ago who took it off me after she'd cum and started giving me a blowjob. Gel transferred to her mouth and her tongue went numb enough to make her start slurring her words slightly. |
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"Hi guys bit ov advice really is there anything you can take or do to last longer whilst having intercourse
You can buy condoms and gel taht depress sensation. Helps you last longer ( discovered this by accident and wondered why I couldn't cum) "
Hhhhmmm honestly ..do they work?
What brand...??
Personally I think , not thrusting like a lunatic does,nt help. Mix up the rhythm, when you feel you about to cum ,that's the time to slow or stop .Better still change positions,or get some more tongue action in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just bang ugly birds?"
That made me LOL.
Just saying; I love the forums!
As for the Op?.. Errmm, i dont really know, i like to mix it up & i do last a little longer.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think perspective and honesty goes a long way in debunking myths of how long men are meant to last, generally men can perform for a long time if theyve consumed alcohol or taken some form of drug, however most women probably dont want a steaming d*unk head showing up at their home wanting all night sex.
Foreplay and sex can lengthen the time. But sometimes the excitement factor takes over and..... Whoops.... Maybe give me half an hour... |
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"Hi guys bit ov advice really is there anything you can take or do to last longer whilst having intercourse "
Take time to enjoy every bit of your partners body, these gives you both a breather and builds tension like nothing else. |
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"Hi guys bit ov advice really is there anything you can take or do to last longer whilst having intercourse "
Get an anti depressant called sertralene it’s an ssri interceptor and doctors also prescribe it for premature ejaculation in men! It’s a side effect trust me depending on dose you will go for hours ! |
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"Honey, natures little Viagra, take a large spoonful everyday after a few weeks you'll be able to go all night just like me, it works im in great demand for it"
this
It's Winnie the pooh |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi guys bit ov advice really is there anything you can take or do to last longer whilst having intercourse "
Think of the mother in law op ....unless she's hot then don't |
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