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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all, partner has expressed an interest in me to perform some anal play on him. I'm quite inexperienced in this area so does anyone have any advice (apart from keep your nails short lol)
TIA x |
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Yeah, pretty much how you would expect your back door to be treated, plenty of lube (maybe some rimming beforehand) and take it slow, I prefer slow and deep rather than fast so go with that to start with and make sure to tell him he has to be vocal to tell you what is working |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Start slowly, caressing his bum cheeks, playing with his balls and stroking his perineum with your fingers. Then move to his ass, starting just by running your fingers around it rather that going in to start with. Lots of lube, patience and contact through the rest of his body.
That's what I like anyway. If you want to practise on another guy first, I'm happy to volunteer  |
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"Hi all, partner has expressed an interest in me to perform some anal play on him. I'm quite inexperienced in this area so does anyone have any advice (apart from keep your nails short lol)
TIA x"
Don’t stop with a finger .... one will lead to two and three .... still... don’t stop ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all, partner has expressed an interest in me to perform some anal play on him. I'm quite inexperienced in this area so does anyone have any advice (apart from keep your nails short lol)
TIA x"
1. Make sure he’s shaved and cleaned his ass.
2. Use plenty of lube
3. Start with a finger and build up to a larger butt plug. Don’t force anything in too big.
4. Get him to breath.
Best of luck  |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
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"Hi all, partner has expressed an interest in me to perform some anal play on him. I'm quite inexperienced in this area so does anyone have any advice (apart from keep your nails short lol)
TIA x"
Try a condom on your finger as he won't want to see you pulling poo from out of your finger nail.
I think you can get a rubber glove. |
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"Hi all, partner has expressed an interest in me to perform some anal play on him. I'm quite inexperienced in this area so does anyone have any advice (apart from keep your nails short lol)
TIA x
Try a condom on your finger as he won't want to see you pulling poo from out of your finger nail.
I think you can get a rubber glove.
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Get a brillo pad between the cheeks scrub scrub ultra clean paper towel one stroke bin and repeat for a dry clean area.
Having done all that procedure to clean hands paper towels or kitchen roll and bin
Apply luby lube and enjoy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all, partner has expressed an interest in me to perform some anal play on him. I'm quite inexperienced in this area so does anyone have any advice (apart from keep your nails short lol)
TIA x
1. Make sure he’s shaved and cleaned his ass.
2. Use plenty of lube
3. Start with a finger and build up to a larger butt plug. Don’t force anything in too big.
4. Get him to breath.
Best of luck "
Some novice questions...
Can you/how do you shave your own ass?
Do you use a douche before rimming? Im assuming you can use a douche on yourself?
The Love honey douche is 2.5 inches wide..isnt that erm well a bit big?
Where do men go to get there ass waxed? |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"Hi all, partner has expressed an interest in me to perform some anal play on him. I'm quite inexperienced in this area so does anyone have any advice (apart from keep your nails short lol)
TIA x
1. Make sure he’s shaved and cleaned his ass.
2. Use plenty of lube
3. Start with a finger and build up to a larger butt plug. Don’t force anything in too big.
4. Get him to breath.
Best of luck
Some novice questions...
Can you/how do you shave your own ass?
Do you use a douche before rimming? Im assuming you can use a douche on yourself?
The Love honey douche is 2.5 inches wide..isnt that erm well a bit big?
Where do men go to get there ass waxed?"
I think you'll find that width measurement is for the bulb of the douche that you squeeze to push water inside you through the, much smaller width, nozzle that is designed to be inserted!!
Yes you can use one on yourself - either laying on your back with your legs pulled up, or standing with one leg up on the side of the bath work well.
Google "Male intimate waxing" for salons near you that offer that service - as for shaving yourself there, I wouldn't know I'm not hairy there. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"What position do you get your man to be in whilst you indulge in anal play?
I've found it a bit awkward thus far."
Depends what kind of anal play you are indulging in - just inserting fingers then any position works really - pegging then all fours doggy style probably works best or him on top.
If you're finding it awkward then either try putting a pillow under his bum, or have him lift his legs up towards his chest. |
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Patience... And the right lube
Don't get water one it dries out quickly.
In my experience spend the money on a better one you use less but it lasts longer. Water bas needs to be topped up all the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all, partner has expressed an interest in me to perform some anal play on him. I'm quite inexperienced in this area so does anyone have any advice (apart from keep your nails short lol)
TIA x"
Go for a fist. Dry.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lube, maybe a small toy
Yeah -Tonka Toys are best"
I will say this over and over why do people think it's funny to post rubbish that's nothing to do with the question.? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lube, maybe a small toy
Yeah -Tonka Toys are best I will say this over and over why do people think it's funny to post rubbish that's nothing to do with the question.?"
Many years ago I dated a girl worked in A&E,I was alarmed at some of the story's she told me of patients with various everyday items lodged up their ass,so I'm not totally surprised someone said a Tonka you.
Nowt strange as folk |
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Many years ago I dated a girl worked in A&E,I was alarmed at some of the story's she told me of patients with various everyday items lodged up their ass,so I'm not totally surprised someone said a Tonka you.
Nowt strange as folk "
Like that bloke who "slipped" off the toilet and onto the big brush which just by chance happened to get stuck up his arse?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lube, maybe a small toy
Yeah -Tonka Toys are best I will say this over and over why do people think it's funny to post rubbish that's nothing to do with the question.?"
He does it all the time.
Thinks he is funny. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do like C playing with my arse licking sucking fingers and small toys have tried a strap on whit C fucking me whilst wanking me off that was hot as fuck x |
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By *ifty69Man
over a year ago
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Quick douche and plenty of lube then get him on all fours and go behind him and as you finger his arse you can wank him off as you do it "
Agree, this makes me cum so intensely and is so fantastic  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was curious once.... Her fingers felt so nice and she was tugging on my cock from behind.... She tried shoving her dildo that was the same size as my cock up my arse slowly without lube.. .. it would not go ... She tried pushing harder ... I Could feel my hole trying it's best not to open ... Then all the sudden it just popped and the dildo just shot right in.... I screamed in pain falling forward and in doing so clenched so hard the dildo flew out my arse and smacked her face.... I did not enjoy it.... I'd recommend smaller toys and lube. |
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"I was curious once.... Her fingers felt so nice and she was tugging on my cock from behind.... She tried shoving her dildo that was the same size as my cock up my arse slowly without lube.. .. it would not go ... She tried pushing harder ... I Could feel my hole trying it's best not to open ... Then all the sudden it just popped and the dildo just shot right in.... I screamed in pain falling forward and in doing so clenched so hard the dildo flew out my arse and smacked her face.... I did not enjoy it.... I'd recommend smaller toys and lube."
I think you just won the Internet today! You painted pictures with words!
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"I was curious once.... Her fingers felt so nice and she was tugging on my cock from behind.... She tried shoving her dildo that was the same size as my cock up my arse slowly without lube.. .. it would not go ... She tried pushing harder ... I Could feel my hole trying it's best not to open ... Then all the sudden it just popped and the dildo just shot right in.... I screamed in pain falling forward and in doing so clenched so hard the dildo flew out my arse and smacked her face.... I did not enjoy it.... I'd recommend smaller toys and lube."
Omg! Lol. That'd put you off! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Massage around his hole before you start pushing fingers in, make him relaxed. When you do push into him have your fingers press against the walls of his anus that will send shivers down his spine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all, partner has expressed an interest in me to perform some anal play on him. I'm quite inexperienced in this area so does anyone have any advice (apart from keep your nails short lol)
TIA x"
I love that.. Always use excessive amounts of lube and play with his hole massaging it with ur fingers before u slide it in slowly while sucking his dick or balls n my case |
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By *d_PrestonMan
over a year ago
Preston, Leyland, Chorley & Blackpool areas |
"Hi all, partner has expressed an interest in me to perform some anal play on him. I'm quite inexperienced in this area so does anyone have any advice (apart from keep your nails short lol)
TIA x"
So TIA, have you and him had the chance to try it out yet? If so how did it go, is he coming back for more or was it more 'tried it, not again thank you'? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love it when I’m getting a blow job and just have pressure applied to that area, if it slips in then great but I think the enjoyment comes from being touched in a area that isn’t usually brought in to play |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love it. Rimming, maybe a small. It plug to tease and get started. Then a finger or two using the beckoning movement so it really starts stimulating my prostate. I have a glass anal dildo I really enjoy too. I’ve recently graduated onto a beautifully curved 8” vibrating dildo which feels awesome. I’m looking forward to that being used with my new harness to get my first pegging. I’ve also go a nice strapless vibrating strap on which is still waiting for it’s first outing, so not sure which one will be the final instrument of pegging initiation.
As for positions I like being on my back with my legs up, while my partner is between my legs either on the bed or kneeling at the edge of the bed. I also like being on all fours or face down with my arse in the air especially for rimming and playing the trombone at the same time. The other position where I felt absolutely helpless, blew my mind and caused me to tap out like a surrendering wrestler was flat on my stomach with my partner sat facing my feet on my back. She then teased and tormented me with whatever she was using. I couldn’t see, so still not sure what she used. Whatever it was I was yelping in pleasure, biting the pilot and tapping out on the bed. Fucking awesome sensations and mind blowing orgasms have been the order of the day from that day, since 
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Do not use the fingering hand as a leaning on hand... I did this with my first bf and halfway through my arm got a little numb so I lifted it.. way too much too fast bf was furious.
Totally accidental at the time but I look back now and snigger cos he was a total prick |
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