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Dose anyone have any idea how I would go about meeting dominant women? I’m a nice lad quite shy and sometimes do get slightly intimidated by women every now and then. But honestly women run the world, I would love to worship a women, in a female led relationship. Weather she’s into pegging humiliation cuckolding anything. I’m just really struggling to come up with any ideas to meet the amazing creatures. Can anyone help? |
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over a year ago
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Best advice would be to Google it there was one site i was using cant remember the name of it now but was pretty much fab but for bdsm fans ill try and find out |
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guessing, dom guys don't like dom women, get intimidated, my experience anyway.
I wouldn't say I'm dom, but defo an alpha woman, and can't be doing with a sub, wimp kinda guy, as there's no challenge |
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"Dose anyone have any idea how I would go about meeting dominant women? I’m a nice lad quite shy and sometimes do get slightly intimidated by women every now and then. But honestly women run the world, I would love to worship a women, in a female led relationship. Weather she’s into pegging humiliation cuckolding anything. I’m just really struggling to come up with any ideas to meet the amazing creatures. Can anyone help? "
Treat a woman like a queen and she will become one! |
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"Dose anyone have any idea how I would go about meeting dominant women? I’m a nice lad quite shy and sometimes do get slightly intimidated by women every now and then. But honestly women run the world, I would love to worship a women, in a female led relationship. Weather she’s into pegging humiliation cuckolding anything. I’m just really struggling to come up with any ideas to meet the amazing creatures. Can anyone help?
Treat a woman like a queen and she will become one!"
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
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The bad news first and this is from talking to sub guys at munches.
Although you have this fantasy and dream,from my experience of talking to people in the London scene sub guys is a hard group to be in. The kink scene is not easy for anyone, however, the number of sub men to the number of dommes is very high. No respectable pro dommes have sexual activity with subs, although some fin dommes might.
Therefore you have to be aware of the interests of any particular domme to whom you may think of applying.
I would suggest being on your best behaviour and looking into and attending one of the organised fem dom nights to see what goes on and to speak to other subs there rather than seeing it as a chance to meet the domme of your dreams. I think it is good to be on fetlife but for the purpose of attending local munches to speak to other subs.
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"guessing, dom guys don't like dom women, get intimidated, my experience anyway.
I wouldn't say I'm dom, but defo an alpha woman, and can't be doing with a sub, wimp kinda guy, as there's no challenge "
I wouldn’t say I’m a wimp, just because I get intimidated by a good looking woman.
I just love handing over control.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I wouldn’t say I’m a wimp, just because I get intimidated by a good looking woman.
I just love handing over control.
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I know what your saying and I don't think you are a wimp.
I've been into femdom and female led relationships for 8 years and had a partner who was legitimately into it.
Someone recomended FETLIFE (bdsm social network)....go to events...
Talk to these women politely like you would any woman you want to date. Picture femdom being like sex (don't mention it too much). |
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I wouldn’t say I’m a wimp, just because I get intimidated by a good looking woman.
I just love handing over control.
I know what your saying and I don't think you are a wimp.
I've been into femdom and female led relationships for 8 years and had a partner who was legitimately into it.
Someone recomended FETLIFE (bdsm social network)....go to events...
Talk to these women politely like you would any woman you want to date. Picture femdom being like sex (don't mention it too much)."
I think I will. thanks for advice I really appreciate it. |
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By *idddleWoman
over a year ago
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As Zensual mentioned the odds are a tad against you, but don’t let that put you off trying specially if your not looking to belong to one woman as many are... there are a lot of switchy girls who enjoy dominating on a one off non permanent basis. Join Fl find your local munch or clubs, peer events etc and go out and meet people is the best way. If you don’t go into it only with purpose of finding a person to play with and jsut make friends and learn from others then if someone comes along it will be a pleasant bonus, in the meantime you can learn a lot and have a fair amount of fun 
There are bdsm dating sites like collarme, but I honestly wouldn’t recommend it full of scammers nowadays l, as is alt and bondage.com, shame the latter was frikkin brilliant in its hayday
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey seriously Op...
If you’re searching for true Dommes stay away from those financial Dommes....
In the last 5 years they have taken over the scene.....
Be very careful |
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"Maybe simply find a reqular partner who you fancy and have stuff in common with and establish a good relationship and communication with then over time slowly find your roles as a couple "
I have done this in the past with previous girlfriends but to no luck. But onwards and upwards I will take all your lovely people advise see where I end up.
By the way I have seen your profile in the past and all I’ve got to say is wow. It’s amazing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey seriously Op...
If you’re searching for true Dommes stay away from those financial Dommes....
In the last 5 years they have taken over the scene.....
Be very careful "
What is a financial domme?  |
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"Hey seriously Op...
If you’re searching for true Dommes stay away from those financial Dommes....
In the last 5 years they have taken over the scene.....
Be very careful
What is a financial domme? "
Paying with cash and gifts to be dommed. |
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"Hey seriously Op...
If you’re searching for true Dommes stay away from those financial Dommes....
In the last 5 years they have taken over the scene.....
Be very careful
What is a financial domme?
Paying with cash and gifts to be dommed. "
that's generally how having a girlfriend / wife works in any capacity  |
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