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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We appear to have been blocked but don't understand it. We were flirting for hours yesterday after we initiated contact as he had looked at us LOADS over a couple of days and we added each other as friends. Today we arranged a meet and when we looked again a couple mins later he had disappeared off friends so tried to access his profile via a saved message but cannot. Why would he block us literally moments after arranging a meet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of folks on here are fantasy chasers, they like to talk the talk, get people interested and then run off. We've had a few "women" do this. Sadly nothing can be done about it, just counter block and move on since we're not allowed to name and shame those who have done it to multiple people. |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
Craggy Island |
"We appear to have been blocked but don't understand it. We were flirting for hours yesterday after we initiated contact as he had looked at us LOADS over a couple of days and we added each other as friends. Today we arranged a meet and when we looked again a couple mins later he had disappeared off friends so tried to access his profile via a saved message but cannot. Why would he block us literally moments after arranging a meet?"
He bottled it or he just wanted his ego rub. |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
Craggy Island |
"We appear to have been blocked but don't understand it. We were flirting for hours yesterday after we initiated contact as he had looked at us LOADS over a couple of days and we added each other as friends. Today we arranged a meet and when we looked again a couple mins later he had disappeared off friends so tried to access his profile via a saved message but cannot. Why would he block us literally moments after arranging a meet?
He bottled it or he just wanted his ego rub."
FYI I wouldn't |
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"A lot of folks on here are fantasy chasers, they like to talk the talk, get people interested and then run off. We've had a few "women" do this. Sadly nothing can be done about it, just counter block and move on since we're not allowed to name and shame those who have done it to multiple people. "
This. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Happens to me alot tbh i get chatting to couples/singles arrange a meet then boom i get blocked for no reason it's frustrating at times but hay thats fab for ya |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He came & he left   .. Naughty boy!
To be honest it happens to EVERYONE from single guys, to couples, to single ladies. Unfortunately it literally is "one of those things". Best not to dwell & move on.
Similiar happened to me recently (single fem), even chatting on phone & getting on loads, then BOOM, delete / block on everything  
Happens but keep smiling & moving forwards, 'tis life is short to dwell..xxx |
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"We appear to have been blocked but don't understand it. We were flirting for hours yesterday after we initiated contact as he had looked at us LOADS over a couple of days and we added each other as friends. Today we arranged a meet and when we looked again a couple mins later he had disappeared off friends so tried to access his profile via a saved message but cannot. Why would he block us literally moments after arranging a meet?"
What you need is someone genuinely single who lives fairly local and is well verified even if he is above your stated age range. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"He got your friends only pictures for his wank bank.  Exactly.
It's typical of a timewaster.
Arranged meet and then disappear and/or block.
Report him."
How do you report someone if you can't access their profile to press the report option? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"He got your friends only pictures for his wank bank. Exactly.
It's typical of a timewaster.
Arranged meet and then disappear and/or block.
Report him.
How do you report someone if you can't access their profile to press the report option? "
Never mind I just found the word report very small and grey on a saved message. Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He got your friends only pictures for his wank bank. Exactly.
It's typical of a timewaster.
Arranged meet and then disappear and/or block.
Report him."
As irritating as his behaviour appears to be I don't think reporting him would make any difference because we actually haven't done anything wrong.
He's just blocked them, if I was reported every time I blocked someone admin would be dealing with at least three or four reports about me a day! |
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"He got your friends only pictures for his wank bank. Exactly.
It's typical of a timewaster.
Arranged meet and then disappear and/or block.
Report him.
As irritating as his behaviour appears to be I don't think reporting him would make any difference because we actually haven't done anything wrong.
He's just blocked them, if I was reported every time I blocked someone admin would be dealing with at least three or four reports about me a day! "
Agree with this, the block feature if anything is a Admin blessing tool, given that if there's no punishment needed, if your ability to reach for the perportaitors on/off switch takes temptation away from them. Admin can then use their time on things they want to do instead.
Call it a no thanks switch if you like.
That's
No thanks to chatting
No thanks to unwanted attention
No thanks to abuse
No thanks to looking at my profile
and best of all
No thanks to all of the above as our/my time is worth more than all that BS and having to involve admin, when I could easily have prevented this through being kind to yourselves by taking the high ground for your own standards.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He got your friends only pictures for his wank bank. Exactly.
It's typical of a timewaster.
Arranged meet and then disappear and/or block.
Report him."
report him for what? shooting his load or changing his mind? can't see where either if those are against the site rules... |
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Sadly it is a fact of life on here.
A lot like the idea (fantasy) but panic when they have to face reality. It is not reflection on you but on their cowardice and of the consequences of his wife finding out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He got your friends only pictures for his wank bank. Exactly.
It's typical of a timewaster.
Arranged meet and then disappear and/or block.
Report him.
As irritating as his behaviour appears to be I don't think reporting him would make any difference because we actually haven't done anything wrong.
He's just blocked them, if I was reported every time I blocked someone admin would be dealing with at least three or four reports about me a day! Agree with this, the block feature if anything is a Admin blessing tool, given that if there's no punishment needed, if your ability to reach for the perportaitors on/off switch takes temptation away from them. Admin can then use their time on things they want to do instead.
Call it a no thanks switch if you like.
That's
No thanks to chatting
No thanks to unwanted attention
No thanks to abuse
No thanks to looking at my profile
and best of all
No thanks to all of the above as our/my time is worth more than all that BS and having to involve admin, when I could easily have prevented this through being kind to yourselves by taking the high ground for your own standards.
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I agree with that accept the abuse part.
if somebody is abusive to you then absolutely you should report them.
Nobody should be receiving abusive messages and that is what the report button is there for, because let's be honest we don't want abusive people on the site and I'm sure admin don't either.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"He got your friends only pictures for his wank bank. Exactly.
It's typical of a timewaster.
Arranged meet and then disappear and/or block.
Report him.
As irritating as his behaviour appears to be I don't think reporting him would make any difference because we actually haven't done anything wrong.
He's just blocked them, if I was reported every time I blocked someone admin would be dealing with at least three or four reports about me a day! "
That's true, us too as we block loads |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks everyone, I think we can close this down now, I am over it thanks to all your reassurances it is not unusual, oh well if he has nothing better to do than chat online only to block the person he chatted to, ergo not getting the sex at the end of it that's his problem, at least we didn't waste time going for a meet. I'm over it now. Thanks again |
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"He got your friends only pictures for his wank bank. Exactly.
It's typical of a timewaster.
Arranged meet and then disappear and/or block.
Report him.
As irritating as his behaviour appears to be I don't think reporting him would make any difference because we actually haven't done anything wrong.
He's just blocked them, if I was reported every time I blocked someone admin would be dealing with at least three or four reports about me a day! Agree with this, the block feature if anything is a Admin blessing tool, given that if there's no punishment needed, if your ability to reach for the perportaitors on/off switch takes temptation away from them. Admin can then use their time on things they want to do instead.
Call it a no thanks switch if you like.
That's
No thanks to chatting
No thanks to unwanted attention
No thanks to abuse
No thanks to looking at my profile
and best of all
No thanks to all of the above as our/my time is worth more than all that BS and having to involve admin, when I could easily have prevented this through being kind to yourselves by taking the high ground for your own standards.
I agree with that accept the abuse part.
if somebody is abusive to you then absolutely you should report them.
Nobody should be receiving abusive messages and that is what the report button is there for, because let's be honest we don't want abusive people on the site and I'm sure admin don't either.
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Again we agree with you.
The point was that if certain people aren't your flavour, then having used certain tools, you'll not get those comments from an outside of your interest type person. Hopefully those that do message, do so having fallen into your general area of "wants" and with further dialogue, hopefully you (fab collective, not you personally) will be better placed to investigate and weddle out those that are likely to be turning up.
Of course abuse should be reported, there's no place for that anywhere. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We appear to have been blocked but don't understand it. We were flirting for hours yesterday after we initiated contact as he had looked at us LOADS over a couple of days and we added each other as friends. Today we arranged a meet and when we looked again a couple mins later he had disappeared off friends so tried to access his profile via a saved message but cannot. Why would he block us literally moments after arranging a meet?"
Draw a line under that and carry on  some are just ego chasers good luck next time x |
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