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Is 21 to young to get into swinging?.
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I am currently looking for a experienced couple to introduce me to swinging, but I am currently finding it difficult and I am starting to think it may be because I am 21...
what’s everyone’s opinion?
Thanks in advance |
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"I am currently looking for a experienced couple to introduce me to swinging, but I am currently finding it difficult and I am starting to think it may be because I am 21...
what’s everyone’s opinion?
Thanks in advance "
No one is here to be a teacher. That’s my opinion |
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"I am currently looking for a experienced couple to introduce me to swinging, but I am currently finding it difficult and I am starting to think it may be because I am 21...
what’s everyone’s opinion?
Thanks in advance "
Think at 21 it’s more called ‘playing the field’ than swinging
Just enjoy life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is the perfect age for swinging....lots of couples like real young guys.... I would suggest saving a few schillings.....
It’s not attractive to ask couples/women to pay for things.... not saying you do this.... just a heads up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I joined here when i was 20 but met my man within days.
Don't think i was too young but maybe females more mature than guys.
Been a couple for 4 years now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are plenty of people close to your age on here, so why not.
Just accept that your age may be a factor to many older people on here. Mainly due to trouble with time wasters.
I don't know why you've been advised to save money. I wouldn't waste it on clubs and that's the only expense, bar petrol money and buying the odd drink which is nearly always reciprocated.
If you mean swinging as in 'The more social side to sex' Then you're never too young, unless you really are too young  If it's just sex, fetish chasing, or dating, you're also not too young in my opinion.
One of my fantasies is.. once I fall for someone. To bring in younger swingers and blow their sexual socks off with the assistance of my beautiful partner. Whether that's realistic or not, remains to be seen, but it won't stop me looking. |
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Hello OP.
There is nothing wrong with your age, and there is nothing you can do about it anyway. So embrace it.
Some people will not want to meet with you simply because of your age. However, there are many that will. Use the search facility to find local people interested in younger guys of your age.
If it wasn't for the 800+ mile round trip we'd be interested. So surely there will be someone local who will be interested too? |
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"I am currently looking for a experienced couple to introduce me to swinging, but I am currently finding it difficult and I am starting to think it may be because I am 21...
what’s everyone’s opinion?
Thanks in advance
Think at 21 it’s more called ‘playing the field’ than swinging
Playing the field. Bang on there. Lol.
Just enjoy life "
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"I am currently looking for a experienced couple to introduce me to swinging, but I am currently finding it difficult and I am starting to think it may be because I am 21...
what’s everyone’s opinion?
Thanks in advance
No one is here to be a teacher. That’s my opinion"
Agreed. But plenty are here to act out their fantasies involving fit young men. |
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"I am currently looking for a experienced couple to introduce me to swinging, but I am currently finding it difficult and I am starting to think it may be because I am 21...
what’s everyone’s opinion?
Thanks in advance
No one is here to be a teacher. That’s my opinion"
This is exactly what we thought when we saw this.
Seems a lot of this age group joining lately.
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"What be more fun is find a 21 year old female and discover swinging and what swinging you enjoy together."
Assuming that they get on, want to be a couple, want to swing, and want to meet similar people... |
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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago
sheffield |
"I am currently looking for a experienced couple to introduce me to swinging, but I am currently finding it difficult and I am starting to think it may be because I am 21...
what’s everyone’s opinion?
Thanks in advance "
Sounds like you just want a threesome which isn’t really swinging in the true sense of the word but gd luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And your profile says you are looking for a single woman but here you are saying you're looking for a couple. Don't think you have a clue what you want apart from getting your dick wet. "
Give the guy a break.... we were all 21 at some point.... |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"And your profile says you are looking for a single woman but here you are saying you're looking for a couple. Don't think you have a clue what you want apart from getting your dick wet. "
Who doesn't wanna get their dick wet though?
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Maturity levels vary vastly at 21. You'll be what some people are looking for and not for others. For me, I rule people out based on age on profiles but if I met someone outside of my preferred age range in a club or at a party, I'm not going to question their age if I like them. I'll add to that though that I really can't imagine me liking anyone so young  if I did, I'd be asking for id
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"I am currently looking for a experienced couple to introduce me to swinging, but I am currently finding it difficult and I am starting to think it may be because I am 21...
what’s everyone’s opinion?
Thanks in advance "
Send us a message. We might be able to point you in the right direction. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s totally up to you when you start swinging there was a guy I was chatting to at the club was 19 but i see couples in there 20s in the clubs I think with the internet and the porn they see, so now young couples and singles are getting into swinging, it was normally people who been married a long time and wanted to spice up there sex life. But why not it’s nice to have mixed age groups swinging |
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Going to clubs and parties and swinging in that sense is fine at any age over 18, but don't expect many couples to be interested, being young definitely makes things difficult on this site, young women are interested in older men, and older women are interested in men their age, patients is the best thing to have when doing this kind of thing |
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I've met guys at your age who surprised me at how good they are. They never talked/mentioned about their age.
If you think you are too young, then maybe you are OP.
Just enjoy yourself whenever you are ready.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile doesn't tell much about you. Put up a couple of photos and write a few words about yourself, what you're after that might help a little bit too. Be polite and respectful that's very much appreciated. If you're mentally mature and patient good things will come to you! |
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By *opinovMan
over a year ago
Point Nemo, Cumbria |
"I am currently looking for a experienced couple to introduce me to swinging, but I am currently finding it difficult and I am starting to think it may be because I am 21...
what’s everyone’s opinion?
Thanks in advance
No one is here to be a teacher. That’s my opinion"
I'm perfectly happy to fill that role. 
21 year olds apply within..!!   |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
Every day is a school day on here. Never too old or young to learn. I didn’t get into it until a few years ago and no one looked at me as the ‘student’.
As already advised go to clubs and socials and meet a few people. Find your feet and see what you like. There’s a whole world of sex, kink, fetishes to explore. Watch Sexcetera, I found that an interesting programme about swinging, fetishes, etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Age is immaterial in a club as its usually about the person in total not how old they are. We personally wouldn't search for your age group as we have kids a lot older than you but in a club who knows. Whatever happens don't have expectations and just enjoy the process. Male |
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By *iway2016Man
over a year ago
The CF post code |
I wouldn't say it's too young to start swinging but do be prepared for many a knock back about your age. Its difficult enough for most single guys to establish a rapport with potential meets, but someone of your age may find it a bigger challenge. Good luck though.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your age is in many respects your greatest asset and greatest weekness OP.
Some will find you too young others will embrace and desire it.
Iam 44, 45 this year and face the cull of the filters blocking me out, iam also finding that i am already outside the desired parameters of many that i look at but not all. So, a small piece of advice from me to you that i have aquired from being on here and you may see it around,
Some will, some wont....
It applies to pretty much everything on here be it wierd kinky fetish to age to whatever.
Enjoy the site for what it is  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I started at 20 and was totally fine, lots of interest, had some great meets etc.
But I’m also female. "
I also didn’t join so a couple could show me the ropes, teach me, whatever....I doubt anyone would want to ‘work on’ someone when they could meet someone experienced  |
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"I am currently looking for a experienced couple to introduce me to swinging, but I am currently finding it difficult and I am starting to think it may be because I am 21...
what’s everyone’s opinion?
Thanks in advance "
But you don't have a profile presence here at all....unless you think "Xxxx" tells us all there is to know! |
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"I am currently looking for a experienced couple to introduce me to swinging, but I am currently finding it difficult and I am starting to think it may be because I am 21...
what’s everyone’s opinion?
Thanks in advance "
Op I’d venture to say that your age is NOT why you’re finding it difficult...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m 21 and whilst it’s definately an eye opener, I don’t consider myself too young to be on here.
I do prefer to only meet older guys though hence our age gap haha
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am currently looking for a experienced couple to introduce me to swinging, but I am currently finding it difficult and I am starting to think it may be because I am 21...
what’s everyone’s opinion?
Thanks in advance
Op I’d venture to say that your age is NOT why you’re finding it difficult......"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We dipped our toes and opened our eyes by attending a club at first roughly the same age as your self, we did not swing as it was a little overwhelming but Every one is different, my advise is, do what you want be safe and enjoy your self. |
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I’d be excited at the thought of my partner with a 21 year old, I’d be excited for him getting his Mrs Robinson fantasy too
But quite rightly she reminded me we are hear to learn and share- not teach |
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By *m35279Woman
over a year ago
belfast |
Legally you're old enough to do any legal sexual act you want.
If it feels right or wrong for you, that's something more to do with getting to know yourself better than your age.
Developing your self-awareness is key to knowing what is right or wrong for you. |
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