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Can anyone tell me why some men in here feel the need to send abusive messages then instantly block you?
Not everyone is into the same things so either don't look or move on.
I like to think we are all adults, well most lol.
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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago
Bristol East |
Congratulations, you are identifying people with problems and can erase them from your life.
There are gems in here. You just have to wade through dross sometimes to find them.
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
Fabville |
Because they get pissy when you say 'no'.
*not all men, I must say.. |
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Because you’re the third rejection that day, and when they look in the mirror, it’s George Clooney looking back at them. So how could you have the temerity to turn them down 
Sad gits  |
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"Because you’re the third rejection that day, and when they look in the mirror, it’s George Clooney looking back at them. So how could you have the temerity to turn them down
Sad gits "
Some of them are like this on their first rejection. |
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"Can anyone tell me why some men in here feel the need to send abusive messages then instantly block you?
Not everyone is into the same things so either don't look or move on.
I like to think we are all adults, well most lol.
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Lol I've had copy and paste message and other messages ( Wasnt abusive) but blocked straight after so couldn't even reply ... I mean why would a man do that lol talk about stupid I may have wanted to meet x |
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Lol it does make me laugh. Obviously they lost their balls that's why they block you ?? |
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It's not only men that send them, I had one of a woman today! All i can say is what the hell! How, why, what and before I could reply BLOCKED
Seriously why oh why? |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
Near Marlborough |
I have only ever had one really quite vile message in full on attack mode (as opposed to just twattish)...... it was from a woman’s profile.
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"It's not only men that send them, I had one of a woman today! All i can say is what the hell! How, why, what and before I could reply BLOCKED
Seriously why oh why?"
Lol some strange people in this world xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Forgive my rant but it really pisses me off hearing about abusive messages when respectful guys can't even get even the briefest of chats. I personally can't think of anything more cringe worthy than being offensive to someone over a little rejection.
Boils me blood it does  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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White knighting is more cringey  |
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"Forgive my rant but it really pisses me off hearing about abusive messages when respectful guys can't even get even the briefest of chats. I personally can't think of anything more cringe worthy than being offensive to someone over a little rejection.
Boils me blood it does "
It's not the abusive msg or even the way we get treat on here hun if you are not what a lady is looking for we wont go into conversation there really is no point if it's going to go no where or could lead to upset so it's best to say nothing and move on men on here take it too personally but when you do get msg for the right reason .... not because you tried to engage her into convo then get upset when she has to say sorry not going to happen you know it could go somewhere but its NEVER a guarantee I've chatted to men on here who seem really charming then after a few msg the ugly side comes out x then the block button comes into play x hope that makes sense I'm not really good of putting my msg across lol |
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"White knighting is more cringey "
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By *eelouWoman
over a year ago
Glasgow |
It is a real shame for the genuine nice guys.
I had a really abusive message when I said thank you but no thanks.
I just hope these horrible people are dealt with as I know the ones I've had are still on here (my mate looked for me) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Forgive my rant but it really pisses me off hearing about abusive messages when respectful guys can't even get even the briefest of chats. I personally can't think of anything more cringe worthy than being offensive to someone over a little rejection.
Boils me blood it does
It's not the abusive msg or even the way we get treat on here hun if you are not what a lady is looking for we wont go into conversation there really is no point if it's going to go no where or could lead to upset so it's best to say nothing and move on men on here take it too personally but when you do get msg for the right reason .... not because you tried to engage her into convo then get upset when she has to say sorry not going to happen you know it could go somewhere but its NEVER a guarantee I've chatted to men on here who seem really charming then after a few msg the ugly side comes out x then the block button comes into play x hope that makes sense I'm not really good of putting my msg across lol "
Perfect sense |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"White knighting is more cringey
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You prefer abusive messages than a bit of cringe?  |
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