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Hi it’s our first time at a club slightly nervous but very excited but ......
What should we expect ???
How do you tell people you don’t want to play without offending them and will people approach us ??? |
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"Hi it’s our first time at a club slightly nervous but very excited but ......
What should we expect ???
How do you tell people you don’t want to play without offending them and will people approach us ??? "
Tell them you don’t want to play, whether you offend them or not, and if people are interested they will approach you, just like I’m sure you’ll approach people if you’re interested. Good luck  |
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Looking at your pics you will definitely be approached but it all normally starts with chit chat and its all very normal then they might ask if you want to play. This is when you say yes no maybe later its all good what ever or you might be playing and they should ask do you mind if we join in again thats your call. Some go to play so go to watch some go the play as a cpl and watch and be watched. No two cpls will be there with the same agender so it doesnt matter what you do or dont do just relaxe and take your time so you enjoy your night out.
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"Hi it’s our first time at a club slightly nervous but very excited but ......
What should we expect ???
How do you tell people you don’t want to play without offending them and will people approach us ??? "
I don't think ANYONE is nerve free on their first visit to a club!!
Expect--friendly, normal (mostly) people.
People will definitely approach you! You'll get offers, but there shouldn't be any pressure whatsoever. Staff are there to help if anyone gets pushy. Other patrons always step in, too, I've found. No one likes their fun place thought of as a place for idiots.
If you're uncomfortable with an outright no, at first, a friendly "thanks, we're just checking this out right now" should be enough to give you space.
Clubs are a lot of fun, hope you really enjoy your first time! |
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We find the most common approach is to sit, drink and chat and if it's a couple they will say they are off to a room and if you would like to join them you can. Most couples will appreciate you are new and nervous and therefore will not initiate any play in the room until you do. It's all very respectful. |
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We found it quite surreal
The next days recollection was similar to having watched a porno film the night before.
The second time was much more enjoyable (even though it was the very next night)
We were approached twice, first time by a single man who was a cheeky cunt when we said no thanks and the second time by a male half of a couple who just smiled and turned away |
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