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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i always say leave the human body alone
you might meet the girl of your dreams who wants a baby
a multi millioniare might offer you a chunk for your spunk lol |
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"i always say leave the human body alone
you might meet the girl of your dreams who wants a baby
a multi millioniare might offer you a chunk for your spunk lol"
If I met the man of my dreams and he wanted kids, I'd run a mile. If you don't want (more) kids, that shouldn't be negotiable.
OP, I've heard some have it easy and others really suffer. I'm afraid there's no one answer. |
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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago
Manchester |
"Thinking of getting a Vasectomy
What’s people Experience like pain and what it like any long pain or sex after"
A friend of mine had a prob and his balls swelled up to the size of 2 grapefruits! Not the norm granted but it can happen temporary.  |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"Thinking of getting a Vasectomy
What’s people Experience like pain and what it like any long pain or sex after
A friend of mine had a prob and his balls swelled up to the size of 2 grapefruits! Not the norm granted but it can happen temporary. "
Happened to a friend's hubby, she said he's balls looked like an aubergine  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They do them where I work. The guys walk out like nothing has happened. Apparently the dentist is worse."
That's probably because dentists aren't really qualified to do vasectomies  |
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"Thinking of getting a Vasectomy
What’s people Experience like pain and what it like any long pain or sex after"
My ex outright refused to have a vasectomy; in order to ensure I would never have more kids, I had to undergo major surgery. I HIGHLY respect any man willing to undergo a minor local procedure so that a woman doesn't have to go through general anesthesia and surgery.
I also agree with above poster, if you know you don't want more kids, your choice, no one else's business.
OK, those didn't answer your question--but good luck, hope it goes well for you. |
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By *ldaCouple
over a year ago
sutton Coldfield |
I had it at 32. No problems at all, bit of swelling for a couple of days. I don't feel any less of a man because of it.
Only use as a contraceptive with partner though. Most meets will still expect you to play safe. |
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"Thinking of getting a Vasectomy
What’s people Experience like pain and what it like any long pain or sex after"
Had mine 10 years ago and haven’t looked back. Drove in and out, was there for 45 mins. Local anaesthetic, felt it but no pain, just like crunching of grissle haha. Then a dull nausea like I’d been kicked in the knackers the day before.
Told to rest up for about a week. I can’t remeber how long you have to wait before ejaculating again. Think it was about 6 weeks, though 12 rings a bell, not sure why...then you have to have a few samples tested to make sure you’re firing blanks and you’re good to go. Whole thing takes between 3 and 6 months.
I love it. Long term partners love it too, get checked at the beginning of a relationship and of you go!!! |
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"Thinking of getting a Vasectomy
What’s people Experience like pain and what it like any long pain or sex after
Had mine 10 years ago and haven’t looked back. Drove in and out, was there for 45 mins. Local anaesthetic, felt it but no pain, just like crunching of grissle haha. Then a dull nausea like I’d been kicked in the knackers the day before.
Told to rest up for about a week. I can’t remeber how long you have to wait before ejaculating again. Think it was about 6 weeks, though 12 rings a bell, not sure why...then you have to have a few samples tested to make sure you’re firing blanks and you’re good to go. Whole thing takes between 3 and 6 months.
I love it. Long term partners love it too, get checked at the beginning of a relationship and of you go!!! "
The 12 weeks is how long you have to wait to produce the sample for testing. You can ejaculate again as soon as you're no longer sore. If anything you want to do so as much a possible to "clear things out" before you produce the sample as sperm can stick around in the pipework for quite a while and effect the results. How's that for an excuse!  |
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"Thinking of getting a Vasectomy
What’s people Experience like pain and what it like any long pain or sex after
Had mine 10 years ago and haven’t looked back. Drove in and out, was there for 45 mins. Local anaesthetic, felt it but no pain, just like crunching of grissle haha. Then a dull nausea like I’d been kicked in the knackers the day before.
Told to rest up for about a week. I can’t remeber how long you have to wait before ejaculating again. Think it was about 6 weeks, though 12 rings a bell, not sure why...then you have to have a few samples tested to make sure you’re firing blanks and you’re good to go. Whole thing takes between 3 and 6 months.
I love it. Long term partners love it too, get checked at the beginning of a relationship and of you go!!!
The 12 weeks is how long you have to wait to produce the sample for testing. You can ejaculate again as soon as you're no longer sore. If anything you want to do so as much a possible to "clear things out" before you produce the sample as sperm can stick around in the pipework for quite a while and effect the results. How's that for an excuse! "
Well, it was 10 years ago...  |
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"Thinking of getting a Vasectomy
What’s people Experience like pain and what it like any long pain or sex after
Had mine 10 years ago and haven’t looked back. Drove in and out, was there for 45 mins. Local anaesthetic, felt it but no pain, just like crunching of grissle haha. Then a dull nausea like I’d been kicked in the knackers the day before.
Told to rest up for about a week. I can’t remeber how long you have to wait before ejaculating again. Think it was about 6 weeks, though 12 rings a bell, not sure why...then you have to have a few samples tested to make sure you’re firing blanks and you’re good to go. Whole thing takes between 3 and 6 months.
I love it. Long term partners love it too, get checked at the beginning of a relationship and of you go!!!
The 12 weeks is how long you have to wait to produce the sample for testing. You can ejaculate again as soon as you're no longer sore. If anything you want to do so as much a possible to "clear things out" before you produce the sample as sperm can stick around in the pipework for quite a while and effect the results. How's that for an excuse!
Well, it was 10 years ago... "
And I imagine many ejaculations since haha! |
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"Thinking of getting a Vasectomy
What’s people Experience like pain and what it like any long pain or sex after
Had mine 10 years ago and haven’t looked back. Drove in and out, was there for 45 mins. Local anaesthetic, felt it but no pain, just like crunching of grissle haha. Then a dull nausea like I’d been kicked in the knackers the day before.
Told to rest up for about a week. I can’t remeber how long you have to wait before ejaculating again. Think it was about 6 weeks, though 12 rings a bell, not sure why...then you have to have a few samples tested to make sure you’re firing blanks and you’re good to go. Whole thing takes between 3 and 6 months.
I love it. Long term partners love it too, get checked at the beginning of a relationship and of you go!!!
The 12 weeks is how long you have to wait to produce the sample for testing. You can ejaculate again as soon as you're no longer sore. If anything you want to do so as much a possible to "clear things out" before you produce the sample as sperm can stick around in the pipework for quite a while and effect the results. How's that for an excuse!
Well, it was 10 years ago...
And I imagine many ejaculations since haha!"
Are you imagining?? You’d be right as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thinking of getting a Vasectomy
What’s people Experience like pain and what it like any long pain or sex after"
I’m local to you, happy to chat about it whilst we play!?! D x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had one 16 years ago and I’ve had no issues still works just fine. But they would not give me one until I turned 30. They refused me one at age 28 and then it was a struggle to persuade them.
You have make sure you no longer want kids no matter if you change partner.
But the opp was fine the wife came into watch a drove me home with a smile going over all the speed bumps. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had one - we have four children 
I have found that orgasms are not the same.. I don’t have the ‘shakey or wobbly, weak’ leg feeling after a really intense orgasm. While they are pleasurable and I know I have cum it’s not the same.. psychological? Perhaps.. but not the same.. |
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