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Would love some advice for a newbie
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We are at different angles on what we want,I am new to this site and lifestyle my partner is the one who controls it but we are trying to enjoy some new experiences,
I feel I would love to chat with another couple to put me at ease,just as friends for now or a female who can relax me and help me to understand everything.
Sorry if I am naive and sound simple .
I would like to speak whilst I am alone if that is ok . |
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over a year ago
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"Its the other way round, im asking her to ask questions,but this is helping she is asking me more and questioning stuff.
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You keep repeating yourself.
What questions does she have OP? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See he has jumped in
Can I reply privately and hope send my phone number if that's ok"
I don’t mind a pm but I don’t exchange numbers. Happy to help as anyone else would be on the forums but if you want proper help then ask on here. |
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Honestly, you saying your partner 'controls' this is concerning. So is the jumping in on a forum thread and you feeling like you need to talk to someone without him being part of it and not being able to do that on here even if it is a joint account and he can see it.
It sounds like you maybe need to talk about this between you and think about it all. Maybe set up single profile to message people to talk about it all? Happy for you to message me/us if you do.
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over a year ago
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I'd say talk to each other and lay down some ground rules.
What you both want to get out of it
What you feel comfortable with
What your not prepared to do
Start off with basic rules and boundaries and add as you progress into the lifestyle
Its got to be mutual as its not just about 1 person. You both need to be happy with what you engage in
Start off with a newbie night and just go to watch if your not comfortable with playing straight away
Clubs are a little safer as it eliminates the catfish element of inviting a stranger to your home although you could meet at a pub or restaurant prior to get a feel for someone.
Hope this helps
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"We are at different angles on what we want,I am new to this site and lifestyle my partner is the one who controls it but we are trying to enjoy some new experiences,
I feel I would love to chat with another couple to put me at ease,just as friends for now or a female who can relax me and help me to understand everything.
Sorry if I am naive and sound simple .
I would like to speak whilst I am alone if that is ok ."
But why can’t your partner do this for you?
You need to chat to each other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Read it properly folks, it's her who is in control and he would like to speak to a woman to relax him. Far be it from me to judge and assume he wants a wank.lol"
Got it now |
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