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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So, it's very rare for me (Mercy here, hi) to start off a conversation by sending a message first, yet I find that when I do it's always to people who's age preference is older than my age.
Do i carry on messaging anyways and not respecting their preference, or do I just not bother?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can block an age. I have filters set. Someone viewed my profile last week, a lower age then I’ve set, and put a comment with my name in his status for me to message him.
I’d seen people doing that before and wondered why they did- but I get it now. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You can block an age. I have filters set. Someone viewed my profile last week, a lower age then I’ve set, and put a comment with my name in his status for me to message him.
I’d seen people doing that before and wondered why they did- but I get it now. "
That a drastic!! I didn't know you could block ages ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You've set age preferences in your profile. Would you appreciate someone ignoring that and messaging you anyway? "
Good point.
Wouldnt bother me personally as it happens constantly. The way id think about it would be 'ok I dont want somebody too young, but if somebody from that category tickles my fancy then that's great' |
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By *ara MTV/TS
over a year ago
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"It’s the opposite for me. Many like 25-45.
I turned 46 last summer 
Oh hun, I'd say try our luck anyways, but is that rude ???"
If they have a filter you can’t, also I wouldn’t.
I have filters too so I respect people’s choices.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It’s the opposite for me. Many like 25-45.
I turned 46 last summer
Oh hun, I'd say try our luck anyways, but is that rude ???
If they have a filter you can’t, also I wouldn’t.
I have filters too so I respect people’s choices.
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Ok, well that's cleared it up for me then! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s the opposite for me. Many like 25-45.
I turned 46 last summer
Oh hun, I'd say try our luck anyways, but is that rude ???
If they have a filter you can’t, also I wouldn’t.
I have filters too so I respect people’s choices.
Ok, well that's cleared it up for me then! "
Glad I'm in your age range  |
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By *ara MTV/TS
over a year ago
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Before I used the filter I was inundated with cock picks and fancy a fuck messages from men.
Granted my sex life would be more active if I swung that way but, I don’t.
Mind you my inbox is so much quieter since I blocked men  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Before I used the filter I was inundated with cock picks and fancy a fuck messages from men.
Granted my sex life would be more active if I swung that way but, I don’t.
Mind you my inbox is so much quieter since I blocked men "
Lol! So if i until a box for genders then that automatically blocks a gender? And if i say I'm interested in a certain age group, anyone out of that age group is automatically blocked? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The whole thing confused me, because I have people messaging me wanting to arrange meets yet I'm like 5 or 10 years younger than their preference ??
Is this just a guideline to a lot of people, is it not really taken that seriously ? |
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We don't mind messages from people outside our age range, either end of the scale. We set ours as a rough idea. I know it's a phrase used all too often but age really is just a number. For us age is mental rather than physical, if you don't ask you don't get, nothing to lose. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We don't mind messages from people outside our age range, either end of the scale. We set ours as a rough idea. I know it's a phrase used all too often but age really is just a number. For us age is mental rather than physical, if you don't ask you don't get, nothing to lose. "
Thanks, that's exactly how I believe it should be! Like take me and Stevo for example, we would never expect a 31 year age gap in a relationship. Age is definitely mental rather than physical!!!  |
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By *olexMan
over a year ago
Hull |
"So, it's very rare for me (Mercy here, hi) to start off a conversation by sending a message first, yet I find that when I do it's always to people who's age preference is older than my age.
Do i carry on messaging anyways and not respecting their preference, or do I just not bother?
Thank you :D"
If you're really keen then just go for it. The worst they can say is no! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So, it's very rare for me (Mercy here, hi) to start off a conversation by sending a message first, yet I find that when I do it's always to people who's age preference is older than my age.
Do i carry on messaging anyways and not respecting their preference, or do I just not bother?
Thank you :D
If you're really keen then just go for it. The worst they can say is no!"
Thank you, atleast rejection is still an answer lol.
My main 'worry' - if you want to call it that - was just looking rude and disrespectful, but I'm probably just reading into it too much |
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By *olexMan
over a year ago
Hull |
"So, it's very rare for me (Mercy here, hi) to start off a conversation by sending a message first, yet I find that when I do it's always to people who's age preference is older than my age.
Do i carry on messaging anyways and not respecting their preference, or do I just not bother?
Thank you :D
If you're really keen then just go for it. The worst they can say is no!
Thank you, atleast rejection is still an answer lol.
My main 'worry' - if you want to call it that - was just looking rude and disrespectful, but I'm probably just reading into it too much "
I wouldn't find it rude at all but some might. Although i set an age limit on my profile, i'd base any decision to meet on the person i'm talking to rather than their age. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So, it's very rare for me (Mercy here, hi) to start off a conversation by sending a message first, yet I find that when I do it's always to people who's age preference is older than my age.
Do i carry on messaging anyways and not respecting their preference, or do I just not bother?
Thank you :D
If you're really keen then just go for it. The worst they can say is no!
Thank you, atleast rejection is still an answer lol.
My main 'worry' - if you want to call it that - was just looking rude and disrespectful, but I'm probably just reading into it too much
I wouldn't find it rude at all but some might. Although i set an age limit on my profile, i'd base any decision to meet on the person i'm talking to rather than their age."
Yeah, so I'm just best to stick to their preference than lol. Last thing I want to do is start pissing people off  yeah exactly, age doesn't actually show the intellect or maturity of a person, right |
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By *olexMan
over a year ago
Hull |
"So, it's very rare for me (Mercy here, hi) to start off a conversation by sending a message first, yet I find that when I do it's always to people who's age preference is older than my age.
Do i carry on messaging anyways and not respecting their preference, or do I just not bother?
Thank you :D
If you're really keen then just go for it. The worst they can say is no!
Thank you, atleast rejection is still an answer lol.
My main 'worry' - if you want to call it that - was just looking rude and disrespectful, but I'm probably just reading into it too much
I wouldn't find it rude at all but some might. Although i set an age limit on my profile, i'd base any decision to meet on the person i'm talking to rather than their age.
Yeah, so I'm just best to stick to their preference than lol. Last thing I want to do is start pissing people off yeah exactly, age doesn't actually show the intellect or maturity of a person, right "
Exactly. There are dickheads both young & old. If they talk to you, use your gut instinct to decide if they're for you lol |
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If they're that set on it then they'll have messages from outwith their age range blocked. If you can still message them and you fit all other criteria and aren't too far off then I'd say it's worth a message
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The whole thing confused me, because I have people messaging me wanting to arrange meets yet I'm like 5 or 10 years younger than their preference ??
Is this just a guideline to a lot of people, is it not really taken that seriously ? "
Some people have narrow age ranges and use mail filters to keep the mail down. But they may go looking and actually be happy meeting people outside that range.
If they mail you then surely they are interested on some level. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I politely decline on the grounds that I don't match their preferences if they message. Mist of the time they don't match mine either lol. "
Haha, yeah a polite decline is all I need ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If they're that set on it then they'll have messages from outwith their age range blocked. If you can still message them and you fit all other criteria and aren't too far off then I'd say it's worth a message
V x"
Yeah that I agree with, thank youuuu |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The whole thing confused me, because I have people messaging me wanting to arrange meets yet I'm like 5 or 10 years younger than their preference ??
Is this just a guideline to a lot of people, is it not really taken that seriously ?
Some people have narrow age ranges and use mail filters to keep the mail down. But they may go looking and actually be happy meeting people outside that range.
If they mail you then surely they are interested on some level. "
Yeah like im happy meeting people out of my age range sometimes, don't have to be dead set on it! |
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By *ara MTV/TS
over a year ago
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"If they're really that bothered by it then they'll block/ ignore you, or stop talking to you.
C"
Also filters are there for a reason.
If they don’t want to contacted outside of their preference they can block it.
If they haven’t filtered go for it.
Means they might reply. |
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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago
Beyond the shadows. |
"So, it's very rare for me (Mercy here, hi) to start off a conversation by sending a message first, yet I find that when I do it's always to people who's age preference is older than my age.
Do i carry on messaging anyways and not respecting their preference, or do I just not bother?
Thank you :D"
Obviously preferences are there for a reason but I'm thinking theres a high probability they sill reply back to you. So the choices is yours |
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"Your ages are quite far apart being 20 & 51 so think you will be able to message practically anyone on here as I think it takes both into account. Just go for it"
Correct.
Only one person on a couples account needs to match the stated age preferences to be able to message when you have filters set.
With the OP they would be able to message me because the man is within my age range, even though the lady is well under my minimum age. I would choose not to reply because my age range applies to both people in a couple. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If they're really that bothered by it then they'll block/ ignore you, or stop talking to you.
C
Also filters are there for a reason.
If they don’t want to contacted outside of their preference they can block it.
If they haven’t filtered go for it.
Means they might reply."
Thanks, I wasn't that knowledablw about the whole blocking thing until this thread ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your ages are quite far apart being 20 & 51 so think you will be able to message practically anyone on here as I think it takes both into account. Just go for it"
Oh i never even thought about that! Cheers |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So, it's very rare for me (Mercy here, hi) to start off a conversation by sending a message first, yet I find that when I do it's always to people who's age preference is older than my age.
Do i carry on messaging anyways and not respecting their preference, or do I just not bother?
Thank you :D
Obviously preferences are there for a reason but I'm thinking theres a high probability they sill reply back to you. So the choices is yours "
Yeah sure, thanks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your ages are quite far apart being 20 & 51 so think you will be able to message practically anyone on here as I think it takes both into account. Just go for it
Correct.
Only one person on a couples account needs to match the stated age preferences to be able to message when you have filters set.
With the OP they would be able to message me because the man is within my age range, even though the lady is well under my minimum age. I would choose not to reply because my age range applies to both people in a couple. "
Right, I see. I didn't know that. Which is totally fine  |
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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago
Beyond the shadows. |
"So, it's very rare for me (Mercy here, hi) to start off a conversation by sending a message first, yet I find that when I do it's always to people who's age preference is older than my age.
Do i carry on messaging anyways and not respecting their preference, or do I just not bother?
Thank you :D
Obviously preferences are there for a reason but I'm thinking theres a high probability they sill reply back to you. So the choices is yours
Yeah sure, thanks "
Your welcome I've seen the chat room go mental |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So, it's very rare for me (Mercy here, hi) to start off a conversation by sending a message first, yet I find that when I do it's always to people who's age preference is older than my age.
Do i carry on messaging anyways and not respecting their preference, or do I just not bother?
Thank you :D
Obviously preferences are there for a reason but I'm thinking theres a high probability they sill reply back to you. So the choices is yours
Yeah sure, thanks
Your welcome I've seen the chat room go mental "
Thank you next time you see me, say hi
The first paragraph of your bio is h i l a r i o u s |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So, it's very rare for me (Mercy here, hi) to start off a conversation by sending a message first, yet I find that when I do it's always to people who's age preference is older than my age.
Do i carry on messaging anyways and not respecting their preference, or do I just not bother?
Thank you :D"
Would be offended if someone outside you age range message you? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So, it's very rare for me (Mercy here, hi) to start off a conversation by sending a message first, yet I find that when I do it's always to people who's age preference is older than my age.
Do i carry on messaging anyways and not respecting their preference, or do I just not bother?
Thank you :D
Would be offended if someone outside you age range message you? "
Not at all. There's some hot 19 year olds, and there's definitely some hot 56 year olds. I'd definitely block an age range if i was adamant about it. |
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Can't msg you Mercy 'cos of those dreaded filters. But just to say all of my long term lady friends have been at least 10 years older than me, and range up to 20yrs younger. My youngest FAB short term partner was 37, just half my age, and others have been in their 40's so, I totally agree, age is just a number. Pleased to see you quite successfully have managed a 31 year gap. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Can't msg you Mercy 'cos of those dreaded filters. But just to say all of my long term lady friends have been at least 10 years older than me, and range up to 20yrs younger. My youngest FAB short term partner was 37, just half my age, and others have been in their 40's so, I totally agree, age is just a number. Pleased to see you quite successfully have managed a 31 year gap. "
So because you're 74 and my age limit is 55 you are then blocked from messaging me? Right I see!
Age is very well just a number ! That's pretty cool, a 37 year old!
Thank you |
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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago
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"That a drastic!! I didn't know you could block ages ! "
For further information which might help, think of it this way... folk that set their age preferences will exclude messages from folk outwith that range messaging, winking or probably, more importantly, cluttering their Home Feed Updates too. So at 56 I wouldn’t show up in your Feed if I was local to you as it’s not what you’re looking for.
Don’t think of it as something against your ages, but more down to personal choice. Your own instincts will serve you with regards to whether you should try to make contact with folk outwith your preferred age group & vice versa. Think twice if you feel it could end up with a negative reply. Or block & move on if you/someone doesn’t fit the desired criteria so that you can focus on those you will be compatible with. Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You can block an age. I have filters set. Someone viewed my profile last week, a lower age then I’ve set, and put a comment with my name in his status for me to message him.
I’d seen people doing that before and wondered why they did- but I get it now. "
And this is completely fine according to Admin 
I hate seeing that on statuses. Just encourages others to look at you and bother you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s the opposite for me. Many like 25-45.
I turned 46 last summer
Oh hun, I'd say try our luck anyways, but is that rude ???"
It is to me. You’ve simply not read the profile and decided to message even though your out of my age range and it states that on my profile.
Proves you can’t either read or are arrogant enough that you think they will message you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It’s the opposite for me. Many like 25-45.
I turned 46 last summer
Oh hun, I'd say try our luck anyways, but is that rude ???
It is to me. You’ve simply not read the profile and decided to message even though your out of my age range and it states that on my profile.
Proves you can’t either read or are arrogant enough that you think they will message you "
Well up to now I've always had a message back instead of a shun. It's not a case of arrogance to me. Like I stated earlier above, people message me all the time with their preferences which are older than my age.
This is an obvious case of personal preference rather than a block opinion.
Unless I'm completely blocked from messaging someone, i will take their age preference as their guideline. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It’s the opposite for me. Many like 25-45.
I turned 46 last summer
Drop your age one year to stay in bracket. Not like people show ID at meets "
True, I once met someone who looked atleast 15 years (give or take) older than their fab age though. So if youre gonna do it, don't be that drastic lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s the opposite for me. Many like 25-45.
I turned 46 last summer
Drop your age one year to stay in bracket. Not like people show ID at meets
True, I once met someone who looked atleast 15 years (give or take) older than their fab age though. So if youre gonna do it, don't be that drastic lol"
lol yeah that's abit much dohhhh. Did you shag still though lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It’s the opposite for me. Many like 25-45.
I turned 46 last summer
Drop your age one year to stay in bracket. Not like people show ID at meets
True, I once met someone who looked atleast 15 years (give or take) older than their fab age though. So if youre gonna do it, don't be that drastic lol
lol yeah that's abit much dohhhh. Did you shag still though lol "
lol!
Of course, why waste a moment |
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I think if someone is just slightly out of the age preference it’s not a problem to most they’re more guidelines then anything to us. Obviously if the age is 10 years out of preference probably give it a miss.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s the opposite for me. Many like 25-45.
I turned 46 last summer
Drop your age one year to stay in bracket. Not like people show ID at meets
True, I once met someone who looked atleast 15 years (give or take) older than their fab age though. So if youre gonna do it, don't be that drastic lol
lol yeah that's abit much dohhhh. Did you shag still though lol
lol!
Of course, why waste a moment"
Ha high fives girl |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think if someone is just slightly out of the age preference it’s not a problem to most they’re more guidelines then anything to us. Obviously if the age is 10 years out of preference probably give it a miss.
xx"
Thank you! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It’s the opposite for me. Many like 25-45.
I turned 46 last summer
Drop your age one year to stay in bracket. Not like people show ID at meets
True, I once met someone who looked atleast 15 years (give or take) older than their fab age though. So if youre gonna do it, don't be that drastic lol
lol yeah that's abit much dohhhh. Did you shag still though lol
lol!
Of course, why waste a moment
Ha high fives girl "
*high fiving* |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s the opposite for me. Many like 25-45.
I turned 46 last summer
Drop your age one year to stay in bracket. Not like people show ID at meets
True, I once met someone who looked atleast 15 years (give or take) older than their fab age though. So if youre gonna do it, don't be that drastic lol
lol yeah that's abit much dohhhh. Did you shag still though lol
lol!
Of course, why waste a moment
Ha high fives girl
*high fiving* "
You sound lots of fun mercy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't think it's arrogant to message if you are just outside someone's age range. It should be more about what you actually look like than a number. We have spoken to people who seems the right age for what we are after at the time...then they message and look a lot older. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It’s the opposite for me. Many like 25-45.
I turned 46 last summer
Drop your age one year to stay in bracket. Not like people show ID at meets
True, I once met someone who looked atleast 15 years (give or take) older than their fab age though. So if youre gonna do it, don't be that drastic lol
lol yeah that's abit much dohhhh. Did you shag still though lol
lol!
Of course, why waste a moment
Ha high fives girl
*high fiving*
You sound lots of fun mercy "
Why thank you;)
I've had a lil peak through your profile... You are HOT, HOT, HOT!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't think it's arrogant to message if you are just outside someone's age range. It should be more about what you actually look like than a number. We have spoken to people who seems the right age for what we are after at the time...then they message and look a lot older. "
Yeah I agree. Aaaahh |
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"It’s the opposite for me. Many like 25-45.
I turned 46 last summer
Drop your age one year to stay in bracket. Not like people show ID at meets
True, I once met someone who looked atleast 15 years (give or take) older than their fab age though. So if youre gonna do it, don't be that drastic lol
lol yeah that's abit much dohhhh. Did you shag still though lol
lol!
Of course, why waste a moment
Ha high fives girl
*high fiving*
You sound lots of fun mercy
Why thank you;)
I've had a lil peak through your profile... You are HOT, HOT, HOT!!"
Are we flirting |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It’s the opposite for me. Many like 25-45.
I turned 46 last summer
Drop your age one year to stay in bracket. Not like people show ID at meets
True, I once met someone who looked atleast 15 years (give or take) older than their fab age though. So if youre gonna do it, don't be that drastic lol
lol yeah that's abit much dohhhh. Did you shag still though lol
lol!
Of course, why waste a moment
Ha high fives girl
*high fiving*
You sound lots of fun mercy
Why thank you;)
I've had a lil peak through your profile... You are HOT, HOT, HOT!!
Are we flirting "
I'm flirting  are you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s the opposite for me. Many like 25-45.
I turned 46 last summer
Drop your age one year to stay in bracket. Not like people show ID at meets
True, I once met someone who looked atleast 15 years (give or take) older than their fab age though. So if youre gonna do it, don't be that drastic lol
lol yeah that's abit much dohhhh. Did you shag still though lol
lol!
Of course, why waste a moment
Ha high fives girl
*high fiving*
You sound lots of fun mercy
Why thank you;)
I've had a lil peak through your profile... You are HOT, HOT, HOT!!
Are we flirting
I'm flirting are you "
All yours cutie |
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over a year ago
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"It’s the opposite for me. Many like 25-45.
I turned 46 last summer
Drop your age one year to stay in bracket. Not like people show ID at meets
True, I once met someone who looked atleast 15 years (give or take) older than their fab age though. So if youre gonna do it, don't be that drastic lol
lol yeah that's abit much dohhhh. Did you shag still though lol
lol!
Of course, why waste a moment
Ha high fives girl
*high fiving*
You sound lots of fun mercy
Why thank you;)
I've had a lil peak through your profile... You are HOT, HOT, HOT!!
Are we flirting
I'm flirting are you
All yours cutie "
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"You've set age preferences in your profile. Would you appreciate someone ignoring that and messaging you anyway? "
They can’t though because of the filters. It’s a personal preference which would apply off the site as well.
I’m not going to tell someone to feck off for trying to get my attention but I know I wouldn’t meet them. Sounds harsh, and not meant to be.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s the opposite for me. Many like 25-45.
I turned 46 last summer
Drop your age one year to stay in bracket. Not like people show ID at meets
True, I once met someone who looked atleast 15 years (give or take) older than their fab age though. So if youre gonna do it, don't be that drastic lol
lol yeah that's abit much dohhhh. Did you shag still though lol
lol!
Of course, why waste a moment
Ha high fives girl
*high fiving*
You sound lots of fun mercy
Why thank you;)
I've had a lil peak through your profile... You are HOT, HOT, HOT!!
Are we flirting
I'm flirting are you
All yours cutie
I wish;)"
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For us we are less likely to consider someone much younger than our stated age preference than someone older. If however we met at a club and we all got on well and there was a mutual attraction age wouldn't nessesarily come into it. We are however naturally attracted to people who are ether a similar age or older.
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By *ara MTV/TS
over a year ago
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"It’s the opposite for me. Many like 25-45.
I turned 46 last summer
Drop your age one year to stay in bracket. Not like people show ID at meets "
I’m too honest.
Though I’d definitely lie about my smoking for a night with you
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