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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey......
I’ve never been to a club before and I’m really intrigued on going to one. Any advice for a newbie on what to expect etc?
The thought of rocking up to one on my own is nerve racking!
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Firstly, put on your big boy pants and man up and grow a pair! Yes, your first visit will be nervewracking but don't let that get in the way.
Make sure you are clean, sober and smelling fresh in all the right places and that you spend time socialising and introducing yourself when you arrive.
The club staff will give you a tour and explain the rules, but ask them to introduce you to a couple of regulars as well. Please note, this is so you can start the socialising process... Not so you can dip your wick immediately!
When people realise you have a brain and a personality and are not just a wanking zombie, they will start to open up to you and opportunities may arise.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would suggest to go with no expectations of playing with anybody, this is not guaranteed by any means.
I'm just the usual generic advice of being respectful, also if you are chatting to a couple make sure you pay them both attention in the conversation rather than focusing on the female. Couples will make decisions together regarding who to play with.
Other than that just bite the bullet and go along yes you will be nervous I was the first time I went, I still get nervous now because every night is different depending on the club and who is there.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I go to clubs on my own as a single female and I'm sure you will be fine.
First visit you usually get shown around the club and the rules are explained to you. Just go for it I'm sure it will be fun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Give it about 30 minutes after you arrive and you will find that the club's are probably the friendliest places you've ever been too.
We certainly have loads of fun and never expect any play no matter how often we have been. For us the social side is just as much fun.
Dress sharp, smell good, be clean and respectful possibly even funny but most of all be yourself.
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