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By *arker116 OP Man
over a year ago
Blackburn |
Hi guys been on and off for a while now and never managed a meet yet or even a conversation about a meet but oddly enough that’s not what I’m asking about.
Now a good few years ago I had an d*unken experience with a lad, Let’s just say it went the full hog. It got left at that and I never went back to it or even gave it that much thought. But Now that I’m struggling to get meets and Iv got a good few fantasy’s I want to for fill that d*unken night keeps coming into my head and the more I think about it the more I think I fancy another go.
My question is, do you think I’m considering doing it out of desporation or is it that I’m genuinely curious about it? It’s a question I should be able to answer myself but I really am struggling |
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The easy way to answer this question is to imagine if you were getting lots of meets with women. If you were fucking several women every week would you still have fantasies of playing with men?
If the answer is no then you are not bi and are just desperate for a hole, any hole. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Only you can answer that question really OP but you could always try going to a club on a bi night to see how you feel being in proximity to male same sex play - there's no pressure to join in unless you want to.
Might also help to try and separate your not getting meets and your sexuality and look at them independently - try and work out why you're not getting meets and make changes that may improve that side of things - likewise think about your sexuality and whether you have an attraction to same sex play in isolation. |
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"Hi guys been on and off for a while now and never managed a meet yet or even a conversation about a meet but oddly enough that’s not what I’m asking about.
Now a good few years ago I had an d*unken experience with a lad, Let’s just say it went the full hog. It got left at that and I never went back to it or even gave it that much thought. But Now that I’m struggling to get meets and Iv got a good few fantasy’s I want to for fill that d*unken night keeps coming into my head and the more I think about it the more I think I fancy another go.
My question is, do you think I’m considering doing it out of desporation or is it that I’m genuinely curious about it? It’s a question I should be able to answer myself but I really am struggling "
Did you enjoy that meet with another guy, does it turn you on to think about it, if so you are probably Bi. If so there is nothig wrong with it, I positively lov the fact. My main Bi thing is with T-Girls but I have had a lot of fun times with men. However I lover love women too, I tend to see it as the best of all possible worlds. |
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Explore so that you get a feel for your tastes, as one encounter could, by bad luck, give you a poor match or a dud - if you are keen to be more certain. Otherwise just live life, enjoying pleasure as it comes, without putting your mind into a straightjacket, contorted by societys pressure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The easy way to answer this question is to imagine if you were getting lots of meets with women. If you were fucking several women every week would you still have fantasies of playing with men?
If the answer is no then you are not bi and are just desperate for a hole, any hole."
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"Hi guys been on and off for a while now and never managed a meet yet or even a conversation about a meet but oddly enough that’s not what I’m asking about.
Now a good few years ago I had an d*unken experience with a lad, Let’s just say it went the full hog. It got left at that and I never went back to it or even gave it that much thought. But Now that I’m struggling to get meets and Iv got a good few fantasy’s I want to for fill that d*unken night keeps coming into my head and the more I think about it the more I think I fancy another go.
My question is, do you think I’m considering doing it out of desporation or is it that I’m genuinely curious about it? It’s a question I should be able to answer myself but I really am struggling "
Tell you what. I'll come to Blackburn, kneel in front of you and give you a really good BJ. If you enjoy then your Bi so feel free to return the favour. If you don't then I'll still leave with a happy smile and a savoury taste in my mouth. Win win situation all round  
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As a bi lady with a long term partner bi guy, there's nothing better than indulging each other's bi sides.
We have rules, we usually same room, we talk about who we fancy in public, on TV, in work. We play equally.
We are lucky! Find your lucky xx |
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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago
Ramsgate |
"Just give it another try and then decide if it’s for you or not. Lots of guys find someone discrete to meet up with and no one is any the wiser. "
Totally agree - most of the guys I meet are curious or bi and they may be a little hesitant at first but most don’t look back and just enjoy it. There is a whole range of involvement from those who like passionate kissing and cuddling to those who just want to just shoot their load. Give it a go - as long as it’s discreet you haven’t anything to lose and you might meet some good buddies along the way. |
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