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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After a little misbehaving at the work Christmas night out, a much younger colleague wants a bit more.
Is the age gap a problem, she is only 20."
Go 4 it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whilst fun etc is great, where work is concerned it might just work out not to be fun! We all have our fantasies (me too), but for the older gentlemen that 20yo might be your daughter or niece 
And maybe in a professional environment, would you like to be called out for this or talked about behind your back? This could cost you a lot .... think before fantasy becomes reality
But there again life without fantasies would be dull ... |
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"Whilst fun etc is great, where work is concerned it might just work out not to be fun! We all have our fantasies (me too), but for the older gentlemen that 20yo might be your daughter or niece
And maybe in a professional environment, would you like to be called out for this or talked about behind your back? This could cost you a lot .... think before fantasy becomes reality
But there again life without fantasies would be dull ... "
Everyone is someone’s daughter my lovely |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After a little misbehaving at the work Christmas night out, a much younger colleague wants a bit more.
Is the age gap a problem, she is only 20."
Bang her, my last bird was 18. Do it |
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"After a little misbehaving at the work Christmas night out, a much younger colleague wants a bit more.
Is the age gap a problem, she is only 20.
Bang her, my last bird was 18. Do it"
Yeah op bang the bird. |
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Sounds like a nice fantasy. However, be cautious. Are you in a managerial position?is she reporting to you? The initial hot sex might be great, but after a while...? And when you both come to your senses, will you be OK with her telling all your colleagues that you're a kinky ts/TV? Before you do anything, have a good wank, release the horniness... Then decide. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"After a little misbehaving at the work Christmas night out, a much younger colleague wants a bit more.
Is the age gap a problem, she is only 20."
In the words of GRH of strictly fame - 'A complete disaster darling' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never screw the crew
Never mix business with Heather
Treat colleagues like siblings... don't fuck em!
If she'll share her private parts with colleagues she'll also share other private parts of her life with other colleagues... including the fact that she shared her private parts with you! Can your professional reputation survive that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After a little misbehaving at the work Christmas night out, a much younger colleague wants a bit more.
Is the age gap a problem, she is only 20."
Well remember you have to work with her later. Personally, i have a rule.. Never date/have sex with work colleagues |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well thanks for your comments and insight.
Although some have been distracted by others comments.
Thinking I will be sticking to my gut feeling and leaving this particular powder keg well alone.
On a side note, I did have a liason with a younger colleague 5 years ago, we are both still working in the same place, are still friends, and to this day no one other than ourselves knows, so it does work out sometimes.  |
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Simple rules
Safe, sane, consenting.
Is it safe?
- potential fall outs if it goes bad?
Is it sane?
- as in sober, normal mind set ect ect
Is it consenting?
- as in have you both really thought it through? The pros and cons of a work place fling.
If it is just a fuck and you can tick those boxes, go for it but it is worth remembering that work place frolics do have a massive tenancy to go south quite fast if things don't work
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By (user no longer on site)
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"After a little misbehaving at the work Christmas night out, a much younger colleague wants a bit more.
Is the age gap a problem, she is only 20."
I think “work colleague” is more inappropriate than any age gap.
Don’t mix business and pleasure! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"After a little misbehaving at the work Christmas night out, a much younger colleague wants a bit more.
Is the age gap a problem, she is only 20."
#shitthatneverhappened |
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By *auradCouple
over a year ago
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"After a little misbehaving at the work Christmas night out, a much younger colleague wants a bit more.
Is the age gap a problem, she is only 20."
This proves that unlike in maths in Scottish a double positive is a negative ....
Aye right. |
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"Whilst fun etc is great, where work is concerned it might just work out not to be fun! We all have our fantasies (me too), but for the older gentlemen that 20yo might be your daughter or niece
And maybe in a professional environment, would you like to be called out for this or talked about behind your back? This could cost you a lot .... think before fantasy becomes reality
But there again life without fantasies would be dull ...
Everyone is someone’s daughter my lovely"
Or someone's son...... |
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By *appyredMan
over a year ago
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"Never screw the crew
Never mix business with Heather
Treat colleagues like siblings... don't fuck em!
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Yep, to that I would add:
Don't dip your pen in the company ink!!!
Age difference should never a problem among consenting adults - but when it comes to sex with colleagues, run a mile. Politely, of course. Don't be a dick about it.
Sex among colleagues can be disastrous - are you confident of just walking into another job, with similar or better benefits to your current one, if and when it all blows up? |
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