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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Were a very horny couple who both have a very high sex drive sex twice a day is the usual.

However I (Mrs) have recently being diagnosed with a condition where i go through periods of sever exhaustion and where all i want to do is sleep, sex can also leave me feeling exhausted and very sore irrespective of how earth shattering it leaves me. Some times these periods can last two weeks to a month.

It also leaves me feeling bad that i can please him or give him the attention he both craves and deserves. (I have to point out it hes very understanding of my condition and is nothing but loving)

Recetly i have arranged for a massues to come visit us who provides a happy ending to give im some relief but im considering should we look for a lady on here for him so he can have that fuck he needs.

I just wondered are there any other couples out there in a similar position, and what have you done/how have you got through it. Any advise is welcome x

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By *allySlinkyWoman  over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe add to your profile and say the male can play alone ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Were a very horny couple who both have a very high sex drive sex twice a day is the usual.

However I (Mrs) have recently being diagnosed with a condition where i go through periods of sever exhaustion and where all i want to do is sleep, sex can also leave me feeling exhausted and very sore irrespective of how earth shattering it leaves me. Some times these periods can last two weeks to a month.

It also leaves me feeling bad that i can please him or give him the attention he both craves and deserves. (I have to point out it hes very understanding of my condition and is nothing but loving)

Recetly i have arranged for a massues to come visit us who provides a happy ending to give im some relief but im considering should we look for a lady on here for him so he can have that fuck he needs.

I just wondered are there any other couples out there in a similar position, and what have you done/how have you got through it. Any advise is welcome x"

I empathise with you OP. I have MS and at times ( more often than not these days) I’m just too tired. And when fatigue hits, my sex drive fucks off and nothing with rouse it. The way we work is we meet separately and my husband has his own profile. And it’s great. I’m glad he gets to meet others for fun. I grab mine with both hands when I’m feeling it. I hope you find whatever works for you both

A. Xx

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By *ackDanielsWhiteRabbitMan  over a year ago

Halifax


"Were a very horny couple who both have a very high sex drive sex twice a day is the usual.

However I (Mrs) have recently being diagnosed with a condition where i go through periods of sever exhaustion and where all i want to do is sleep, sex can also leave me feeling exhausted and very sore irrespective of how earth shattering it leaves me. Some times these periods can last two weeks to a month.

It also leaves me feeling bad that i can please him or give him the attention he both craves and deserves. (I have to point out it hes very understanding of my condition and is nothing but loving)

Recetly i have arranged for a massues to come visit us who provides a happy ending to give im some relief but im considering should we look for a lady on here for him so he can have that fuck he needs.

I just wondered are there any other couples out there in a similar position, and what have you done/how have you got through it. Any advise is welcome x

I empathise with you OP. I have MS and at times ( more often than not these days) I’m just too tired. And when fatigue hits, my sex drive fucks off and nothing with rouse it. The way we work is we meet separately and my husband has his own profile. And it’s great. I’m glad he gets to meet others for fun. I grab mine with both hands when I’m feeling it. I hope you find whatever works for you both

A. Xx"

Big hugs. I have MS too and can totally relate to this. We have our own profiles and a couples one. It can be hard arranging to meet couples as I never know how I'll feel on the arranged day.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Meeting a lady might work, although he'd probably face the same issues as any single guy.

One issue I find with some couples, and I'm not saying you, is that they treat women like playthings that can be got out of the cupboard as and when they feel like it, rather than our own people with our own lives. I'm sure every demographic gets it, but obviously single women have a lot more options and so are less likely to put up with it.

On the other hand, being in effect vouched for by another woman may help him.

I hope your condition is manageable.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Maybe add to your profile and say the male can play alone ?"

Thats something weve considered. Im sure hed love to play with a lady like you. Stunning profile x

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Meeting a lady might work, although he'd probably face the same issues as any single guy.

One issue I find with some couples, and I'm not saying you, is that they treat women like playthings that can be got out of the cupboard as and when they feel like it, rather than our own people with our own lives. I'm sure every demographic gets it, but obviously single women have a lot more options and so are less likely to put up with it.

On the other hand, being in effect vouched for by another woman may help him.

I hope your condition is manageable. "

Thanks for your message. We try not to treat ladies as you describe and ideally we prefer regular play mates. A regular play friend for him sounds ideal just hope i wouldnt get too jealous

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By *randmrsminxyCouple  over a year ago

Gloucester


"Meeting a lady might work, although he'd probably face the same issues as any single guy.

One issue I find with some couples, and I'm not saying you, is that they treat women like playthings that can be got out of the cupboard as and when they feel like it, rather than our own people with our own lives. I'm sure every demographic gets it, but obviously single women have a lot more options and so are less likely to put up with it.

On the other hand, being in effect vouched for by another woman may help him.

I hope your condition is manageable. "

Agree with poster here . Put on your profile the situation you have and let others now as the female half your happy to confirm this via chat on phone that this is ok . Unfortunately there are some rather unscrupulous singles that will do anything to get a meet .

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