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We all have regrets.
Shouldn't have,but all part of life's rich tapestry.
Also wonder whether I should've but didn't, due to it not feeling right.
A should've could so easy turn into a shouldn't have.  |
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"If I'd done this, no way would I post it on a swingers site for all to see, including non fabbers. You can read the forums by doing a Google search. Anyone can access them.  "
We're only talking in general terms aren't we? |
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over a year ago
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Yes. With a guy off here. Who told me he was single. Met up with him about 10 times over 4 months before discovering he was married, had been for 32 years and all the stuff he told me was lies.
I told his wife about his shenanigans. I wouldn't have if he'd been honest with me, but he doesn't even know how to spell the word. |
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"If I'd done this, no way would I post it on a swingers site for all to see, including non fabbers. You can read the forums by doing a Google search. Anyone can access them. "
Yeah, I'm certainly not sharing. |
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So sorry to hear about your experience.
I'm guessing he lied as telling the truth wouldn't get the results he desired.
The 3 of you have learned some important lessons.
Sadly his will be to be more careful. Lol
I often read that women are attracted to the site as fabbers are more truthful about what they want. Not necessarily so.
What was the question again? |
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"If I'd done this, no way would I post it on a swingers site for all to see, including non fabbers. You can read the forums by doing a Google search. Anyone can access them. "
I don’t think everybody realise these forums are public! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So sorry to hear about your experience.
I'm guessing he lied as telling the truth wouldn't get the results he desired.
The 3 of you have learned some important lessons.
Sadly his will be to be more careful. Lol
I often read that women are attracted to the site as fabbers are more truthful about what they want. Not necessarily so.
What was the question again? "
It was a massive learning curve for me! He has now deleted his profile. There will be broken hearts all over Lancashire.... |
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over a year ago
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I've shagged many a married man from this site. I have no regrets. I'm married too. I think it's wrong to judge people or stereotype them. There is no emotion attached. It is a sex site. And we should not be judge and jury |
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over a year ago
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"I've shagged many a married man from this site. I have no regrets. I'm married too. I think it's wrong to judge people or stereotype them. There is no emotion attached. It is a sex site. And we should not be judge and jury "
Exactly. There’s two sides to every story too. |
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"I've shagged many a married man from this site. I have no regrets. I'm married too. I think it's wrong to judge people or stereotype them. There is no emotion attached. It is a sex site. And we should not be judge and jury "
As marriages often end up sexless, its inevitable that people will seek solace elsewhere.
I think that the regrets are when its sex for all the wrong reasons, just because you can. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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 I’m sure the self appointed FAB moral police will have something to say about that, but absolutely agree....and that’s from a “real” couple as well. If they do what they do, men or women, that’s their business and we are certainly not interested in judging anyone at all for it. |
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"I've shagged many a married man from this site. I have no regrets. I'm married too. I think it's wrong to judge people or stereotype them. There is no emotion attached. It is a sex site. And we should not be judge and jury
Exactly. There’s two sides to every story too. "
I think she was just saying the guy should be open about it so she had a choice whether to meet or not. It's not about judging. |
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I don't .eet with married men to avoid any backlash, but that doesn't mean I judge them, I understand when partners get ill or go off sex, but I do feel they should clearly state on their profiles so we can avoid messaging or we can say no thank you at the beginning rather than being led down the garden path. |
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"I don't .eet with married men to avoid any backlash, but that doesn't mean I judge them, I understand when partners get ill or go off sex, but I do feel they should clearly state on their profiles so we can avoid messaging or we can say no thank you at the beginning rather than being led down the garden path. "
Actually despite what we said about about not judging and happy to meet married people, agree with this and would like to be told the truth. Either way it doesn’t matter but lying to us does (what you say to your other half is your business lol) |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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"Yes. With a guy off here. Who told me he was single. Met up with him about 10 times over 4 months before discovering he was married, had been for 32 years and all the stuff he told me was lies.
I told his wife about his shenanigans. I wouldn't have if he'd been honest with me, but he doesn't even know how to spell the word."
Why would you do something so horrible to a person and ruin his life by telling his wife (and worse, ruin his wife's and even children's lives)??? Couldn't you just say no more and thank you very much???? |
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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes. With a guy off here. Who told me he was single. Met up with him about 10 times over 4 months before discovering he was married, had been for 32 years and all the stuff he told me was lies.
I told his wife about his shenanigans. I wouldn't have if he'd been honest with me, but he doesn't even know how to spell the word.
Why would you do something so horrible to a person and ruin his life by telling his wife (and worse, ruin his wife's and even children's lives)??? Couldn't you just say no more and thank you very much????"
Agreed! |
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"Yes. With a guy off here. Who told me he was single. Met up with him about 10 times over 4 months before discovering he was married, had been for 32 years and all the stuff he told me was lies.
I told his wife about his shenanigans. I wouldn't have if he'd been honest with me, but he doesn't even know how to spell the word.
Why would you do something so horrible to a person and ruin his life by telling his wife (and worse, ruin his wife's and even children's lives)??? Couldn't you just say no more and thank you very much????"
A woman scorned. She felt betrayed. I think its a common occurance and consequencejust not on fab. Would probably say its to stop him doing his thing to others. |
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"Yes. With a guy off here. Who told me he was single. Met up with him about 10 times over 4 months before discovering he was married, had been for 32 years and all the stuff he told me was lies.
I told his wife about his shenanigans. I wouldn't have if he'd been honest with me, but he doesn't even know how to spell the word.
Why would you do something so horrible to a person and ruin his life by telling his wife (and worse, ruin his wife's and even children's lives)??? Couldn't you just say no more and thank you very much????
A woman scorned. She felt betrayed. I think its a common occurance and consequencejust not on fab. Would probably say its to stop him doing his thing to others."
Yes but two wrongs don’t make it right......
Someone should be the adult in this situation... |
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"Yes. With a guy off here. Who told me he was single. Met up with him about 10 times over 4 months before discovering he was married, had been for 32 years and all the stuff he told me was lies.
I told his wife about his shenanigans. I wouldn't have if he'd been honest with me, but he doesn't even know how to spell the word.
Why would you do something so horrible to a person and ruin his life by telling his wife (and worse, ruin his wife's and even children's lives)??? Couldn't you just say no more and thank you very much????
A woman scorned. She felt betrayed. I think its a common occurance and consequencejust not on fab. Would probably say its to stop him doing his thing to others.
Yes but two wrongs don’t make it right......
Someone should be the adult in this situation..."
It wasn't the fact he was married that upset me the most, although it broke my heart... Its the fact he lied SO much. Obviously his real life is so sad and boring he invented a fantasy one to run alongside it. He deserves everything he gets. |
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"Yes. With a guy off here. Who told me he was single. Met up with him about 10 times over 4 months before discovering he was married, had been for 32 years and all the stuff he told me was lies.
I told his wife about his shenanigans. I wouldn't have if he'd been honest with me, but he doesn't even know how to spell the word.
Why would you do something so horrible to a person and ruin his life by telling his wife (and worse, ruin his wife's and even children's lives)??? Couldn't you just say no more and thank you very much????"
What about the horrible stuff he did to me??? You don't know the whole story so don't judge thank you |
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