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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quite easy should a single man put pics up of him with other women (with their permission obviously) asking for a friend lol  "
Totally dependent on the audience we guess!
Some will enjoy them, others won’t meet people with graphic pics or pics of other ladies in their profile, as often comparisons are made before you actually meet that person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quite easy should a single man put pics up of him with other women (with their permission obviously) asking for a friend lol "
I've seen threads like this before, the most common feedback is negative I'm afraid!
Personally, it doesn't bother me! |
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Fair enough think I will leave it then thanks for your help. Just wanting to spice up my profile a bit and only so many poses a man can do without looking like a tit. But suggestions are more than welcome xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well that's up to him, they're a turn off for me.
Why is that just curious ? Love the festive stockings by the way xx "
Thank you . I don't really know, I suppose like someone else said it leads to body comparisons and sometimes it feels a bit like they're showing off that they can actually have sex  . You've got great pictures as it is, I suppose if it's a mixture of pictures of just them and "action shots" it's not quite so bad. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Quite easy should a single man put pics up of him with other women (with their permission obviously) asking for a friend lol "
Turn it around - would you be more or less interested in a single woman if she had photos of her with another man?
I also think your pics are already awesome  |
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"Quite easy should a single man put pics up of him with other women (with their permission obviously) asking for a friend lol
Turn it around - would you be more or less interested in a single woman if she had photos of her with another man?
I also think your pics are already awesome "
I see what your saying just want to spice profile up a bit. And thank you you have lovley pics yourself   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Quite easy should a single man put pics up of him with other women (with their permission obviously) asking for a friend lol
Turn it around - would you be more or less interested in a single woman if she had photos of her with another man?
I also think your pics are already awesome
I see what your saying just want to spice profile up a bit. And thank you you have lovley pics yourself "
Why thank you kind sir. I'm genuinely interested what you think if a single woman has photos of herself with a guy. Is it more or less of a turn on? Or is it irrelevant? Just curious |
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I have picture of me with My Girl on and our adventure. She likewise has pictures of me with her on hers. I don't see there is anything wrong with being proud of your fab adventures and wanting to show them off. I suppose the devil is in the intent behind the use of the picture and the context of the wider profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have picture of me with My Girl on and our adventure. She likewise has pictures of me with her on hers. I don't see there is anything wrong with being proud of your fab adventures and wanting to show them off. I suppose the devil is in the intent behind the use of the picture and the context of the wider profile."
For me, the difference is you are part of a couple, and having photos of each other on your profiles shows me you're not hiding anything from, nor cheating on each other, although you meet separately too. If a single guy has pictures of a woman with him, is it because he is showing he can be available as part of a couple as well as a single guy? Or is it a bit like a peacock flashing his beautiful feathers to show himself off as a catch? No judgement intended, I just like the simile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You need to be careful because you could find yourself contravening revenge porn laws that came into force a couple of years ago - and fab are pretty hot on this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can’t see why anyone would have issues with single guys or ladies having action shots on their profile, it’s a swinging site, hence a place for swingers to swing, comparing yourself to the action shots is not needed, every person is individual, every meet is unique, making comparisons shouldn’t apply |
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"It's not a turn off...but we do find it odd when a male has loads of pics of him and other women but no verifications...starts to make you doubt their profile (in our minds)."
I also agree with this, makes you wonder if they really have permission to be sharing them. |
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On a singles profile,. Male or female, seeing graphic action shots of multiple partners. No!
Yes we're all having sex I don't need to see a catolgue of previous meets.
A singles profiles where it clearly states, they have a partner on here too, then it's slightly different.
I'd assume the person in a pic was there OH.
But I still don't like graphic or action shots. |
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As long as you also have some pictures of yourself, They can look hot if done right and a few action pictures or just you and a woman/couple in the same picture could also show the type of woman/couple that you're interested in meeting, But its a lot easier to except that you have permission if the woman/couple is on fab or left a veri |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m not a fan but everybody is different as the other responses here show... the pics you already have are great though, a lot better than most that I’ve seen 
Mrs F x |
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"I have picture of me with My Girl on and our adventure. She likewise has pictures of me with her on hers. I don't see there is anything wrong with being proud of your fab adventures and wanting to show them off. I suppose the devil is in the intent behind the use of the picture and the context of the wider profile.
For me, the difference is you are part of a couple, and having photos of each other on your profiles shows me you're not hiding anything from, nor cheating on each other, although you meet separately too. If a single guy has pictures of a woman with him, is it because he is showing he can be available as part of a couple as well as a single guy? Or is it a bit like a peacock flashing his beautiful feathers to show himself off as a catch? No judgement intended, I just like the simile "
I guess that where my point about intent and context comes in. I genuinely think some people are just enjoying fab and want to share their adventures with everyone because they are kind of passionate about what they do. So we should not be so hard to judge. Some people may have less ethical reasons of course. Although granted it may not be everyones cup of tea, but then we can never be everyone's cup of tea. My experience in the past as a single male is often the although many women know they are not the only one your sleeping with and its understood your not exclusive to each other they like to feel they are exclusive to you. So pictures of you with others dont go down too well in general and can be seen as uncouth. Not every woman granted but there are some even if its not cool to admit so. So with that in mind you potentially shoot your self in the foot with these kind of pictures as a single man. As part of a couple and totally in love it's different. My pictures are more about being proud of our adventures than enticing single ladies. I have the gold medal, she is everything to me. I just want to share her and what we have with like minded pervs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well that's up to him, they're a turn off for me."
Same for me. When I see a single guys profile with women playing pics it just looks like they are bragging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can’t see why anyone would have issues with single guys or ladies having action shots on their profile, it’s a swinging site, hence a place for swingers to swing, comparing yourself to the action shots is not needed, every person is individual, every meet is unique, making comparisons shouldn’t apply "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well that's up to him, they're a turn off for me.
Same for me. When I see a single guys profile with women playing pics it just looks like they are bragging. "
Exactly how I would see it, but then I don't tend to look at single male profiles - only really those who may have come onto the forum seeking profile advice |
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Dont see why not. In fact if we see a man has a few pics of him and different women and he's wearing a condom in all of them we think. That guy clearly values his health and is our type of swinger.
It also shows you can perform while wearing a condom. Had to many guys turn out to be a flop on the big day |
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"Well that's up to him, they're a turn off for me.
Same for me. When I see a single guys profile with women playing pics it just looks like they are bragging. "
Turn off for above reasons, even more so if no condom |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think profile pictures should show you not other people. It would be you I would be meeting, why would I want or need, to see pictures of other people.
I have had men send me a photo of a woman sucking their cock which was sent in lieu of a face pic..but I suppose in their defense their face was visible so the photo meet my criteria of a face pic, just!
Not sure how they expected a reply though....it comes across a crass and tasteless. |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"Quite easy should a single man put pics up of him with other women (with their permission obviously) asking for a friend lol "
If I was considering meeting you, I wouldn't want to see you hanging out of someone... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have picture of me with My Girl on and our adventure. She likewise has pictures of me with her on hers. I don't see there is anything wrong with being proud of your fab adventures and wanting to show them off. I suppose the devil is in the intent behind the use of the picture and the context of the wider profile."
Yes but your photos are tasteful and not just a cock sliding in some woman's arse, pussy or mouth. Those sort of photo's show nothing but the guys cock which shows the mentality that all that matters is that he can maintain an erection long enough to stick it in.
I would not even call yours action shots they are photos of two people who know and trust each other. |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
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"Quite easy should a single man put pics up of him with other women (with their permission obviously) asking for a friend lol "
Your ‘friend’ already has great pics that don’t need any spicing up in my opinion!
Action shots wouldn’t add any appeal. A lot of ladies aren’t interested in looking where you have been! |
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