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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi been a member for a while and have recently settled down my partner has had very limited experience with ladies. I have only been to one party in the scene and to be honest it was a bit poor full of blokes an not how I imagined the set up oh and the host took money for attending. What is the best safest way on here to travel down this road as previous let downs on here have left me thinking its full of men even some of the ladies profiles are dodgy. Please offer advice on how is the best safest way to make this happen cheers |
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First, i would stay clear of any party that charged.
The best way is to get to know people, go to socials, chat in here or in chat. experience soon tells you who is genuine and who is fake.9fake in the sense of being a man pretending to be a woman or couple)
Of course you don't say whta you were expecting a party to be like, but genuine parties are highly unlikely to invite a single guy they don't know.
Yes there are more men than women on the site,but there are plenty of women and couples looking to play.
My first advice would be if you are looking to play as a couple set up a couples profile.You wont even be able to contact many couples ,and you yourself are now less than honest about why you are here and what you are looking for. |
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over a year ago
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Thanks will try your advice she has looked at the site without it scaring her off. Is a social meet a pub for a chat and laugh etc sound daft and naive but newbie city and really don't know |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks will try your advice she has looked at the site without it scaring her off. Is a social meet a pub for a chat and laugh etc sound daft and naive but newbie city and really don't know "
"A social" in the forum context is usually an organised meet with lots of people/couples in a social environment such as (as you suggested) a pub or a restaurant.
but some people (us included) like to meet couples socially for a drink and a chat on a couple to couple basis. so it depends on the individuals.
but it all depends on what you and your partner are happy with, i personally would stay away from parties that charge too, if i wanted to pay i would go to a club not a private party.
but don't get a private party confused with an event in a private residence because there are some companies that run "club events" from private residences. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Its been discussed and over next day or 2 we will set up a joint profile my partner is the one interested and to be honest what man would say no. My experience within this setting are poor to non need to update my profile but I have not been on in months. Thanks for the replys / advice  will see how the next few months go or back to the drawing board x |
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