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By *riptix OP Man
over a year ago
Wendover |
Have been a member for a little while and whilst having a bit of interest from people have not been very successful. Would someone please look at my profile and offer advice as to how I can improve it or should I just give up ?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You need to explain why you cannot accommodate as the usual assumption is your attached which puts a lot of people off and have a body shot front or rear. just my opinion am sure there will be others.  |
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By *riptix OP Man
over a year ago
Wendover |
Thank you all- feeling very down but hopefully this will enable me to make a new start. Will adjust the pictures- there are face pics on the account but can alter them to preserve my identity and put them for people to see. Will hopefully look less of a nutter then x |
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You said "no hangups and it is all amicable lol" - if it is amicable - I'd remove the 'lol' as it may be taken that this isn't the honest truth.
As for not getting much interest - you're a bloke. It's that simple.
My general rule-of-thumb is:
- couples are looking for girls
- girls are looking for girls
- blokes just look
I know this is an over-simplification - but you really have to bide your time. You will have many a knock-back or simple be ignored. But when you meet someone - it's hugely fun... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pics are not that great. There are two sets of ladies legs in the pic of you with the hat, and if i were looking for someone that would put me off. Also do you need 2 cock pics so perhaps remove one and replace with a bottom or torso pic, as these seem to do well on here.
Hope this helps....
MsSheets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone has different opinions on profiles I guess. For me I would remove everything regarding your wife, the actual word 'wife' in any single guys profile is enough to put us off completely regardless if they say they are separated. Simply saying your recently seperated and you can't accom as staying with relatives temp is enough.
Take down the willy pictures, they aren't great and a body pic with you in a night out or something, they don't always need to be naughty.
Why not look at other guys pages who are having a lot of fun on the website? It's no coincidence that certain guys get lots of meets after making a good effort on the profile..
Oh, and don't get down when you dont get meets, confidence and a positive attitude rock !!
All the best for you on fab , hope you have lots of fun xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lose the cock pics and stop sounding so apologetic! 
Put things you enjoy and who you'd like to meet and have fun with it.
But reading your profile, it sounds like you should take things slow or maybe wait a while for your personal life to settle a bit.
Just my thoughts. Take it or leave it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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have a look around at guys that have quite a few verifications as they're obviously doing something right profile wise
also get along to as many socials as possible as this will make a huge difference to getting some meets no matter how poor a profile is once peeps get to know the real you if ya a good guy it will shine through in person in ways it never can on a profile
good luck
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mate, just want to point out that if you're trying to preserve your identity then removing that small strip across your eyes isn't going to do that. You might as well have just left your eyes normal because if someone knows you they'd be able to recognise you from your pics.
Just an observation |
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By *riptix OP Man
over a year ago
Wendover |
Thank you all- am currently stealing ideas from the profiles of the 3 males that have replied on here. I really do appreciate the time you have put in looking at my profile and offering advice.
I am verified on the other major swinging site as have been to a couple of meets on there but will look out for any on here and try to get to them.
A big thank you to all of you once again.
Trip x |
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