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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all, this is the bf speaking, basically it’s like this. We’re meeting a couple tomorrow for our first ever soft swap (oral only) meet and I’m super nervous.
My only real concern is cumming early. I get really turned on by watching the gf with another guy which I can control but in tomorrow’s scenario, i’m gonna be having the woman giving me oral whilst I watch the gf and guy. So I’m going to be twice as excited.
I think most guys have this worry. Can anyone give me any advice? If I do cum too soon, I can always go again, but I’m just gonna feel like a failure and that i’ve spoilt the night.
Any helpful advise would be appreciated, especially from couples.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have a wank early in the day before you go..this should lesson the sensation on your penis..unless you are a multi cummer."
Yea that’s what I’m planning on doing. I can last much longer the second time but definately not a multi cummer. |
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By *A5-1975Man
over a year ago
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"Hi all, this is the bf speaking, basically it’s like this. We’re meeting a couple tomorrow for our first ever soft swap (oral only) meet and I’m super nervous.
My only real concern is cumming early. I get really turned on by watching the gf with another guy which I can control but in tomorrow’s scenario, i’m gonna be having the woman giving me oral whilst I watch the gf and guy. So I’m going to be twice as excited.
I think most guys have this worry. Can anyone give me any advice? If I do cum too soon, I can always go again, but I’m just gonna feel like a failure and that i’ve spoilt the night.
Any helpful advise would be appreciated, especially from couples.
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Good luck, have a great time
. You’ll have to let us all know how it went ! |
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Agree with poster above. If you worry about it your going to miss the enjoyment of meeting. If you cum quickly you can then spend more time pleasuring the lady who will enjoy all the attention. Hope it all goes well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All above is true and will work just relax and do what comes natural I am sure the female half would have seen it before equally sometimes
The first time can be like a sensory overload and it takes a white to relax enough to come don’t try and be anything other than your natural self and let it all happen naturally it really isn’t a competition or something to measure as said above most ladies like to know they have that effect on you as long as you don’t leave them out to dry after and pay plenty of attention after just have fun and don’t worry |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all, this is the bf speaking, basically it’s like this. We’re meeting a couple tomorrow for our first ever soft swap (oral only) meet and I’m super nervous.
My only real concern is cumming early. I get really turned on by watching the gf with another guy which I can control but in tomorrow’s scenario, i’m gonna be having the woman giving me oral whilst I watch the gf and guy. So I’m going to be twice as excited.
I think most guys have this worry. Can anyone give me any advice? If I do cum too soon, I can always go again, but I’m just gonna feel like a failure and that i’ve spoilt the night.
Any helpful advise would be appreciated, especially from couples.
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You shouldn't have a problem as you can repeat after all? If you do cum fairly early then you can just say that the lady from the other couple was just so bloody good at what she did... I don't think any lady would mind hearing this in the slightest and besides which there's a lot of truth in it after all?
And with that dealt with you and no problem repeating you can then enjoy the evening properly..
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Go to weatherspoons first and buy a pack of "male enhancers" for £3quid.......
Bit like cheap viagra but they do work, don't turn you into a sexualdironasouroas but hold you back for a while... There OK to be fair.. Have half,an hour before then another half 10 mins before.. Have some food aswell 2 hours before meeting. |
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Why not make a game of it?
Both guys see how many times they can make the girls cum first, then both the girls can jokingly say I bet I can make him cum before you can
Makes it light hearted and fun and if you cum first your a winner |
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Don't sweat it. Just go and have fun, what will be will be. The lady won't be worried if you take care of her too. If she is then they're the wrong couple for you guys.
You can always go again, a meet is so horny I'll be surprised if you don't want to go again anyway.
Every meet is different sometimes you can go for ages other times you cum and go again. Just find the relaxed, friendly play and complement the lady on how good she is then give her an orgasm or two and go again.
Hope it works out for you both. Lovely profile xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all, this is the bf speaking, basically it’s like this. We’re meeting a couple tomorrow for our first ever soft swap (oral only) meet and I’m super nervous.
My only real concern is cumming early. I get really turned on by watching the gf with another guy which I can control but in tomorrow’s scenario, i’m gonna be having the woman giving me oral whilst I watch the gf and guy. So I’m going to be twice as excited.
I think most guys have this worry. Can anyone give me any advice? If I do cum too soon, I can always go again, but I’m just gonna feel like a failure and that i’ve spoilt the night.
Any helpful advise would be appreciated, especially from couples.
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I absolutely wouldn't have a wank before. If its a first meet as your nerves and that could have the opposite reaction. Explain the possible issue to the other woman, and just go with it. She:ll probably love it, my wife would. |
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