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First play meet tomorrow!!!
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Keep an eye on each other, the most important thing to us is on a new meet to keep in contact, you will no doubt know each others looks and what they mean by now so often words aren't needed. That being said have a great time and don't put any pressure on yourselves. |
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Stick to your boundaries. Don't be frightened to say 'I'm sorry I'm not comfortable with that'.
Take your time and don't have to many expectations.
Say what you feel if you want things to move on say so. A meet doesn't last long and first timers can sit there looking at each other wondering how to move on. Just say 'I'd love to play now or can someone please kiss me' anything to move it on lol.
If it doesn't feel right then it isn't right. Don't settle for second best.
It's a wonderful journey enjoy the buzz
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By *andr1Couple
over a year ago
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Check in with each other frequently, during play - ask your partner how they're doing. And have some code words for "I want more of this" (e.g. "I'm having loads of fun") and "I want less of this" (e.g. "I'm having fun"), and use them.
At some point, one or the other of you is going to feel left out of the group play; that's normal, it happens to most of us at some point. There's one thing to do in that case - throw yourself back into the group with enthusiasm and energy, as soon as you feel left out! Don't just lay there brooding on it.
Discuss dos and don'ts with each other before you arrive, and then with your play partners when you get there. Don't take anything for granted about what your partner does or doesn't want to do with others, however well you know what they want to do with you! Don't assume "of course we both know us kissing them mouth to mouth is ok" or "of course it's not ok". You've got your favourite tricks for each other - you may or may not be ok sharing them with others - talk about it first!
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Well if it naturally flows into the bedroom and assuming your all playing together, keep an eye out for each other. Keep reading each other and communicating even just through eye contact. Make sure no body gets left out or feels neglected. Its cool having boundaries at the start but remember things can feel quite different when push comes to shove. So it's totally cool if someone isn't completely happy or it's just moving a little fast to put the brakes on a bit or even come to a stop. Just have lots of fun, dont take things too seriously and look out for each other.
BTW I'm sure there's loads of nosey people on here who'd love to hear how it goes (Me included). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Practice with condoms, after years not using them and with the added pressure they can be a boner killer."
This is very true ! A lot of couples I've played with have this issue where the guy just can't perform with a condom which isn't the end of the world as we just do other things instead but can be embarrasing for him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Excited, horny and a teeny bit nervous.
Haven’t played with anyone but each other for almost 20 years!!!!
Any first timers advice appreciated.
 
X"
Good luck and hope you enjoy it. |
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Sex with other people involved can be a bit distracting, if you're not used to it, so having some foreplay before they turn up can help get you in the zone.
Also, take some time out if you need to - you can always start again or save things for next time.
Be honest with the other couple - if you're too nervous to get in the mood, then let them know.
Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Really enjoyed our meet, and were told we are naturals, quite the compliment  We were super lucky to meet such a lovely couple.
Must admit it’s incredibly addictive as we are already browsing for this weekend!
Thank you all for asking. X |
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"Really enjoyed our meet, and were told we are naturals, quite the compliment We were super lucky to meet such a lovely couple.
Must admit it’s incredibly addictive as we are already browsing for this weekend!
Thank you all for asking. X"
Nice one.  |
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"Really enjoyed our meet, and were told we are naturals, quite the compliment We were super lucky to meet such a lovely couple.
Must admit it’s incredibly addictive as we are already browsing for this weekend!
Thank you all for asking. X"
Yay! Good work x |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
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"Really enjoyed our meet, and were told we are naturals, quite the compliment We were super lucky to meet such a lovely couple.
Must admit it’s incredibly addictive as we are already browsing for this weekend!
Thank you all for asking. X"
Good to hear it all went well
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