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Is there anything wrong with my profile
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Hi all been on here a little while been verified by a female and now all the messages I send are constantly getting deleted I'm just wondering if my profile is boring are my pictures are naff or if I'm just not what ladies are looking for I know this site us over run with single men which could be why but sadly some guys don't struggle at all lol all help appreciated I do travel I do accomadate so who know haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's the vest 
Only joking
Maybe lower expectations
People have lives
The guy in my avatar and I were speaking for a year (not constantly) before we eventually met
(not saying that's standard but most actually into the life style don't see the rush)
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Yeah that was 1st lass I messaged must of just been lucky day lol if send like 200 messages since then and all I see when I go through them is delete delete delete lol no worries cheers m8 il keep on trying thanks |
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Haha probably is the vest pmsl wow a year I maybe a silver fox then haha that might helpful but yes everyone is busy and not exactly best time of the year Xmas coming up people busy shopping il just keep trying lol thanks love |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah that was 1st lass I messaged must of just been lucky day lol if send like 200 messages since then and all I see when I go through them is delete delete delete lol no worries cheers m8 il keep on trying thanks"
Yeh that's really quite normal. It's best to go into it with no expectations.
I hardly bother sending messages apart from to ones whos photos warrant credit. If anyone's interested in me they can message me. Better things to do. Lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh right you did make me double check though lol I'm not saying love or m8 to you because I don't know which of the couple you are haha "
Press reply and quote lol
Well it says it’s deleted. And I’m a love haha it’s the female here. And thanks for your compliments  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't see anything wrong with your profile, but nothing outstanding either. It's like most of the male profiles on here.
As others said, a veri already, with just being here for 3 weeks, is good. Repeat what you did then?
Going back to your profile - have a think of what you can offer to your prospective meet? |
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OP...
There's nothing 'wrong' with your profile, but it's very bland.
You're basically selling yourself, when people shop they tend to go for something that catches their eye.
Add a few more pics, one you've taken especially for her, not some generic ones saved on your phone (cock pics are not essential )
One thing though... You say you're looking for a regular fuck buddy, and there is nothing wrong with that, I agree sex is better, the more you get to know someone.
But a lot of ladies may see that as you're looking for something exclusive, expect them to just see you.
Not what most people on here are looking for |
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Pheonixadastra thanks love il try and improve it and yes by regular fuck buddy I can see what you mean il have to get rid of that my cock pics I keep in friends only and I take pics myself so may have to try timer on camera instead of selfie thanks for your help x |
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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago
the right frame of mind -London |
Good luck with having sex with the same person often in the club scene is all I can say,
Oh and that bit about being a genuine male -do you have proof -we don't like no catfishes round these parts ya know! |
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"Good luck with having sex with the same person often in the club scene is all I can say,
Oh and that bit about being a genuine male -do you have proof -we don't like no catfishes round these parts ya know!"
Alot of people attend the club scene regular mate iv got friends who do aswel and my pic is verified lmao if I was a catfish ild use a better looking guy haha cheers |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good luck with having sex with the same person often in the club scene is all I can say,
Oh and that bit about being a genuine male -do you have proof -we don't like no catfishes round these parts ya know!
Alot of people attend the club scene regular mate iv got friends who do aswel and my pic is verified lmao if I was a catfish ild use a better looking guy haha cheers"
Haha! Brilliant reply |
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"Good luck with having sex with the same person often in the club scene is all I can say,
Oh and that bit about being a genuine male -do you have proof -we don't like no catfishes round these parts ya know!
Alot of people attend the club scene regular mate iv got friends who do aswel and my pic is verified lmao if I was a catfish ild use a better looking guy haha cheers
Haha! Brilliant reply "
Haha they say truth hurts I feel iv just kicked myself in teeth it really does hurt x |
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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago
the right frame of mind -London |
"Good luck with having sex with the same person often in the club scene is all I can say,
Oh and that bit about being a genuine male -do you have proof -we don't like no catfishes round these parts ya know!
Alot of people attend the club scene regular mate iv got friends who do aswel and my pic is verified lmao if I was a catfish ild use a better looking guy haha cheers"
You really should know better than to take my reoplies at face value -dig a little deeper and you may discover a nugget or two. |
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"Good luck with having sex with the same person often in the club scene is all I can say,
Oh and that bit about being a genuine male -do you have proof -we don't like no catfishes round these parts ya know!
Alot of people attend the club scene regular mate iv got friends who do aswel and my pic is verified lmao if I was a catfish ild use a better looking guy haha cheers
You really should know better than to take my reoplies at face value -dig a little deeper and you may discover a nugget or two."
I dont know you m8 so I wouldn't know how to take you bud but anyway nice chat lmao |
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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago
the right frame of mind -London |
"Good luck with having sex with the same person often in the club scene is all I can say,
Oh and that bit about being a genuine male -do you have proof -we don't like no catfishes round these parts ya know!
Alot of people attend the club scene regular mate iv got friends who do aswel and my pic is verified lmao if I was a catfish ild use a better looking guy haha cheers
You really should know better than to take my reoplies at face value -dig a little deeper and you may discover a nugget or two.
I dont know you m8 so I wouldn't know how to take you bud but anyway nice chat lmao"
Top tip -use a posters green arrow -the tone of their other posts is often a clue. |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"Yeah that was 1st lass I messaged must of just been lucky day lol if send like 200 messages since then and all I see when I go through them is delete delete delete lol no worries cheers m8 il keep on trying thanks"
Just throwing it out there....might have nothing to do with your profile and everything to do with your selection proccess and content of your messages ...200 messages in a few weeks all deleted tells a story  |
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"We like tall guys and you look in reasonable shape and you don't seem an arse. It follows we'd do you 
Let us know if you're ever in London... "
Aww I'm 6"2 love and no I'm never an ass always like to have a laugh and love your pics I'm in London next year so hopefully see you then x |
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"Yeah that was 1st lass I messaged must of just been lucky day lol if send like 200 messages since then and all I see when I go through them is delete delete delete lol no worries cheers m8 il keep on trying thanks
Just throwing it out there....might have nothing to do with your profile and everything to do with your selection proccess and content of your messages ...200 messages in a few weeks all deleted tells a story "
It does in deed pal my messages are quite similar to
Hi love you pics would love to chat sometime with possibility of meeting hope to hear from you soon take care happy fabbing or something like that lol and I think I was exaggerating when I said 200 lol more like 50 m8 |
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"The vest lol
Nooooo not the vest again lol I think I'm going to lose that pic soon lol cheers
Wasn’t on about you lol "
I realised after I sent reply love and follow it with an apology I missed the message inbetween your picture distracted me lol sorry |
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"The vest lol
Nooooo not the vest again lol I think I'm going to lose that pic soon lol cheers
Wasn’t on about you lol
I realised after I sent reply love and follow it with an apology I missed the message inbetween your picture distracted me lol sorry"
No problem. Can’t see anything wrong with your profile to be fair |
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"The vest lol
Nooooo not the vest again lol I think I'm going to lose that pic soon lol cheers
Wasn’t on about you lol
I realised after I sent reply love and follow it with an apology I missed the message inbetween your picture distracted me lol sorry
No problem. Can’t see anything wrong with your profile to be fair "
Great thanks alot love very much appreciated x |
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"See told you it's the vest
Makes you look like you would knock doors asking if I need a tree cutting down or want to buy any washable rugs iykwim "
I'm going to delete it now lmao thanks love and great pics by the way x |
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"See told you it's the vest
Makes you look like you would knock doors asking if I need a tree cutting down or want to buy any washable rugs iykwim "
It's finally gone lol I may get a message or 2 now lmao thanks for the input greatly appreciated x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"See told you it's the vest
Makes you look like you would knock doors asking if I need a tree cutting down or want to buy any washable rugs iykwim
I'm going to delete it now lmao thanks love and great pics by the way x"
Thank you 
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Your profile is fine. I am like you a bit fed up with it, the feedback I got was that women get 100+ messages a day.
It’s more by luck if you get messaged back.The problem is if you are one of the nice ones it makes no difference at all. |
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"Your profile is fine. I am like you a bit fed up with it, the feedback I got was that women get 100+ messages a day.
It’s more by luck if you get messaged back.The problem is if you are one of the nice ones it makes no difference at all."
Very true m8 did you meet the same woman as me (bubblebutt) her husband came home while I was there I had to go out back door while she went to let him in lol her husband looks like Arnold Schwarzenegger pmsl |
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"Your interests you have ticked do you do all of them?
Yes I either do all of them or happy to do all of them pal
Noticed you just tweeked them lol "
Yes there was one on there I wasn't comfortable with I didn't know was ticked lol soon disappeared when I saw it haha BUSTED x |
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