"Looking for advice. Other than adding photos (which isn't currently an option) any advice on how to gain more interest with my profile ? Inbox if possible please "
Why isn't adding photos an option?
Every mobile phone has a camera these days so photos are easy to take. Whilst you have a need for discretion you can have lots of images and still maintain your anonymity. You don't need to display public face pictures, just have a few body pics instead and send a face pic privately to people you get chatting with.
Without any public pictures on your profile you will struggle regardless of how good your profile text and first messages are. |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
Redhill |
No much more you can do, I’m afraid....
I got a decent enough message from someone who wants a social- nice message, asking if I’d be interested to meet up for a drink, see if there’s a spark, etc. I said not without seeing a face photo first. He said he can’t send any because of work/family issues, discretion, etc. I said fair enough, I wish you luck in your search. He kept insisting, people tell me I’m good looking, etc, but with no photo(s) there’s no chance with me.
So... good luck in actually arranging a meet. You’re going to need it!
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"Why do you prefer people in inbox you rather than reply in the forum ?"
My guess would be to bypass any filters they may have and message asking to meet. May not be that, I may just be cynical from being here for so many years  |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
You will struggle if you have no public pics, you don't have to show your face in them. Loads of great male profiles with great pics, those are the ones that get attention, but good luck |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Being brutally honest OP your profile tells it's reader nothing about you - add to that the lack of pics (as already mentioned) and I don't see your prospects changing a great deal in future.
It's not a pre-requisite of course but unless your profile grabs interest and tells people a little about you, what you are looking for, and what you think you can offer and is backed up by a decent set of pics that show off your body (doesn't have to be your face) the odds are stacked against you.
You could always try clubs or group socials I guess  |
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"Why do you prefer people in inbox you rather than reply in the forum ?
My guess would be to bypass any filters they may have and message asking to meet. May not be that, I may just be cynical from being here for so many years "
I see why you would think that, but my reason was after seeing other posts sometimes spiral out and end up in arguments, I wanted just some private advice |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Why do you prefer people in inbox you rather than reply in the forum ?
My guess would be to bypass any filters they may have and message asking to meet. May not be that, I may just be cynical from being here for so many years
I see why you would think that, but my reason was after seeing other posts sometimes spiral out and end up in arguments, I wanted just some private advice "
Well you have had loads of advice, hopefully this will help you |
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