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"I would say yes, unless you're after something very dispassionate"
Its just that everytime someone takes a liking to us, they want to see a face picture. Unfortunately, we're not gonna submit that so easily |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would say yes, unless you're after something very dispassionate
Its just that everytime someone takes a liking to us, they want to see a face picture. Unfortunately, we're not gonna submit that so easily"
We absolutely insist on seeing a face picture before meeting...if you don't want to send them for whatever reason, you'll have to accept that this will reduce your chances of meeting considerably |
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"I would say yes, unless you're after something very dispassionate
Its just that everytime someone takes a liking to us, they want to see a face picture. Unfortunately, we're not gonna submit that so easily"
That's fine, never do more than you're happy with.
A lot of people won't go too far into conversations about meeting unless they've seen faces though.
Never compromise on what you're happy to do on here. |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
Redhill |
"Does a face matter when all you want is nsa fun?"
Totally!!!
I always get asked “wot u want face pic 4 u not going to fuck my face lol”. But I need to be attracted to the person in every aspect. I have to like the way they look. The way they speak. The way they touch... absolutely everything.
Sometimes I see a lovely face but with a body I’m not attracted to. So that is a no go for me too I’m afraid.
Having said all this, I’ve met people who aren’t exactly my type, or in the age bracket I go for, but with chatting and then socialising, I find them very attractive and sex has been amazing. This is why I always insist on chatting for a while and/or a social. Many see it/me as a timewaster. I don’t.
It’s only nsa fun, but to me it is a hobby. A delicious hobby I indulge in and I only indulge when the treat is just too decadent. No point in doing it otherwise... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would say yes, unless you're after something very dispassionate
Its just that everytime someone takes a liking to us, they want to see a face picture. Unfortunately, we're not gonna submit that so easily"
Id never meet anyone without seeing a facepic sorry for me this isnt blind date, if a guy refused to send one then id move on |
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"I would say yes, unless you're after something very dispassionate
Its just that everytime someone takes a liking to us, they want to see a face picture. Unfortunately, we're not gonna submit that so easily"
Unless tou intend to walk into a meeting place fully naked then how will they recognise you.
Its really not that big of a deal surely... face shows eyes, eyes convey a lot. Face makes you human and less of an object...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does a face matter when all you want is nsa fun?"
yes absolouetly. Would you honestly have sex with anyone who looked like Shane McGowan from the Pouges! Don't care if I never had sex again. I just couldn't  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does a face matter when all you want is nsa fun?"
I have to fancy the person. The face is imperative. If I don't find them facially attractive, there will be no fun to be had. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does a face matter when all you want is nsa fun?
It does to me but it seems to some on here they would shag anyone even if they had a bucket on their head.  "
How do you get turned on if you don't fancy or like the person |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes it matters ...more than a cock pic!
I’d rather have sex with (what I consider) a facial more attractive guy with a smaller package than a bigger package on a guy I wasn’t attracted to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it bizarre that people don't want to see faces before they meet someone they're going to fuck 
Surely if you just want to rub body parts together without any sort of connection then you might as well go to a glory hole or fuck a watermelon  |
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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"Does a face matter when all you want is nsa fun?"
Yes a face pic matters to us. We have to see if we like the look of the potential meet just as they need to see us.
I mean it's not like they'd know who you are if you arrange to meet without seeing face photos first.
Can just imagine you walking into the pub for social with nothing on and bag on your head as not showing your face.  |
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This isn’t blind date OP
I’ve had public face pics for about 10vyears nothing bad as ever come of it there’s no reason not to exchange a pic privately especially when you can set the image to be automatically deleted after they’ve read the message |
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I won't meet without seeing a face pic, and recently passed on a meet for exactly that reason...
....there has to be an attraction - how many times have you stood behind or followed someone, and thought "Mmmmm, nice", and then they've turned around and you've then thought "Oh, perhaps not!"?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does a face matter when all you want is nsa fun?"
Yes!! It is the physical attribute that matters the most to me! NSA or not, I cannot fuck someone if I don't find their face attractive |
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"This isn’t blind date OP
I’ve had public face pics for about 10vyears nothing bad as ever come of it there’s no reason not to exchange a pic privately especially when you can set the image to be automatically deleted after they’ve read the message"
I like this. We live in a still very conservative society. A picture in the wrong hands and you would be forever shamed. The whole reason for our post.
Thanks everyone for your responses. We have a good idea now |
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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago
up above the streets and houses |
"I would say yes, unless you're after something very dispassionate
Its just that everytime someone takes a liking to us, they want to see a face picture. Unfortunately, we're not gonna submit that so easily"
I don’t send them either, doesn’t affect me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can read a lot about someone by looking at their face so it's important for me that way. I can usually (not always) get a sense of what kind of person they might be. Also I need to find them attractive and the face is part of that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It matters!
I have to be attracted! (Doesn't everyone?)
I am not partial to shagging someone with a bag on their head. "
Omg a guy actually said that to me after i politely refused him he said hed wear a paper bag over his head  |
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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago
In a sleepy little village |
"It matters!
I have to be attracted! (Doesn't everyone?)
I am not partial to shagging someone with a bag on their head.
Omg a guy actually said that to me after i politely refused him he said hed wear a paper bag over his head "
Don't forget to put one over yours too .... just in case his comes off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn’t meet if I wasn’t attracted to someone and the only way I know if I am or not is to see what they look like, it’s not all about the sex there has to be a spark too, even if it is just for NSA fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes it matters ...more than a cock pic!
I’d rather have sex with (what I consider) a facial more attractive guy with a smaller package than a bigger package on a guy I wasn’t attracted to"
Definitely agree...although wouldn’t complain if both nice packages were handed to me! |
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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago
Manchester |
Just to point out OP nsa isn't an anachronism for will shag ugly people for a start it doesn't fit and respectfully most people on here have standards and likes and have to have an attraction to someone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's the most important thing to me. I have to fancy someone I'm plannig on shagging and would hope the ones I meet would feel the same. NSA isn't about sticking it or taking it in anyones hole, just because you want sex.... well not for some it isn't, anyway. |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
Near Marlborough |
"I would say yes, unless you're after something very dispassionate
Its just that everytime someone takes a liking to us, they want to see a face picture. Unfortunately, we're not gonna submit that so easily
We absolutely insist on seeing a face picture before meeting...if you don't want to send them for whatever reason, you'll have to accept that this will reduce your chances of meeting considerably "
Exactly this. I’d not meet anyone if I didn’t know what they look like.
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"Does a face matter when all you want is nsa fun?
Absobloodylutely !!!! You ever tried snogging a bin liner?
Listen, I'd been drinking and taking way too many drugs, OK!!!!!!!"
Never done the drug fuelled but I can relate to the beer goggles |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To me it doesn't, but then I started on this journey when the only real way was contact magazines or the like. It was more about getting a feel for the person from a letter, meeting for a social perhaps. There were the odd photo, usually black and white and very grainy! Luckily for me! It was more about the person/people, how they came across.
I do think swinging has now become more about how you look, rather than who you are. But that just reflects society on a whole, people seem more obsessed with looks, especially on social media, which in its own way fab is for many.
As an aside, my uncle always said you never look at the mantle piece when you poke the fire. Perhaps a little harsh and a different era. Personally it would be more about personality than looks or face pics. |
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