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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lol.
I asked in such a vaugue way to see which way this would go.
I’m my mind I was asking ‘why, if you’re struggling for meets, do YOU think that might be?’
We see lots of posts where us forumites try to explain why we think you may be and how you might rectify the problem.
I’ve seen posts saying others have ruined it for the genuine. People thinking lack of a veri is the only reason. Or that they’re too old. Too young. Not gym fit.
It’s not just guys who struggle. Couples often do and, believe it or not, even women can too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol.
I asked in such a vaugue way to see which way this would go.
I’m my mind I was asking ‘why, if you’re struggling for meets, do YOU think that might be?’
We see lots of posts where us forumites try to explain why we think you may be and how you might rectify the problem.
I’ve seen posts saying others have ruined it for the genuine. People thinking lack of a veri is the only reason. Or that they’re too old. Too young. Not gym fit.
It’s not just guys who struggle. Couples often do and, believe it or not, even women can too. "
perhaps we can start a charity for those who struggle and need our help |
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"Lol.
I asked in such a vaugue way to see which way this would go.
I’m my mind I was asking ‘why, if you’re struggling for meets, do YOU think that might be?’
We see lots of posts where us forumites try to explain why we think you may be and how you might rectify the problem.
I’ve seen posts saying others have ruined it for the genuine. People thinking lack of a veri is the only reason. Or that they’re too old. Too young. Not gym fit.
It’s not just guys who struggle. Couples often do and, believe it or not, even women can too. "
Those that ask such questions are usually incapable of being introspective. They are also usually incapable of following advice, preferring to blame others for their lack of success. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol.
I asked in such a vaugue way to see which way this would go.
I’m my mind I was asking ‘why, if you’re struggling for meets, do YOU think that might be?’
We see lots of posts where us forumites try to explain why we think you may be and how you might rectify the problem.
I’ve seen posts saying others have ruined it for the genuine. People thinking lack of a veri is the only reason. Or that they’re too old. Too young. Not gym fit.
It’s not just guys who struggle. Couples often do and, believe it or not, even women can too.
Those that ask such questions are usually incapable of being introspective. They are also usually incapable of following advice, preferring to blame others for their lack of success."
Not necessarily. I am quite aware the reason we quite often find it hard to get meets with couples is because hubby is older than me. .but doesn't mean I will stop trying (as I love him) and I know he deserves to have fun too
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Lol.
I asked in such a vaugue way to see which way this would go.
I’m my mind I was asking ‘why, if you’re struggling for meets, do YOU think that might be?’
We see lots of posts where us forumites try to explain why we think you may be and how you might rectify the problem.
I’ve seen posts saying others have ruined it for the genuine. People thinking lack of a veri is the only reason. Or that they’re too old. Too young. Not gym fit.
It’s not just guys who struggle. Couples often do and, believe it or not, even women can too. "
I struggle constantly, that's why I'm taking a break xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol.
I asked in such a vaugue way to see which way this would go.
I’m my mind I was asking ‘why, if you’re struggling for meets, do YOU think that might be?’
We see lots of posts where us forumites try to explain why we think you may be and how you might rectify the problem.
I’ve seen posts saying others have ruined it for the genuine. People thinking lack of a veri is the only reason. Or that they’re too old. Too young. Not gym fit.
It’s not just guys who struggle. Couples often do and, believe it or not, even women can too.
I struggle constantly, that's why I'm taking a break xx"
have a kitkat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think a lot of it can be that some have high expectations that a message will result in a shag and don’t want to participate in the community surrounding swinging.
End of the day there’s still a person at the recieving end of the message who will have to in some way be attracted to either your looks from the pictures on the profile or the way you word the message. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Lol.
I asked in such a vaugue way to see which way this would go.
I’m my mind I was asking ‘why, if you’re struggling for meets, do YOU think that might be?’
We see lots of posts where us forumites try to explain why we think you may be and how you might rectify the problem.
I’ve seen posts saying others have ruined it for the genuine. People thinking lack of a veri is the only reason. Or that they’re too old. Too young. Not gym fit.
It’s not just guys who struggle. Couples often do and, believe it or not, even women can too.
I struggle constantly, that's why I'm taking a break xxhave a kitkat "
I've had a few, can't you tell lol?!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol.
I asked in such a vaugue way to see which way this would go.
I’m my mind I was asking ‘why, if you’re struggling for meets, do YOU think that might be?’
We see lots of posts where us forumites try to explain why we think you may be and how you might rectify the problem.
I’ve seen posts saying others have ruined it for the genuine. People thinking lack of a veri is the only reason. Or that they’re too old. Too young. Not gym fit.
It’s not just guys who struggle. Couples often do and, believe it or not, even women can too.
I struggle constantly, that's why I'm taking a break xxhave a kitkat
I've had a few, can't you tell lol?! "
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"Lol.
I asked in such a vaugue way to see which way this would go.
I’m my mind I was asking ‘why, if you’re struggling for meets, do YOU think that might be?’
We see lots of posts where us forumites try to explain why we think you may be and how you might rectify the problem.
I’ve seen posts saying others have ruined it for the genuine. People thinking lack of a veri is the only reason. Or that they’re too old. Too young. Not gym fit.
It’s not just guys who struggle. Couples often do and, believe it or not, even women can too.
Those that ask such questions are usually incapable of being introspective. They are also usually incapable of following advice, preferring to blame others for their lack of success.
Not necessarily. I am quite aware the reason we quite often find it hard to get meets with couples is because hubby is older than me. .but doesn't mean I will stop trying (as I love him) and I know he deserves to have fun too
xx"
I deliberately used "usually" so as not to encompass all |
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By *m3232Man
over a year ago
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"Lol.
I asked in such a vaugue way to see which way this would go.
I’m my mind I was asking ‘why, if you’re struggling for meets, do YOU think that might be?’
We see lots of posts where us forumites try to explain why we think you may be and how you might rectify the problem.
I’ve seen posts saying others have ruined it for the genuine. People thinking lack of a veri is the only reason. Or that they’re too old. Too young. Not gym fit.
It’s not just guys who struggle. Couples often do and, believe it or not, even women can too. "
The trouble is the messers can ruin it for the genuine people |
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