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Really struggling

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hi guys and thank you in advance,

I’ve met a couple of people on this site but now I’m really starting to struggle. I understand that the site is over ran by single males and it’s always difficult to get a reply but I’m literally not getting a reply to any message I send out. Is there anything I can do to make my profile stand out more?

Kind regards,

Lee

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi guys and thank you in advance,

Kind regards,

You are right there are so many single guys on here it makes it tricky.

Your profile isnt bad, perhaps write a little more in the text part, and perhaps a photo of just you looking smart without the blurry stuff.

Lorri x

Lee "

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By *edtothecore74Woman over a year ago

Spalding

"Hi guys and thank you in advance,

Kind regards,

Lee "

Nothing wrong with your profile. Its concise and to the point.

Maybe a review of how you approach and what you say in your messages?

Maybe its the time of year too.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

All looks OK, nice to know you have permission. Good luck x

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By *innie The MinxWoman over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Nothing in your profile that is eye-catching or makes it stand out from thousands of others.

Maybe add what you like or enjoy.

People tend to be cynical of the playing with permission line.

Some clear photos without the ectoplasm clouds would be more appealing and maybe without the beercan?

Then just persevere.

Good luck .

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By *aughty_Nat69Woman over a year ago

Glasgow

Just keep putting yourself out there. Catching people at the right time is key. Social are good to get a foot in the door too xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Try tape measure markings on your penis. Works a treat for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank you for all of the advice guys! It’s a real help, I will look at changing my pics on my profile also

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You look really nice ! Its just hit and miss on here if us women even reach messages from suitable guys as our inboxes are flooded with messages from unsuitablea and often I have to bulk delete

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By *eerobCouple over a year ago

solihull

Socks and sandles?. Really?.

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By *edtothecore74Woman over a year ago

Spalding

"Socks and sandles?. Really?.

Theyre sliders.... its different

Think slippers but for outside...

Informal like

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hahaha I know

they aren’t for everyone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hahaha I know

they aren’t for everyone

Try flip flops

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By *ichcoventry1Man over a year ago

coventry

"Hi guys and thank you in advance,

Kind regards,

Ditto. I have plenty of verifications and always state in my messages that photos are available. I construct polite and thoughtful messages, that are respectful and usually to people fairly local and still have no luck. I'm just grateful not to have my messages deleted nowadays.??

Lee "

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By *uit and bootsMan over a year ago

Manchester

"Socks and sandles?. Really?.

I used to think that, thought it was a case emperors new clothes by hipsters. Then I tried it, oooohhh, it was a foot comfort revelation!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

More photos for a start wouldn't harm as visuals attract here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All those clubs and socials you attended and no one else was there, what's the chances of that ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Socks and sandles?. Really?.

Theyre sliders.... its different

Think slippers but for outside...

Informal like "

Stylish too....in the right company

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By *UNANDNICEMan over a year ago

Basildon

It's hard on here

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"It's hard on here"

Doesn't look it....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lol @ kind regards

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By *hite1100Man over a year ago

Hither Green

"Hi guys and thank you in advance,

Kind regards,

Lee "

Looks pretty good generally.

You could do with more pics (get rid of the socks/flip flops pic), add some clearer face pics, pics in different situations etc.

Participate on the forums, it’s a good way of interacting with people and beats sending messages which often go left unread.

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By *.H.SMan over a year ago

London

can work on profile like everyone has said.....still i said get out to parties to show your self and personality!! actions speak louder than words......ps remember too many keyboard warriors with there head up their on posteriors. keep the faith

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