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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ive tried the direct approach, the softly softly approach, joining in on the forums, polite messaging (always after reading the full profile). I send face pics with messages, get told I'm good looking, I'm flexible re: meeting, even get private messages but am still struggling to get my first meet (on this profile anyway which is nearly a year old). I know its a numbers game but blimey, I'm close to giving up! Pics and profile arent that terrible surely? I see some well verified blokes here with mimimal or no pictures and/ or profile text. What gives?! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"All you can do is keep trying it was a long time before I got meets now had quite a few good meet iv met a couple I play with regularly now"
Indeed. Had a couple of "false starts", but my patience is wearing a bit thin! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I reckon it’s the pine furniture you have in one of your pictures,no one has pine anymore 
The curtains don't match the sofa either  "
I paid good money for those wardrobes! 
And took delivery of a new sofa 2 weeks ago... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I reckon it’s the pine furniture you have in one of your pictures,no one has pine anymore
The curtains don't match the sofa either "
The man needs an interior make over ,then I’m sure he’ll be inundated with requests to meet up at his place |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The curtains don't match the sofa either
I paid good money for those wardrobes!
And took delivery of a new sofa 2 weeks ago...
Phew, new pics and you'll be fine  "
Don’t buy black ash furniture whatever you do fella |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The curtains don't match the sofa either
I paid good money for those wardrobes!
And took delivery of a new sofa 2 weeks ago...
Phew, new pics and you'll be fine
Don’t buy black ash furniture whatever you do fella "
Chuckle! No chance - its not 1986! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The curtains don't match the sofa either
I paid good money for those wardrobes!
And took delivery of a new sofa 2 weeks ago...
Phew, new pics and you'll be fine
Don’t buy black ash furniture whatever you do fella
Chuckle! No chance - its not 1986!"
You’re on the right road now fella |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The curtains don't match the sofa either
I paid good money for those wardrobes!
And took delivery of a new sofa 2 weeks ago...
Phew, new pics and you'll be fine
Don’t buy black ash furniture whatever you do fella
Chuckle! No chance - its not 1986!
You’re on the right road now fella "
Profile re-write, lose 2 stone and new pics then! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds like you have a bit to work on, have you tried chat, with a webcam on ... pointing at your face, and if you do try it, id suggest being a person, if you go in with an I want a fuck attitude most people will give you a very wide berth...
Also explain why accommodating is difficult ..... |
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I would have to agree with everyone else you've got a very Negative profile but the pics are fine i would look at updating your profile and maybe going to a swingers club that's what we did and we met a lot of people and we had some great fun..
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would have to agree with everyone else you've got a very Negative profile but the pics are fine i would look at updating your profile and maybe going to a swingers club that's what we did and we met a lot of people and we had some great fun..
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Seems like thats the way forward. I didnt think the profile was too negative to be honest, but cant argue with the masses I suppose. Tried a club (club 29 in Leicester), but there was no-one in apart from one other bloke, so I didnt stay. I'll have to try one of the big ones if theyll accept single males.
Have also tried webcam here, but no-one wanted to engage. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Profile seems a little stand offish, pictures are fine though. You just send off a " I joined a swingers site and havnt had a fuck yet so I'm an angry bear" vibe"
Thank you. Re-write imminent... |
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