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By *roberts OP Couple
over a year ago
Leicestershire |
Hi Guys !
Myself & my wife are looking for some advice if possible so we’re looking forward to seeing your views .
Since being here for the last 4 yrs we met a family guy (married) who we have seen for that amount of time and we get on great. He only sees us and we only see him now. He always plays safe and us too , however overtime I’ve become more of a cuck which has led us to me being humiliated which I love as he’s much bigger than my offering, wife loves it too .
We would like to take the next step and both my wife and him would love him to fill her so I can be humiliated by cleaning her up which I’d love however I’m the 1 out of the 3 that’s hesitant for just safety reasons only and if anything went wrong id feel it would be on my head . My wife says it’s my choice as they’d love to but respects if it’s a no !
But my word I’d love to do it ?
Anyone have any thoughts good or bad or any other ways I could enjoy it just the same ?
Thanks in advance !
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well if he gets his tests done and it's a relationship where everyone trusts each other not to be fooling around and putting each other at risk then I personally cannot see the problem. Do what feels right and keep you 3 as safe as you all can. There are no rules that say a closed relationship has to be 2 people. |
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By *roberts OP Couple
over a year ago
Leicestershire |
"Just ask him to get tested beforehand. Simples
This would be my first step too to put your mind at ease"
Thanks guys !
Oh sorry forgot to point out that I did ask him and he agreed I expected a written piece but we got the text message instead and I didn’t think it was genuine ! Or I could be wrong ? There was a (no subject) in the heading of the screenshot. I have to be totally convinced.
I’m a big pain I think ! |
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"Just ask him to get tested beforehand. Simples
This would be my first step too to put your mind at ease
Thanks guys !
Oh sorry forgot to point out that I did ask him and he agreed I expected a written piece but we got the text message instead and I didn’t think it was genuine ! Or I could be wrong ? There was a (no subject) in the heading of the screenshot. I have to be totally convinced.
I’m a big pain I think ! "
sorry dont quite understand this bit me being thick no doubt  |
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By *roberts OP Couple
over a year ago
Leicestershire |
"Just ask him to get tested beforehand. Simples
This would be my first step too to put your mind at ease
Thanks guys !
Oh sorry forgot to point out that I did ask him and he agreed I expected a written piece but we got the text message instead and I didn’t think it was genuine ! Or I could be wrong ? There was a (no subject) in the heading of the screenshot. I have to be totally convinced.
I’m a big pain I think !
sorry dont quite understand this bit me being thick no doubt "
Sorry guys am I not being clear ?
Our guy agreed to get checked and he sent me the screenshot of the text but there was no indication it was from the NHS or anything. As there was a ‘No Subject’ was where it was sent to him . If that makes sense.
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"Just ask him to get tested beforehand. Simples
This would be my first step too to put your mind at ease
Thanks guys !
Oh sorry forgot to point out that I did ask him and he agreed I expected a written piece but we got the text message instead and I didn’t think it was genuine ! Or I could be wrong ? There was a (no subject) in the heading of the screenshot. I have to be totally convinced.
I’m a big pain I think !
sorry dont quite understand this bit me being thick no doubt
Sorry guys am I not being clear ?
Our guy agreed to get checked and he sent me the screenshot of the text but there was no indication it was from the NHS or anything. As there was a ‘No Subject’ was where it was sent to him . If that makes sense.
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does now and tbh we would be wary ourselves its not something to play about with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You don't state of the wife knows
If she does then great, ask her to get checked and all of you consenting adults can be sure to be safe..
If however she doesn't.....
When she finds out she'll be thrilled that a high risk group such as yourselves are all playing nice and safe together.... |
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Flames here...
Well, as everyone else has said,
*everyone* should get tested. Not just him. After all, everyones a risk factor.
Who's to say you don't give something to him??
As to the cuck thing - Well - For me - it's the Hotwife side, not humiliation... So I can see where you are coming from (no, I am not going to make *that* pun...)
After that... I'd say... Go for it. Get your head between her thighs and enjoy.
Or don't End of the day - it's a cuck humilation - So - Your wife should order you to clean up.
But for me - You'd have a chance in hell to stop me from cleaning up!
Loved doing it the time we had done it (with a tried and tested person).
It was probably the hottest day of my sex life ha ha.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For a start he can cum on her stomach and you can clean up which is what I do for the cuck, and as already stated get him to be tested and provide proof to be sure. It’s your wife’s health at risk to don’t play games with it |
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By *roberts OP Couple
over a year ago
Leicestershire |
"Do you mean he has been tested and got the usual "all clear" result by text? That's what I get from my clinic
Yes . But does yours say where the text is from ?
Yes mine say it's from the NHS "
That’s what I’m not sure about !
It’s hard to believe in this day and age that everyone’s safety is put at risk by a text message - how can you ever tell if it’s genuine ! |
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By *roberts OP Couple
over a year ago
Leicestershire |
"For a start he can cum on her stomach and you can clean up which is what I do for the cuck, and as already stated get him to be tested and provide proof to be sure. It’s your wife’s health at risk to don’t play games with it "
Yes I could clean that up in the meantime but probably not her pussy at the moment ! |
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By *roberts OP Couple
over a year ago
Leicestershire |
"Flames here...
Well, as everyone else has said,
*everyone* should get tested. Not just him. After all, everyones a risk factor.
Who's to say you don't give something to him??
As to the cuck thing - Well - For me - it's the Hotwife side, not humiliation... So I can see where you are coming from (no, I am not going to make *that* pun...)
After that... I'd say... Go for it. Get your head between her thighs and enjoy.
Or don't End of the day - it's a cuck humilation - So - Your wife should order you to clean up.
But for me - You'd have a chance in hell to stop me from cleaning up!
Loved doing it the time we had done it (with a tried and tested person).
It was probably the hottest day of my sex life ha ha.
Flames
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She can’t wait to tell me to clean up but obviously I have safety reservations !
Can anyone get written proof ? or is that too much to ask these days |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Off the top of my head I think you can get the result posted to you too but can't remember if that has a charge attached to it. I have a feeling it may be free as well.
Since you're cleaning up, you might as well give him a bj too!  |
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By *roberts OP Couple
over a year ago
Leicestershire |
"Off the top of my head I think you can get the result posted to you too but can't remember if that has a charge attached to it. I have a feeling it may be free as well.
Since you're cleaning up, you might as well give him a bj too! "
I’d be happy to pay for all that !
Yes I could bj |
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Getting tested is the first step. They send a text with the results and it usually ends in “be safe, use a condom” whenever I get mine. It comes from NHS NOREPLY or something close. Remember about window periods though, chlamydia and gonorrhoea tests are accurate after two weeks of the encounter, 4th generation HIV tests are 8 (99.5% accurate) to 12 (99.9% accurate) weeks (there or there about) and syphilis tests are 12 weeks.
Secondly, if you’re concerned about that horrible one that you can’t get rid of, PrEP is a HIV preventative medication.
Other than that it’s all down to trust. |
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By *roberts OP Couple
over a year ago
Leicestershire |
"Getting tested is the first step. They send a text with the results and it usually ends in “be safe, use a condom” whenever I get mine. It comes from NHS NOREPLY or something close. Remember about window periods though, chlamydia and gonorrhoea tests are accurate after two weeks of the encounter, 4th generation HIV tests are 8 (99.5% accurate) to 12 (99.9% accurate) weeks (there or there about) and syphilis tests are 12 weeks.
Secondly, if you’re concerned about that horrible one that you can’t get rid of, PrEP is a HIV preventative medication.
Other than that it’s all down to trust. "
Thank you !
Nice to know that the country’s health is pivoting on the unreliability of a text message that anyone can forge - Seriously !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t know if you have rapid response clinics in the UK but if you do I would suggest all 3 of you go together.....
These clinics give you a sti/std test with printed results in 30 minutes.....
I think this is the only way to put your mind at ease... |
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By *roberts OP Couple
over a year ago
Leicestershire |
"I don’t know if you have rapid response clinics in the UK but if you do I would suggest all 3 of you go together.....
These clinics give you a sti/std test with printed results in 30 minutes.....
I think this is the only way to put your mind at ease..."
Rude boy
Thanks for the info we’re in different parts of England but at least it’s in black and white |
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By (user no longer on site)
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By being tested and declared "clear" isn't a 100% guarantee, esp if just recently infected. On the other hand, a positive result is guaranteed 100% accurate |
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Actually, forging the sender of a text message isn’t that easy. You can have them posted I believe, but even that isn’t immune to forgery.
If you’re that concerned about forgery, it probably isn’t for you. I’d still recommend prep though anyway, as it’s a good additional protection. |
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All get tested and go from there.
Make sure you are all comfortable because you are regulars to each other it isn't so bad id say go for it 
Long as all are willing and say enjoy but i would defiantly make sure he's been checked out at least first... |
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OP
How about this....
You carry on playing safe as you do already- you putting his condom on, guiding his cock into your wife's pussy etc etc. next time You arrange things in advance so that when he cums in the condom and you take it off for him you try pouring the contents over her tummy, bum or boobs and then "clean it up". That way it's still relatively safe but you're getting the thrill of seeing how much cum your buddy makes and getting to take things up a notch.
Have fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just ask him to get tested beforehand. Simples
This would be my first step too to put your mind at ease
Thanks guys !
Oh sorry forgot to point out that I did ask him and he agreed I expected a written piece but we got the text message instead and I didn’t think it was genuine ! Or I could be wrong ? There was a (no subject) in the heading of the screenshot. I have to be totally convinced.
I’m a big pain I think ! "
That is normal
I guess the arguement is to protect your privacy.
I too was a little surprised the first time and expected a letter etc... but I guess some people have things to hide.
PS you would also need to wait 3 months and be exclusive to be completely "clear" as that is the incubation period for some nasties I believe. |
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"Just ask him to get tested beforehand. Simples
This would be my first step too to put your mind at ease
Thanks guys !
Oh sorry forgot to point out that I did ask him and he agreed I expected a written piece but we got the text message instead and I didn’t think it was genuine ! Or I could be wrong ? There was a (no subject) in the heading of the screenshot. I have to be totally convinced.
I’m a big pain I think !
That is normal
I guess the arguement is to protect your privacy.
I too was a little surprised the first time and expected a letter etc... but I guess some people have things to hide.
PS you would also need to wait 3 months and be exclusive to be completely "clear" as that is the incubation period for some nasties I believe."
That’s correct, the incubation period of syphilis is about three months. |
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"You don't state of the wife knows
If she does then great, ask her to get checked and all of you consenting adults can be sure to be safe..
If however she doesn't.....
When she finds out she'll be thrilled that a high risk group such as yourselves are all playing nice and safe together...."
Not only that, if he's happy to lie so blatantly to his wife I've no doubt he'd have no concerns in doing so to the OP.
Who knows who or what else he is getting up to? |
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"Recently got tested and given the all clear by the clinic
I asked for them for them to send me something via text message and the sender was NHSNoreply as stated earlier by someone else.  "
All someone has to do to forge that is enter their own number into the phone, saved as NHSNoreply, send themselves a text and hey presto there's their screen shot 'proof'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi Guys !
Myself & my wife are looking for some advice if possible so we’re looking forward to seeing your views .
Since being here for the last 4 yrs we met a family guy (married) who we have seen for that amount of time and we get on great. He only sees us and we only see him now. He always plays safe and us too , however overtime I’ve become more of a cuck which has led us to me being humiliated which I love as he’s much bigger than my offering, wife loves it too .
We would like to take the next step and both my wife and him would love him to fill her so I can be humiliated by cleaning her up which I’d love however I’m the 1 out of the 3 that’s hesitant for just safety reasons only and if anything went wrong id feel it would be on my head . My wife says it’s my choice as they’d love to but respects if it’s a no !
But my word I’d love to do it ?
Anyone have any thoughts good or bad or any other ways I could enjoy it just the same ?
Thanks in advance !
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If everyone is up for it. What's the harm. Just be as sensible as you can be. Nothing is 100%. But if long term. It maybe worth understanding what you'd do if something baby like was to happen. But if you're sensible, it can be as controllable as any other type of relationship |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If a person is doing checks as I do for my piece of mind then a text is all I need. It’s headed nhs no reply (other clinics available but I’m not sure how they contact you).
Are you worried about pregnancy as well? |
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By *ick_08Man
over a year ago
Brighton |
Everyone should have themselves tested regularly as there are many ways to pass on an STI if you have a regular partner it's not difficult to protect oneself.for true cuckolding bareback is that ultimate very powerful realization |
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By *c69funCouple
over a year ago
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Even if they are tested there is still a risk of something being passed on . Tests take time , it's a bit like a car mot , it proves that at the time of the test the car passed , the day after it could fail . How can you guarantee since the test date that they haven't had sexual contact with someone else and could of caught something. Simple answer is you can't. |
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By *roberts OP Couple
over a year ago
Leicestershire |
"The text is standard.
And get ready for clean up "
Yes my wife is respectful but she definitely wants to feel his big cock not wrapped as it’s the biggest dick she’s ever had . She is acting like a slut and has told me she wants him bare and that I can clean her slutty married pussy . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The text is standard.
And get ready for clean up
Yes my wife is respectful but she definitely wants to feel his big cock not wrapped as it’s the biggest dick she’s ever had . She is acting like a slut and has told me she wants him bare and that I can clean her slutty married pussy ."
This doesn't sound like how a woman would talk |
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By *roberts OP Couple
over a year ago
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"The text is standard.
And get ready for clean up
Yes my wife is respectful but she definitely wants to feel his big cock not wrapped as it’s the biggest dick she’s ever had . She is acting like a slut and has told me she wants him bare and that I can clean her slutty married pussy .
This doesn't sound like how a woman would talk"
slutty married pussy are my words
Hers were “you can lick it all up from my pussy” |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The text is standard.
And get ready for clean up
Yes my wife is respectful but she definitely wants to feel his big cock not wrapped as it’s the biggest dick she’s ever had . She is acting like a slut and has told me she wants him bare and that I can clean her slutty married pussy .
This doesn't sound like how a woman would talk
slutty married pussy are my words
Hers were “you can lick it all up from my pussy”"
Why did you change her words then? |
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There are clinics where you can get the tests the same day, but yes, as mentioned, you need to get checked again at 3 months to ensure the incubation period has passed.
Sounds like a pain, but you'll be in greater pain if your nether regions start to burn! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just ask him to get tested beforehand. Simples
This would be my first step too to put your mind at ease
Thanks guys !
Oh sorry forgot to point out that I did ask him and he agreed I expected a written piece but we got the text message instead and I didn’t think it was genuine ! Or I could be wrong ? There was a (no subject) in the heading of the screenshot. I have to be totally convinced.
I’m a big pain I think ! "
If you go to a normal STD clinic you only get a text. Sounds like you should trust each other. |
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