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By *ackspop OP Couple
over a year ago
Wymondham |
Whilst we've been active on the site for a few years we've not had the chance to meet for lots of reasons including, but not limited to; work hours, body confidence and mental health amongst other things.
Well, that will hopefully change next weekend: Got an Airbnb booked for the weekend, we're meeting an old female friend who is also on Fabs and we're all going to have a great time. That's the plan, anyway.
So tell me you please, you wonderful lot, what would YOU do to make it a weekend to remember? How would you begin things? (For info: there has been much texting and messaging from both sides and all are very excited.) |
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"Whilst we've been active on the site for a few years we've not had the chance to meet for lots of reasons including, but not limited to; work hours, body confidence and mental health amongst other things.
Well, that will hopefully change next weekend: Got an Airbnb booked for the weekend, we're meeting an old female friend who is also on Fabs and we're all going to have a great time. That's the plan, anyway.
So tell me you please, you wonderful lot, what would YOU do to make it a weekend to remember? How would you begin things? (For info: there has been much texting and messaging from both sides and all are very excited.) "
Take it slow. |
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All the above! Great advice.
Also, don't drink too much, and don't have set ideas. Relax and just enjoy! Even if its chatting all night, you have the rest of the weekend!
Our best dates have been chilled relaxed and flowing. Our worst have been jumping in too quickly.
(that said, we've missed a few opportunities by chilling too much   |
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By *ackspop OP Couple
over a year ago
Wymondham |
Can we just say a massive "Thank you!" to everyone who took the time to reply with some great ideas. Unfortunately, our friend who was going to meet up with us has gone incommunicado and is no longer replying to our messages so we've had to take the sad step of cancelling the booking. A massive shame as both Jon & I were really looking forward to the weekend. We may have lost a small amount of money but we've got some wonderful ideas to use next time we get the courage to try this again. Thanks all. |
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By *ackspop OP Couple
over a year ago
Wymondham |
"Why not just go yourselves? "
We were booked in Bristol which was a half way point between where we all live and it's about a 3 hr drive away for us. Couldn't really justify a 3hr drive just to have sex in a different house when we could do that in the Travelodge 10 mins down the road. |
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Any chance to get out of go spit for a weekend and we are on it.
Seriously guy's what's wrong with taking a nice drive booking into a hotel for a weekend, have a nice meal go for a walk,shag each others brains out.
Put up a meet request and see who's near.
It may not work out,but also you never know... |
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By *ackspop OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Any chance to get out of go spit for a weekend and we are on it.
Seriously guy's what's wrong with taking a nice drive booking into a hotel for a weekend, have a nice meal go for a walk,shag each others brains out.
Put up a meet request and see who's near.
It may not work out,but also you never know..."
Couldn't agree with you more but for many reasons detailed above we've not been able to do it. We're not wasting the weekend, going away and seeing friends but not staying with them. |
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"Can we just say a massive "Thank you!" to everyone who took the time to reply with some great ideas. Unfortunately, our friend who was going to meet up with us has gone incommunicado and is no longer replying to our messages so we've had to take the sad step of cancelling the booking. A massive shame as both Jon & I were really looking forward to the weekend. We may have lost a small amount of money but we've got some wonderful ideas to use next time we get the courage to try this again. Thanks all."
I was going to reply to your original pot that I’d simply be hoping you hadn’t been sexting with a fantasist..... it seems you were.
You seem to be taking it well considering how let down you must feel 
For future potential meets, I’d avoid sexy talk as that tends to be all lots of people are after. A naughty exchange over the internet to have a wank over.
The meets I’ve successfully arranged over the last 7 years of being on fab have all been with only a handful of messages. Negligible naughty talk and not sending naughty pics. |
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"Why not just go yourselves?
We were booked in Bristol which was a half way point between where we all live and it's about a 3 hr drive away for us. Couldn't really justify a 3hr drive just to have sex in a different house when we could do that in the Travelodge 10 mins down the road. "
Don't think of it as driving 3 hours to have sex in a different house, bristol has a great scene and you could have gone for new scenery, new pubs, etc
And you never know you might have pulled a woman in one of the bars |
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By *ackspop OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Can we just say a massive "Thank you!" to everyone who took the time to reply with some great ideas. Unfortunately, our friend who was going to meet up with us has gone incommunicado and is no longer replying to our messages so we've had to take the sad step of cancelling the booking. A massive shame as both Jon & I were really looking forward to the weekend. We may have lost a small amount of money but we've got some wonderful ideas to use next time we get the courage to try this again. Thanks all.
I was going to reply to your original pot that I’d simply be hoping you hadn’t been sexting with a fantasist..... it seems you were.
You seem to be taking it well considering how let down you must feel
For future potential meets, I’d avoid sexy talk as that tends to be all lots of people are after. A naughty exchange over the internet to have a wank over.
The meets I’ve successfully arranged over the last 7 years of being on fab have all been with only a handful of messages. Negligible naughty talk and not sending naughty pics. "
Annoyingly, this is a person we know quite well, she's someone we've met a few times and have spoken to a lot. She's also had some troubled times this year and we all thought that may have been put behind her but I'm guessing that that is probably not the case. There's no point getting angry or name calling, it is what it is and we just hope she gets better soon and we can start talking again. |
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Oh that’s dissapointng but good luck for future naughty weekends. We have had a meet or two fall through before and we just look on it as an opportunity to spend time together, do a very naughty photo shoot and have fun x  |
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"Can we just say a massive "Thank you!" to everyone who took the time to reply with some great ideas. Unfortunately, our friend who was going to meet up with us has gone incommunicado and is no longer replying to our messages so we've had to take the sad step of cancelling the booking. A massive shame as both Jon & I were really looking forward to the weekend. We may have lost a small amount of money but we've got some wonderful ideas to use next time we get the courage to try this again. Thanks all."
Well that's annoying, but not the end of the world.
Onwards and upwards! |
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