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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Why would anyone choose to sleep with someone on a first meet after chatting happily for a couple of hours. And then later say there wasn't a connection? Any ideas?

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By *r.BlondeMan over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"Why would anyone choose to sleep with someone on a first meet after chatting happily for a couple of hours. And then later say there wasn't a connection? Any ideas? "
He was just horny?

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

Because after reviewing the entire meet they felt that there wasn't enough compatibility to meet again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why would anyone choose to sleep with someone on a first meet after chatting happily for a couple of hours. And then later say there wasn't a connection? Any ideas? He was just horny?"

What he said!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Surely there must of been enough of a connection after the mgs? Or am I just being new?

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"Surely there must of been enough of a connection after the mgs? Or am I just being new?"

Do you mean after the messages? Some people are happy to establish a connection via messages. We like to meet socially first to see if there's common ground though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They didn't feel any connection while they were having sex. It may have felt cold and mechanical for them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There must of been enough of a connection from the messages and the social meet for things to go further!?

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

What they thought was there before things got physical did not translate well enough for them. I have enjoyed meets at the time but afterwards thought no, not for me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That's totally fair enough! I'm new to this and no overly sure how it works.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is the fact that you fancies each other enough to want to have sex a connection?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why would anyone choose to sleep with someone on a first meet after chatting happily for a couple of hours. And then later say there wasn't a connection? Any ideas? He was just horny?"

Absolutely!

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