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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Research which club you are going to as not all have the same dress code. Contact them first see if they will show you round or arrive not too late on the day you are going and don't expect too much. |
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By *izzcrusherCouple
over a year ago
South Buckinghamshire |
hi i have read your posts and if you are looking for sauna jacuuzi swimming pool which is heated and a dancefloor complete with disco lights and a pole dance please do come to my favorite place Radlett parties in WD7. i am a friend of Radlett and often show first time revellers round the 8 bedroom mansion complete with dark room and dungeon.
you can see their site radlettparties dot net
i urge you to go there. its a magical place where plenty od my fantasies have been met and the couples that go there on couples evenings are in their 100. so very lovely and the social aspect is super as their are plenty places to chat to people and they provide you with food which is included in the price. there ia no membership fee either. its perfect really. |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else |
"My girlfriend and I are seriously thinking about going to a swingers club. Anyone got any advice "
Don't eat from any buffets.
Start by deciding how close to home you want to go - the further you go, the less chance you have of meeting the vicar. Then read reviews on here, check the websites of the ones you like for pictures and their various rules and prices.
Don't worry about not knowing anyone, just say hello to whoever young sitting next to.
Finally, feel free to go slow - many couples say that they only had set with each other the first time they went.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My girlfriend and I are seriously thinking about going to a swingers club. Anyone got any advice or suggestions as to where to go? "
We planned our first visit 2 weeks ago. Blackpool. Came home same night workout going! Bottlers!!! Expensive round trip! |
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By *aekaeWoman
over a year ago
Between a cock and a soft place |
"My girlfriend and I are seriously thinking about going to a swingers club. Anyone got any advice or suggestions as to where to go?
We planned our first visit 2 weeks ago. Blackpool. Came home same night workout going! Bottlers!!! Expensive round trip! "
And again in English please.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My girlfriend and I are seriously thinking about going to a swingers club. Anyone got any advice or suggestions as to where to go?
We planned our first visit 2 weeks ago. Blackpool. Came home same night workout going! Bottlers!!! Expensive round trip!
And again in English please...."
I think they set off with every intention of visiting a club in Blackpool from their home in the Wirral then changed their minds. |
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"My girlfriend and I are seriously thinking about going to a swingers club. Anyone got any advice or suggestions as to where to go? "
Our first club was Xtasia, we decided to make a proper night of it dinner, club and hotel etc.
We wanted a club away from our real lives in case we bumped into someone we know.
Xtasia was fantastic, we were shown around first, had a few drinks and mingled. We went on a Saturday when it was couples and single ladies only.
It worked for us. |
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"hi i have read your posts and if you are looking for sauna jacuuzi swimming pool which is heated and a dancefloor complete with disco lights and a pole dance please do come to my favorite place Radlett parties in WD7. i am a friend of Radlett and often show first time revellers round the 8 bedroom mansion complete with dark room and dungeon.
you can see their site radlettparties dot net
i urge you to go there. its a magical place where plenty od my fantasies have been met and the couples that go there on couples evenings are in their 100. so very lovely and the social aspect is super as their are plenty places to chat to people and they provide you with food which is included in the price. there ia no membership fee either. its perfect really. "
Wow sounds good thanks. I'll check out the website |
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I think first port of call is find out what you and your girl want out of the club experiance. Then do your research (and possibly be prepared to travel). Different clubs and different club nights/parties have different atmosphere and shenanigans going on. |
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"hi i have read your posts and if you are looking for sauna jacuuzi swimming pool which is heated and a dancefloor complete with disco lights and a pole dance please do come to my favorite place Radlett parties in WD7. i am a friend of Radlett and often show first time revellers round the 8 bedroom mansion complete with dark room and dungeon.
you can see their site radlettparties dot net
i urge you to go there. its a magical place where plenty od my fantasies have been met and the couples that go there on couples evenings are in their 100. so very lovely and the social aspect is super as their are plenty places to chat to people and they provide you with food which is included in the price. there ia no membership fee either. its perfect really.
Wow sounds good thanks. I'll check out the website"
I can recommend Radletts we went for the first time a couple of weeks ago and had a great time, lovely people everyone is friendly and lots of fun |
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"hi i have read your posts and if you are looking for sauna jacuuzi swimming pool which is heated and a dancefloor complete with disco lights and a pole dance please do come to my favorite place Radlett parties in WD7. i am a friend of Radlett and often show first time revellers round the 8 bedroom mansion complete with dark room and dungeon.
you can see their site radlettparties dot net
i urge you to go there. its a magical place where plenty od my fantasies have been met and the couples that go there on couples evenings are in their 100. so very lovely and the social aspect is super as their are plenty places to chat to people and they provide you with food which is included in the price. there ia no membership fee either. its perfect really.
Wow sounds good thanks. I'll check out the website
I can recommend Radletts we went for the first time a couple of weeks ago and had a great time, lovely people everyone is friendly and lots of fun "
Thanks that's good to know. Will check it out |
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We are also newbies and are looking at going Radlet this Saturday , not done anything like this before and tbh, slightly nervous but our relationship is great, we are madly in love and our sex live is unbelievable. We have spoken a few times about our fantasy of this lifestyle and both agree we need to take the next step - do you think it’s ok doing a club first or should we meet another like minded couple first ? Please advice as we want to get this right as both so excited at thoughts of this sexual experience and the social aspect to. Look forward to replies - thanks |
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We are also newbies and are looking at going Radlet this Saturday , not done anything like this before and tbh, slightly nervous but our relationship is great, we are madly in love and our sex live is unbelievable. We have spoken a few times about our fantasy of this lifestyle and both agree we need to take the next step - do you think it’s ok doing a club first or should we meet another like minded couple first ? Please advice as we want to get this right as both so excited at thoughts of this sexual experience and the social aspect to. Look forward to replies - thanks |
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"We are also newbies and are looking at going Radlet this Saturday , not done anything like this before and tbh, slightly nervous but our relationship is great, we are madly in love and our sex live is unbelievable. We have spoken a few times about our fantasy of this lifestyle and both agree we need to take the next step - do you think it’s ok doing a club first or should we meet another like minded couple first ? Please advice as we want to get this right as both so excited at thoughts of this sexual experience and the social aspect to. Look forward to replies - thanks"
My other half and I went to a club first and found it rather intimidating. It was interesting to see what was happening but really didn’t feel comfortable with playing either with each other or anyone else. Since then we’ve been to an organised social which was much more relaxed and not somewhere where you could play. Met some nice people as we could chat knowing there wasn’t any pressure for anything.
Just trying to organise a social with a lovely couple who are in the same boat as us being newbies. I’ve got a feeling anything we do right now will be with a social element. The club was maybe just a little too full on for us. |
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By *iss JBWoman
over a year ago
cheshire |
I would say go to a club with an open mind
Have no prior expectations and go with the flow and set yourself limits of what you intend to do etc
Go to one that appeals to yourselves one that is recommended and one that has good reviews etc
Most people in the clubs are likeminded, friendly, sociable & there to have fun in whatever capacity!
Good luck, have fun and enjoy the experience x
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"We are also newbies and are looking at going Radlet this Saturday , not done anything like this before and tbh, slightly nervous but our relationship is great, we are madly in love and our sex live is unbelievable. We have spoken a few times about our fantasy of this lifestyle and both agree we need to take the next step - do you think it’s ok doing a club first or should we meet another like minded couple first ? Please advice as we want to get this right as both so excited at thoughts of this sexual experience and the social aspect to. Look forward to replies - thanks"
We've only ever played in clubs because we prefer the anonymity of it, we don't want dinner and drinks, we're not trying to start a relationship with people we just want to add a bit of spice. |
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"Thanks everyone who responded - a lot to think about , maybe club may be to much for first time but have seen Radlet has great reviews. If we brave it, we’ll let you know about our experience "
Radlett isn’t really a club per se, it’s a large house party, I would say less intimidating than a club with more emphasis on the social aspect |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My girlfriend and I are seriously thinking about going to a swingers club. Anyone got any advice or suggestions as to where to go?
We planned our first visit 2 weeks ago. Blackpool. Came home same night workout going! Bottlers!!! Expensive round trip!
And again in English please...."
Ha. We booked to stay in Blackpool for two nights in a hotel. Intention was to visit Infusion Friday and Saturday night. First night to feel comfortable and second to maybe play if possible.
We chickened our of going at all and never stayed over at all. Back home the same day we went! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My girlfriend and I are seriously thinking about going to a swingers club. Anyone got any advice or suggestions as to where to go?
We planned our first visit 2 weeks ago. Blackpool. Came home same night workout going! Bottlers!!! Expensive round trip!
And again in English please....
I think they set off with every intention of visiting a club in Blackpool from their home in the Wirral then changed their minds."
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