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Please help! Need advice. X
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"He sounds like a knob who I would personally avoid at all costs. " I agree, he sounds like Sid James on a bad day, but that appears to be what the OP likes. So the issue is can we can round her husbands ginger phobia? | |||
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 although obviously you don't mind!
If you go and see his summerhouse it's inevitable that he's going to come on to you, isn't it?
Would you tell your hubby if you want? | |||
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"Thank you for reply. I no what you are saying, but he is a nice guy,,and we get on well. He has a laugh and joke with everyone, but just think I am his type, that's why I get most of his attention. Really looking for a outcome where we can be friends only, but feel he's just waiting to pounce. If that makes sense. X" Time for straight talking - you're either naive or kidding yourself. Sitting on his lap and talking with him about groping your boobs and going round when his wife is out isn't someone who wants to just be friends, you want to play with him and hoping we'll justify it for you by saying it's ok (hence your comment about no doubt most will say go for it). | |||
"Thank you for reply. I no what you are saying, but he is a nice guy,,and we get on well. He has a laugh and joke with everyone, but just think I am his type, that's why I get most of his attention. Really looking for a outcome where we can be friends only, but feel he's just waiting to pounce. If that makes sense. X" I don't think your looking for a friends only outcome with you mentioning his cock and sexual preferences in so much detail. Maybe go over to see the shed ,but with your husband and have an open discussion about it, gets things cleared up. | |||
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"Can I just say that the "normal work banter" really isn't normal !! It's not usual to have conversations like you mentioned at work or the physical aspects. It's a harassment at work lawsuit waiting to happen. " Well yes, I am amazed that in 2018 workplaces like that still exist. | |||
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"I no, what a mess! I really like him as a friend and no what he says is just banter, honestly if you were there and seen for yourself what is said etc, you would see it as just harmless banter. I probably never explained it right on post. I would hate to upset him or lose his friendship.,x" Does the "harmless banter" happen in front of other women? | |||
"I no, what a mess! I really like him as a friend and no what he says is just banter, honestly if you were there and seen for yourself what is said etc, you would see it as just harmless banter. I probably never explained it right on post. I would hate to upset him or lose his friendship.,x" It's not banter and he's not your friend - he's looking to cheat on his wife and sees that you're an option for that - because you sit on his lap and let him talk about groping you. If you sat him down and told him to stop and actually did stop entertaining his grubby little fantasy, you'll find he'd stop coming by to chat and 'be friendly.' | |||
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"Yes. People at work have always commented on the size of my tits. He would just, as others have, that he would love to have a grope or a go on them. Just in a jokey way like you do, or did before political correctness came in... X" Out of interest, what sort of place do you work in? I ask, because in most workplaces, going around saying you want to have a go on a woman's tits would see you get sacked. | |||
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"Hi me and Don my hubby swing as a couple meeting single guys. Problem and advice I am looking for is. A guy at my work often comments that if he or me weren't married,,we could get together and have some fun together. I am good friends with him at work and we have a joke and laugh together usually about sexual innuendos. He would ask me to sit on his knee during lunch breaks, and that he would love to grope my big tits, just the usual fun chat, and always when others are present, both men and women. Lately I have started giving him a lift into work as I pass him in my car as he's walking to work, only because the guy who gave him a lift before has left. He has started talking about this summerhouse that he had built in his garden earlier this year, and has shown me and everyone else at work the photos etc, and it is really nice with a log fire, three seater couch,,TV,,etc. He has asked me to come over and see it one night after work, but to make it a night when his wife is working late, as in the past he was quite the lad,,having affairs etc,,so says his wife would take it the wrong way if she seen me there. I would like to see it, just as a friend, but feel that if I went he would make a pass at me or try and kiss me etc. He messages me constantly on Facebook, saying how sexy I am, and did I enjoy sitting on his knee, could I feel his cock etc. Also I am 99% positive he has a profile on here,,but he has no face photos, but some photos show him dressed with his cock out and it's clothes I have seen him in at work,,also one of him completely naked,,has been taking in the garden and you can clearly see the side of a summerhouse,,which is identical to his. Also he can only travel not accommodate etc, but worse his cock is very nice, just the kind I like to have fun with, not to long but very thick and well trimmed with shaven balls. Also his likes are what I like from a guy,,he enjoys going down on a woman for aslong as she wants, also likes using toys on her, also a long stayer,,and loves to fuck a woman till she climaxes before he does, his favourite is fucking a woman in her tight bum hole, and always practises safe sex. So all boxes ticked for a guy we would meet. Only problem is he is ginger, so my hubby Don wouldn't want to meet with him anyways, as he has always said we would never meet a ginger guy. He has in fact commented on him in the past, as there has been nights out with the work that both Don and him have been to. So what do you think I should do, I no most, if not all will say, go and fuck him. But I have never played, or ever wanted to play on my own,,so here lies my problem. Also if I do nothing, I feel that the laughing and joking about at work will just get worse,,don't get me wrong I do like the attention,,and no nothing would go any further unless I wanted it too. Looking for helpful replies only please. Also I no it sounds like we are borderline racist but we all have our preferences, and hubbys is not to meet ginger guys, although with him being a work mate, I doubt meeting as a couple would happen anyways,,as not very discreet. X" not a good idea to muck around with people you work with you could lose your job as well as your marriage | |||
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"So Don is OK about going in a ginger man's outhouse ?" Well it's a relief to know Don is not such a gingerist that he won't even socialise with gingers... | |||
"So Don is OK about going in a ginger man's outhouse ? Well it's a relief to know Don is not such a gingerist that he won't even socialise with gingers... " Some absolutely stunning red heads out there | |||
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"So Don is OK about going in a ginger man's outhouse ? Well it's a relief to know Don is not such a gingerist that he won't even socialise with gingers... Some absolutely stunning red heads out there" Indeed, Jessica rabbit to name one ! | |||
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"Really hope so, as if he's not then I am back at square 1. X" If you use the reply and quote button we know who you're replying to.  | |||
"Last I heard Jessica rabbit was female! X" Oh she most definitely is, and stunning. | |||
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"Your husband won't meet him therefore he's not a 'match'. Sounds like you want an affair with this man and it's inevitably going to happen as it appears you're making every excuse possible for it to happen. I'm guessing you've already in your own mind decided to go to summer house. ""going to the summer house" could be a new euphemism... | |||
"Your husband won't meet him therefore he's not a 'match'. Sounds like you want an affair with this man and it's inevitably going to happen as it appears you're making every excuse possible for it to happen. I'm guessing you've already in your own mind decided to go to summer house.
"going to the summer house" could be a new euphemism... "Yep! And whilst there come and try the three seater. Door opens and there's two of his mates there as well.  | |||
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"Your husband won't meet him therefore he's not a 'match'. Sounds like you want an affair with this man and it's inevitably going to happen as it appears you're making every excuse possible for it to happen. I'm guessing you've already in your own mind decided to go to summer house.
"going to the summer house" could be a new euphemism... "I remember the shed gang bang thread that was hilarious
If this is for real give your head a wobble op.
Personally it belongs more in stories and fantasies.  | |||
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