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Im not doing well so and must be in wrong

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Well im lee and on here not long and l not getting anywhere fast,im reading there profille and wink plus fab there pics.lot of men on here so i be at the bottem of the list.i do need some veirify me but for some reason i can and have met a few people on here and send requst out.need someone one out there to help me out please if u can a look farword to ear from you,lee

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some correct punctuation, spelling and grammar might help OP

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By *uit and bootsMan over a year ago

Manchester

Look through these advice threads and take note on pics and profile wording.

Have a look at the guys profiles who’ve verified the ladies you’re trying to meet, take influence from them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your pics are rather off putting sorry x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree with the spelling and grammar, nothing more off putting than incorrect grammar x

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By *nSeeNMan over a year ago

Z'ha'dum

"Well im lee and on here not long and l not getting anywhere fast,im reading there profille and wink plus fab there pics.lot of men on here so i be at the bottem of the list.i do need some veirify me but for some reason i can and have met a few people on here and send requst out.need someone one out there to help me out please if u can a look farword to ear from you,lee"

Verification's are not some sort of magic key that will unlock everything for you on here. what are you looking to get out of this site can I ask?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your profile is crap

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By *eorge JetsonMan over a year ago

Middlesbrough

"Your profile is crap"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your profile is crap"

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By *viatrixWoman over a year ago

Redhill

I don’t know where to start...

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By *opping_candyWoman over a year ago

Huddersfield, centralish

My brain hurts.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

2 weeks in fab land is no time at all, you don’t accommodate so that’s going to be a major obstacle.

It’s a buyers market for females in here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The sunglasses on your cock photo will put off many I think, for starters.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your profile is crap"

He asked for advice, that’s not advice is it.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"The sunglasses on your cock photo will put off many I think, for starters."

As would the sleeping female. You've only been here a couple of weeks, have patience, add a decent bio and some pics. If your profile truly reflects your personality then don't change a thing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The sunglasses on your cock photo will put off many I think, for starters.

As would the sleeping female. You've only been here a couple of weeks, have patience, add a decent bio and some pics. If your profile truly reflects your personality then don't change a thing. "

I didn’t even see that!

Got to the first photo and clicked off!

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By *good-being-badMan over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

"Your profile is crap

I can't see where in his op he asked for profile advice or critique, I thought it against forum rules to do so.

I did see in the sentence about verifying he asked for someone to help him out,

Hey ho another day of one rule for some another for others .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The sunglasses on your cock photo will put off many I think, for starters.

As would the sleeping female. You've only been here a couple of weeks, have patience, add a decent bio and some pics. If your profile truly reflects your personality then don't change a thing. "

Sleeping? Isnt she the one taking the pic?

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By *ontrose_gay_coupleCouple (MM) over a year ago

montrose

Ur pictures and profile are disconnected, the pictures show you to be a bit of a laugh so ur profile should reflect that.

Try changing your profile text to something like:-

"Just your average run of the mill guy, don't take life too seriously as you can see by my pics

If your looking for a fun, young at heart guy, willing to spend hours with my tongue making sure your needs are met, then get in touch ladies. Ps the shades do come off x."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your profile is crap

I can't see where in his op he asked for profile advice or critique, I thought it against forum rules to do so.

I did see in the sentence about verifying he asked for someone to help him out,

Hey ho another day of one rule for some another for others .

He asked for help about why he is doing badly, or at least I think that what the words mean. Therefore comments on his profile are completely within fab rules.

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By *good-being-badMan over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

"Your profile is crap

I can't see where in his op he asked for profile advice or critique, I thought it against forum rules to do so.

I did see in the sentence about verifying he asked for someone to help him out,

Hey ho another day of one rule for some another for others .

He asked for help about why he is doing badly, or at least I think that what the words mean. Therefore comments on his profile are completely within fab rules. "

If you don't understand the op.. you can't say what he wanted

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your profile is crap

I can't see where in his op he asked for profile advice or critique, I thought it against forum rules to do so.

I did see in the sentence about verifying he asked for someone to help him out,

Hey ho another day of one rule for some another for others .

If you think it’s against the rules, report then.

Then see if admin agrees with you, or doesn’t.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your profile is crap

I can't see where in his op he asked for profile advice or critique, I thought it against forum rules to do so.

I did see in the sentence about verifying he asked for someone to help him out,

Hey ho another day of one rule for some another for others .

He asked for help about why he is doing badly, or at least I think that what the words mean. Therefore comments on his profile are completely within fab rules.

If you don't understand the op.. you can't say what he wanted

Lol, and nor can you, so what's your point

if you think somebodies out of order just report it, whining won't make any difference.

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By *lik and PaulCouple over a year ago

cahoots

OP, you say you read profiles, wink and fab pics....you don't mention anything about sending messages....this might be the issue?

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By *good-being-badMan over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

"Your profile is crap

I can't see where in his op he asked for profile advice or critique, I thought it against forum rules to do so.

I did see in the sentence about verifying he asked for someone to help him out,

Hey ho another day of one rule for some another for others .

He asked for help about why he is doing badly, or at least I think that what the words mean. Therefore comments on his profile are completely within fab rules.

If you don't understand the op.. you can't say what he wanted

Lol, and nor can you, so what's your point

if you think somebodies out of order just report it, whining won't make any difference. "

Who said I didn't understand his op. I'm not sure English is his first language ..he introduced himself, (Lee) said he was new here, lots of guys and he was at the bottom of the list, said he winked fabbed pictures read profiles .. he wanted verifying and can someone help him out..he sent requests, he finished by saying I look forward to hearing from someone

I m not whining ..pointing out the double standards, new guy on the forum gets chewed out, new couple new lady red carpet.

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

You need to be patient OP as there are more men than women on here. Read the profiles and send messages to suit the profile. As you haven’t asked for profile advice I can’t give advice on that as it’s against forum rules. I hope you have success OP.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your profile is crap

I can't see where in his op he asked for profile advice or critique, I thought it against forum rules to do so.

I did see in the sentence about verifying he asked for someone to help him out,

Hey ho another day of one rule for some another for others .

He asked for help about why he is doing badly, or at least I think that what the words mean. Therefore comments on his profile are completely within fab rules.

If you don't understand the op.. you can't say what he wanted

Lol, and nor can you, so what's your point

if you think somebodies out of order just report it, whining won't make any difference.

I m not whining ..pointing out the double standards, new guy on the forum gets chewed out, new couple new lady red carpet."

I’ve not noticed many if any women or couples posting on the forum asking for help, profile advice or what they’re doing wrong to be honest, but I’ve lost count of how many men that do it.

Also, I’m sure if women or couples did they’d also get honest opinions on their profile.

Talking about “double standards” and making this post into a “If it was a woman/couple it’s be different” is a bit whiny.

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By *couser89Man over a year ago

liverpool

Patience I guess! I’ve been on here a few times on and off and only ever met a handful of people. So either my profile is crap also or it’s just how it is haha. Can’t be everyone’s taste. Even though we are all on here for the same reasons really people have different expectations and standards to meet. Be very naive to think just giving someone a fab will get you anywhere. Share your fantasies and interests be someone on here that will be compatible best of luck

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Hello OP

I notice that you've only been here for two weeks, welcome to the site. Its a shame that you haven't had a warmer welcome from some forumites. Take the good advice that some have given you though.

I'll close this now, if you would like to start a new thread I'll keep an eye on it.

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