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We’ve not been here long had one meet up and got a verification, but I’m getting the feeling that not getting asked for social meets as we only have the one,
Any ideas would be helpful or profile help as well.
Molly
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"what gives you that idea?"
Well I give them a wink to see if they wink back then I will thank them in a message ask how they are, etc try to get to asking about going for a social and never seems go get going (thumb  not sure what we’re doing wrong or if it’s our profile.
Molly
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"what gives you that idea?
Well I give them a wink to see if they wink back then I will thank them in a message ask how they are, etc try to get to asking about going for a social and never seems go get going (thumb not sure what we’re doing wrong or if it’s our profile.
Molly
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is your partner involved at all? If just the woman contacts us and there are no pictures of the man we don't get involved, same if its just the guy contacting us.
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"what gives you that idea?
Well I give them a wink to see if they wink back then I will thank them in a message ask how they are, etc try to get to asking about going for a social and never seems go get going (thumb not sure what we’re doing wrong or if it’s our profile.
Molly
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is your partner involved at all? If just the woman contacts us and there are no pictures of the man we don't get involved, same if its just the guy contacting us.
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Kind off he’s not great with chatting online really but he sees everything and I ask him what he thinks as well about everything,we need some more photos of him, the one in the bath is him lol there are on our friends only but there with face and we don’t really want them public as we have kids at that age ,
Molly
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"what gives you that idea?
Well I give them a wink to see if they wink back then I will thank them in a message ask how they are, etc try to get to asking about going for a social and never seems go get going (thumb not sure what we’re doing wrong or if it’s our profile.
Molly
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is your partner involved at all? If just the woman contacts us and there are no pictures of the man we don't get involved, same if its just the guy contacting us.
Kind off he’s not great with chatting online really but he sees everything and I ask him what he thinks as well about everything,we need some more photos of him, the one in the bath is him lol there are on our friends only but there with face and we don’t really want them public as we have kids at that age ,
Molly
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I'd never suggest anybody put face pictures in public. However we won't talk about meeting people if I can't see what the guy looks like body wise. That's just me and other people might be different but it might be one reason why you're not getting socials.
Its always me Mrs in the forum but our profile shows Mr N and we message as a couple
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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"what gives you that idea?
Well I give them a wink to see if they wink back then I will thank them in a message ask how they are, etc try to get to asking about going for a social and never seems go get going (thumb not sure what we’re doing wrong or if it’s our profile.
Molly
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A lot of people don't take much notice of winks. You would be better reading couples profiles, see who you like the look of and whose preferences you meet and then message them.
Also add more male photos so people can see his body shape, tum, bum, chest. Couples won't meet when they only know about the lady. |
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"what gives you that idea?
Well I give them a wink to see if they wink back then I will thank them in a message ask how they are, etc try to get to asking about going for a social and never seems go get going (thumb not sure what we’re doing wrong or if it’s our profile.
Molly
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is your partner involved at all? If just the woman contacts us and there are no pictures of the man we don't get involved, same if its just the guy contacting us.
Kind off he’s not great with chatting online really but he sees everything and I ask him what he thinks as well about everything,we need some more photos of him, the one in the bath is him lol there are on our friends only but there with face and we don’t really want them public as we have kids at that age ,
Molly
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I'd never suggest anybody put face pictures in public. However we won't talk about meeting people if I can't see what the guy looks like body wise. That's just me and other people might be different but it might be one reason why you're not getting socials.
Its always me Mrs in the forum but our profile shows Mr N and we message as a couple
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Thanks I’ll get some photos of him with out face and post some and get him to try and chat more from now on.
Molly
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"what gives you that idea?
Well I give them a wink to see if they wink back then I will thank them in a message ask how they are, etc try to get to asking about going for a social and never seems go get going (thumb not sure what we’re doing wrong or if it’s our profile.
Molly
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is your partner involved at all? If just the woman contacts us and there are no pictures of the man we don't get involved, same if its just the guy contacting us.
Kind off he’s not great with chatting online really but he sees everything and I ask him what he thinks as well about everything,we need some more photos of him, the one in the bath is him lol there are on our friends only but there with face and we don’t really want them public as we have kids at that age ,
Molly
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I'd never suggest anybody put face pictures in public. However we won't talk about meeting people if I can't see what the guy looks like body wise. That's just me and other people might be different but it might be one reason why you're not getting socials.
Its always me Mrs in the forum but our profile shows Mr N and we message as a couple
Thanks I’ll get some photos of him with out face and post some and get him to try and chat more from now on.
Molly
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"what gives you that idea?
Well I give them a wink to see if they wink back then I will thank them in a message ask how they are, etc try to get to asking about going for a social and never seems go get going (thumb not sure what we’re doing wrong or if it’s our profile.
Molly
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A lot of people don't take much notice of winks. You would be better reading couples profiles, see who you like the look of and whose preferences you meet and then message them.
Also add more male photos so people can see his body shape, tum, bum, chest. Couples won't meet when they only know about the lady. "
Thank you will take all this on broad and make the changes as soon as I can
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im a single male
ive never "asked" for a verification.
you shouldnt have to asked to be honest
I think they are asking to get meets, not how to get a veeification. "
Oh I see ...I was going by the ops heading of " verification help please "  |
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"You've only been here 4 weeks and already have a verification. I'm sure you will be able to build up more, the longer you are on here OP.
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I’m sure your right just want to make sure we don’t put anybody off for something silly that we didn’t do lol
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"You've only been here 4 weeks and already have a verification. I'm sure you will be able to build up more, the longer you are on here OP.
I’m sure your right just want to make sure we don’t put anybody off for something silly that we didn’t do lol
Molly
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I've looked at your profile and I personally dont see anything wrong. It's likely the amount of time you have been on here. Your verification is a very lovely one |
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"You've only been here 4 weeks and already have a verification. I'm sure you will be able to build up more, the longer you are on here OP.
I’m sure your right just want to make sure we don’t put anybody off for something silly that we didn’t do lol
Molly
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I've looked at your profile and I personally dont see anything wrong. It's likely the amount of time you have been on here. Your verification is a very lovely one "
There very nice, lucky not looking to rush into stuff lol
Molly
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"what gives you that idea?
Well I give them a wink to see if they wink back then I will thank them in a message ask how they are, etc try to get to asking about going for a social and never seems go get going (thumb not sure what we’re doing wrong or if it’s our profile.
Molly
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is your partner involved at all? If just the woman contacts us and there are no pictures of the man we don't get involved, same if its just the guy contacting us.
Kind off he’s not great with chatting online really but he sees everything and I ask him what he thinks as well about everything,we need some more photos of him, the one in the bath is him lol there are on our friends only but there with face and we don’t really want them public as we have kids at that age ,
Molly
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Are you sure the one in the bath is him? You can tell us if you forgot to shave your legs, we are all friends here  x |
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I think it looks good, especially as you've only been here a short period of time!
Not sure we're qualified to give advice - but it never seems to stop anyone else on the forums
- Don't forget the profile needs to reflect you as a couple - it's an advert for you. Why should people meet you?
- Maybe less on what you're not looking for, and more one what you are looking for...? You don't actually say
- the final line about photos will highlight your newness (lots of threads on it) - I'd lose it
Suggestions on clubs is good for more veri's, or going to an organised social either, which is less pressure for sure.
I guess the main advice we'd give though is that the majority of our meets have come from us messaging others, and where the message shows we've read their profile, and that we match each others. It took us a little while to get better at it (and still room for improvement!) so don't expect instant results.
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By *MNJCouple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
Profile looks fine to me, photo verified, plenty of photos so less likely to be straight off of google the verifications will come just have to chat to enough people and find people you want to meet, or go to a club and you'll have a few from there but only 1 verification on a 4 week old profile certainly wouldn't put us off.
The only thing we do different to what you've said is we often switch to kik to chat as we can all chat as ourselves if that makes sense. |
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"what gives you that idea?
Well I give them a wink to see if they wink back then I will thank them in a message ask how they are, etc try to get to asking about going for a social and never seems go get going (thumb not sure what we’re doing wrong or if it’s our profile.
Molly
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is your partner involved at all? If just the woman contacts us and there are no pictures of the man we don't get involved, same if its just the guy contacting us.
Kind off he’s not great with chatting online really but he sees everything and I ask him what he thinks as well about everything,we need some more photos of him, the one in the bath is him lol there are on our friends only but there with face and we don’t really want them public as we have kids at that age ,
Molly
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Are you sure the one in the bath is him? You can tell us if you forgot to shave your legs, we are all friends here x"
Nope they are his legs, he’s my hairy man,
Thanks for everyone’s ideas will be making tweecks soon
Molly
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