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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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To harsh?
We’ve been back and fourth for 7 years so I guess we just want to be as transparent as possible as to how we approach things and give our perspective? We’ve never asked for advice, just curious as to how our profile is perceived??
We’re open to constructive criticism and advice, but please be gentle  |
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"Its informative but quite long. I did get to the end of it but found it a hard slog.
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I personally gave up after reading 2/3rds I’m afraid. However, it certainly wasn’t too harsh, just a bit too much to read. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for your feedback, we really do appreciate it x
I think we agree it’s maybe a tad too long so the decision is to ditch the two long self descriptions of each other as we show enough in our pics, not to mention the titles we’ve given ourselves are pretty much self explanatory 
Again thankyou xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks fine to me.
I think the first half, which mentions about non-responses to winks / messages may seem negative to some, it is, to be fair, up front and honest and makes your position very clear.
I would say that many of us probably manage our fab account in a similar manner, but just haven't gone to the extent of spelling it out on our profiles.
I haven't found your profile in the slightest bit off-putting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To harsh?
We’ve been back and fourth for 7 years so I guess we just want to be as transparent as possible as to how we approach things and give our perspective? We’ve never asked for advice, just curious as to how our profile is perceived??
We’re open to constructive criticism and advice, but please be gentle "
I didn't think it was harsh at all, good luck |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds |
. advice to whomever is applicable to all genders, there are loads of threads in the archives.
My own perspective
I couldn't see anything that gave me any idea of what you were offering, I've no idea of a what a meet with you would be like what you enjoy.
I suggest the same to all.
Profiles should inform the reader of your wants and desires, attract and entice others with the words and pictures, give folk a flavour of what they can expect.
If you're having fun and it's working change nothing if it's not working change something |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi profile looks good. My only suggestion would be move the 1st 2 paragraphs further down, that would soften it. So it opens with a friendly who you are, not a negative we don't do this etc. (don't get rid of them altogether, I completely understand why it's needed) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's interesting the comments it was too long. I guess you have now shortened it, so I can't comment. It's now a lot shorter than mine certainly.
I think it's more an indication of people's attention span, these days. Personally I would always read a profile to get an indication of the person/couple before looking at the photos.
Yours seems much like others I read. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sorry to hijack but could people rate us too please , we thougt we had a good profile but 6/7 views a day obviosuly we havent haha   x"
Have pm’d x
Well thankyou for the comments, we did change it yesterday as we received messages saying it was mostly “too long”.
We’ve come to the conclusion that you just can’t please everyone here as there is such a vast assortment of personalities and preferences. But make no mistake, we have took everything each and everyone of you have said on board, especially the “negative” points as that is definitely giving a false impression of our personalities!
Thankyou guys, very much appreciated xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry to hijack but could people rate us too please , we thougt we had a good profile but 6/7 views a day obviosuly we havent haha x"
zelda very sexy were you in pirates of the Caribbean? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry to hijack but could people rate us too please , we thougt we had a good profile but 6/7 views a day obviosuly we havent haha xzelda very sexy were you in pirates of the Caribbean? "
Yeah she did a cameo appearence  x |
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By *andS33Couple
over a year ago
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Both profiles look fine to us, wouldn't worry too much about number of views tbh, many of us are in stealth mode and won't show up in the list, generally to avoid the single guys that message saying 'you looked at my profile so surely you want to fuck me?' 
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Well you know I like your profile OP, or at least I hope you do
Know you've changed it a little but have never thought of it as either negative or too long - it does what it's supposed to, and that is give people an idea of who you are and what you are looking for as well as can bring to the table - all backed up with some very appealing pics. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well you know I like your profile OP, or at least I hope you do
Know you've changed it a little but have never thought of it as either negative or too long - it does what it's supposed to, and that is give people an idea of who you are and what you are looking for as well as can bring to the table - all backed up with some very appealing pics."
Well the feeling is mutual as your in our hotlist!
Thankyou for your feedback, we have changed it, shortened it a little because even we got a little bored reading through it which is not good! xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To harsh?
We’ve been back and fourth for 7 years so I guess we just want to be as transparent as possible as to how we approach things and give our perspective? We’ve never asked for advice, just curious as to how our profile is perceived??
We’re open to constructive criticism and advice, but please be gentle "
Harsh? Not at all. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To harsh?
We’ve been back and fourth for 7 years so I guess we just want to be as transparent as possible as to how we approach things and give our perspective? We’ve never asked for advice, just curious as to how our profile is perceived??
We’re open to constructive criticism and advice, but please be gentle
Harsh? Not at all. "
Thankyou, we did have all the generic “do’s & dont’s, will’s & wont’s” originally, but in reading back we both said that if it were another couples profile we would (and have been) slightly put off by the rules and regulations bit xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it's a great profile, if you messaged I'd definitely reply on the back of that. "
Thankyou very much x
And after reading your profile and looking at your pics (several times) we take that as a very welcomed compliment xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Great photos, love seeing something out of the ordinary but sexy on here. Profile text tells us what we need to know, if people think your profile is too long then we’ve got no chance! "
Oh it was a bit of a novel before we “adjusted” it! We do enjoy our little photo shoots those pics are a week old now so we’re thinking another pic taking session is due very soon!
Thankyou for your kind words xx |
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