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over a year ago
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Seeing as there are a few threads around with women wanting guys to cum and go.. maybe that's why ...
When home and on pc I'll put I few things that may help. For me someone that took an hour I'd not meet...
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i know the exact feeling. Its very frustrating especially as a quickie never comes into the equasion.
nothing more than wanting a quick shag in the changing rooms of a shop only to still be going for ages. It's a double sided sword as most guys wish they could go for hours. And for the guys who who go for hours without cumming want to cum quickly every now and then |
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"men cum quicker than women... FACT!!!"
I can orgasm in about 2mins ... Without a finger being laid on me.. sex is mostly in the mind... Orgasm even more so...
And not all men cum quicker than women.. and actually women are designed to cum before men.. so stating fact in such a big way is just wrong...
We are designed to orgasm before men to encourage them to cum and plus it helps with procreation...
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"men cum quicker than women... FACT!!!"
bollocks....i can cum without touching myself...did at the mention of a certain word by Sir on the phone last week...
many men dont come easily during sex...especially as they get older.
OP, watch your partner, if u think she is no longer enjoying penetrations suggest hands or mouth...i love bringing a guy off,and the happiest ending for me is in my mouth.
oh...but check she is ok with that bit first  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have a fb who says he would like to cum quicker just now and again! We were at it on and off for about 4 hours the other day! Lots of rest time but lots of sex too! Has amazing control but also finds it a hindrance when u just want to cum! As he knows his cum makes me cum! Not that I don't lots anyway! Am lucky I think I can cum a few times when we have a good long session!
Sorry to brag, with all u ladies that have probs! But I know if I play lots with toys my cock cums get less! Have given up batteries in preference to the real thing!  |
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"I have always lasted a long time and hour being the average I was wondering is there anyone who has any faster ways to cum as some women like the 'quicky'. "
I wonder if this kind of problem simply means the person you're doing it with simply doesn't turn you on enough. Or, that you aren't relaxed enough to let go and enjoy it, if it's a new partner.
I've had the same trouble, hammering away for ages not really getting much out of it, but with another partner it can be totally different, I'd be holding back all the time rather than striving to get there. We might like the idea of playing the field but that doesn't mean the whole field is sexually compatible with us.
Also, in my experience, it gets easier to come once you get to know each other better, when you are more relaxed and have discovered what turns each other on.
If all else fails just think about the sexiest little piece of ass you ever knew, and pretend it is her |
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"I have always lasted a long time and hour being the average I was wondering is there anyone who has any faster ways to cum as some women like the 'quicky'. "
so you go off for a wank and take on average an hour ???
sorry but find that hard to believe for most men its about controling the speed tempo and arousal state you do that you can go for hours or seconds just my opinion and no offence  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Make some noise, go through the motion and mention 'oh, that's not much cum today. For brownie points say 'it's me, not you'
Or always try and cum when in the doggy position and just whip it out and spit on her back and say you've cum on her back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have always las
ted a long time and hour being the average I was wondering is there anyone who has any faster ways to cum as some women like the 'quicky'. "
Found this technique helped me dude.....
Before penetration,go into spoons position,women on top works to.
Now what you have to do is,trap your excces scrotum skin between thighs(DO N0T DO THIS WITH YOUR BALLS THIS IS NOT THE SILENCE OF THE LAMBS PML!)
If you've done this correctly you should
feel a lot thighter/harder.
Well,this works for me most times lol
Good luck dude  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Not read all this thread, but yep, it is a prob i've experienced from time 2 time, it ain't that serious, but it can b a bit inconvenient when it happens, sometimes i've wanted 2 climate but i'd run out of stamina and just couldn't keep going.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Learn about your body better for a start. If you masturbated a lot when younger you'd probably know when you're about to cum so you can back off well the same priciple applies to cuming quickly. You can actually contract muscles in that area to help yourself along they're the same ones you try not to contract when your trying not to cum! It also helps to thrust harder and faster obviously and try dirty talk?
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By (user no longer on site)
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If you're 7"+ then try this.
The first 3 inches of your fella is the msot sensitive. Stop going balls deep and try hitting your sweet spot.
This increases the friction to that area.
When you constantly go deep you're bypassing the friction for this area and merely pounding the girl. granted she will be loving it, you wont get off quick.
The other method is to not jerk it so much, leave it 3-4 days before sex and then you will be cuming quicker. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"condom on her finger and up your bum. thatl do the trick.
Condom?? xx "
i was thinking the same why the condom. i she wants to cover her hand a surgical glove would be better. myself i just go for it without lol |
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If you can last that long - I guess there is something stopping you in your subconscious (I was going to say it's a mental thing - but that has the wrong connotations).
If she loves prolonged shafting - just keep going. Either you will:
a) Cum
b) Go soft because you haven't cum
c) Notice she is getting bored/sore - so do what some women do ... fake it (just say you're out of cum if she wonders why there are no outpourings).
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have the same problem well not a problem I suppose am not bragging or anything just takes aggees n sometimes it can b a pain wen your misses or who ever just want quick fun |
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