If you are inexperienced, stay WELL AWAY from a whip!!!!
You should go for a cheap, soft flogger or a riding crop as suggested above. Love Honey is your friend for mainstream toys that do little damage xx |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
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Assuming you have no experience on the basis of the question, I would suggest looking online regarding articles on the safe places to strike and how to strike.
As the others have said keep away from a whip and buy a flogger. In regard to a crop start gently and keep it within her limits.
If you use a crop for goodness sake in the heat of her passion don't get a rush of blood to the head. It only takes one blow to cause serious damage.
I saw a novice send someone to A&E at a club.
Good luck
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Does anyone use a belt at all? In previous meets I have used belts both for spanking and as a makeshift leash...and must admit I love using them as much as the individual enjoys receiving it. So maybe add that to your list?
Oh and don't forget your hand. Nothing beats (no pun intended) a read hand print on skin...especially on this cold weather  |
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"If you are inexperienced, stay WELL AWAY from a whip!!!!
You should go for a cheap, soft flogger or a riding crop as suggested above. Love Honey is your friend for mainstream toys that do little damage xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone use a belt at all? In previous meets I have used belts both for spanking and as a makeshift leash...and must admit I love using them as much as the individual enjoys receiving it. So maybe add that to your list?
Oh and don't forget your hand. Nothing beats (no pun intended) a read hand print on skin...especially on this cold weather "
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"If you are inexperienced, stay WELL AWAY from a whip!!!!
You should go for a cheap, soft flogger or a riding crop as suggested above. Love Honey is your friend for mainstream toys that do little damage xx"
Agreed. I watched a couple of ladies being expertly flogged at Jaydees last Friday. The guys doing the flogging clearly knew what they were doing. One had a whip but used it very carefully. The multi bead / tip flogger things were very effective.
It was a very horny thing to watch by the way. |
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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago
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"You should go for a cheap, soft flogger or a riding crop as suggested above. Love Honey is your friend for mainstream toys that do little damage xx"
Now, where's the fun in that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ask what she wants, some prefer paddles for more impact, a flogger is good as can be sensual as well, a crop/cane is more stingy but like others have said stay away from proper whips without practise! |
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"You should go for a cheap, soft flogger or a riding crop as suggested above. Love Honey is your friend for mainstream toys that do little damage xx
Now, where's the fun in that?"
so your idea of fun is" beating the shit out of someone" you obviously have no idea of the bdsm scene at all . The use of whips and canes is "_specialist "_in the scene.letting just anyone loose with such implements is a recipe for disaster .start with lighter implements first until you become more accomplished |
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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago
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"You should go for a cheap, soft flogger or a riding crop as suggested above. Love Honey is your friend for mainstream toys that do little damage xx
Now, where's the fun in that?so your idea of fun is" beating the shit out of someone" you obviously have no idea of the bdsm scene at all . The use of whips and canes is "_specialist "_in the scene.letting just anyone loose with such implements is a recipe for disaster .start with lighter implements first until you become more accomplished "
And may I suggest you peruse my green arrow -things are rarely straightforward on the shores of lake irony |
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Are you sure it wasn't just said in a moment of flirty banter? I'm asking because 1. Most people wouldn't want to leap into s&m with someone they've never met before, and 2. If she is really into it I find it strange she doesn't have her own implements.
Maybe it's just me but I wouldn't let some guy I haven't gotten to know hit me, and when I am ready I have everything I need, I wouldn't be asking anyone to bring anything. |
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If you are inexperienced with whipping then please for the love of god don't buy a cane or crop! You can do some serious damaged if you have no idea about using them.
Get a small flogger |
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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago
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"If you are inexperienced with whipping then please for the love of god don't buy a cane or crop! You can do some serious damaged if you have no idea about using them.
Get a small flogger "
Is that like those miniature chairs you get in museum shops to stand your mobile on? |
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