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How do you know your shagging a nutter?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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In my experience it has been when you have had one coffee with someone(that's one coffee) then she goes nuts when you say you are meeting some old friends,screaming that you have only used her till something better comes along!
I of course kept seeing her,told her I was into dressing up and wore a stab vest at all times!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In my experience it has been when you have had one coffee with someone(that's one coffee) then she goes nuts when you say you are meeting some old friends,screaming that you have only used her till something better comes along!
I of course kept seeing her,told her I was into dressing up and wore a stab vest at all times!!"
ive had that many times, meet a guy, hes seemed ok, had a great night then next thing your getting wierd messages because you have a verification from someone else pop up on your profile 
I had one guy tell me i had no need to meet anyone else if i wanted a shag i should just call him lol
sorry to say you never know if you have met a nutter till its to late  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When their eyes roll into the bag of their head is normally a bad sign..."
i've seen that happen a couple of times actually - and lived to tell the tale !  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How do you know you're shagging a nutter ?
When you have to cut a hole in her straightjacket first !
You've ruined my straighjacket!!!"
Ann Summers now do a crotchless straightjacket it's in their new for 2012 "shaganutter" range!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In my experience it has been when you have had one coffee with someone(that's one coffee) then she goes nuts when you say you are meeting some old friends,screaming that you have only used her till something better comes along!
I of course kept seeing her,told her I was into dressing up and wore a stab vest at all times!!
ive had that many times, meet a guy, hes seemed ok, had a great night then next thing your getting wierd messages because you have a verification from someone else pop up on your profile
I had one guy tell me i had no need to meet anyone else if i wanted a shag i should just call him lol
sorry to say you never know if you have met a nutter till its to late "
ditto
hence why i dont show my veris no more |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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2 tips, if at theirs.
Ask to go to the toilet and then see what medication they have in the bathroom, or accidentally go in the bedroom and see what there.
Offer to make a tea/coffee and look through the cupboards for the mugs/tea/coffee and make and observation.
You can then decide from what you see if they are normal to you (readers note the 'Normal to you').
Always works for me, not yet had a unhinged playmate  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ditto
hence why i dont show my veris no more
+1 or my friends list!!
saves the people getting jealous 
Do People really get that upset?? "
yes they do..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ditto
hence why i dont show my veris no more
+1 or my friends list!!
saves the people getting jealous
Do People really get that upset??
yes they do....."
OMG I thought this was all about having fun and exploring our boundaries.
Best look out for the unhinged people out there - can't be doing with nuters!! |
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By *heWolfMan
over a year ago
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"2 tips, if at theirs.
Ask to go to the toilet and then see what medication they have in the bathroom, or accidentally go in the bedroom and see what there.
Offer to make a tea/coffee and look through the cupboards for the mugs/tea/coffee and make and observation.
You can then decide from what you see if they are normal to you (readers note the 'Normal to you').
Always works for me, not yet had a unhinged playmate "
I find that a great way of detecting a nutter is when you catch them rifling through your cupboards and medicine cabinet. |
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ditto
hence why i dont show my veris no more
+1 or my friends list!!
saves the people getting jealous
Do People really get that upset??
yes they do.....
OMG I thought this was all about having fun and exploring our boundaries.
Best look out for the unhinged people out there - can't be doing with nuters!!"
Look out for the unhinged playmates of playmates too... they're even worse! Jealousy that you're with 'their man' attracts some pretty nasty attention. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Look out for the unhinged playmates of playmates too... they're even worse! Jealousy that you're with 'their man' attracts some pretty nasty attention."
Heard about that from contacts but thankfully not experienced it for myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"2 tips, if at theirs.
Ask to go to the toilet and then see what medication they have in the bathroom, or accidentally go in the bedroom and see what there.
Offer to make a tea/coffee and look through the cupboards for the mugs/tea/coffee and make and observation.
You can then decide from what you see if they are normal to you (readers note the 'Normal to you').
Always works for me, not yet had a unhinged playmate
I find that a great way of detecting a nutter is when you catch them rifling through your cupboards and medicine cabinet."
Lol...my thoughts too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ditto
hence why i dont show my veris no more
+1 or my friends list!!
saves the people getting jealous
Do People really get that upset??
yes they do.....
OMG I thought this was all about having fun and exploring our boundaries.
Best look out for the unhinged people out there - can't be doing with nuters!!
Look out for the unhinged playmates of playmates too... they're even worse! Jealousy that you're with 'their man' attracts some pretty nasty attention."
You're really selling it to me now guys!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thing is this is a internet site we aren't going to know the ins and outs of the person. its a sex site not a lovey dovy site looking for love and that relationship.
If i meet someone for a social and i get the wrong gut feeling then i will make my excuses and leave not go to the toilet and go i will be honest and say " sorry you arent for me"
they will not get a verification saying hes this and that as i didnt play. i would say he turned up etc etc etc
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thing is this is a internet site we aren't going to know the ins and outs of the person. its a sex site not a lovey dovy site looking for love and that relationship.
If i meet someone for a social and i get the wrong gut feeling then i will make my excuses and leave not go to the toilet and go i will be honest and say " sorry you arent for me"
they will not get a verification saying hes this and that as i didnt play. i would say he turned up etc etc etc
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Oh but that's the problem, I'm here for NSA sex with respect when we meet...
Many seem to confuse knowing, friendship, and playing with a relationship, hence the numerous threads about nutters and stalkers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"2 tips, if at theirs.
Ask to go to the toilet and then see what medication they have in the bathroom, or accidentally go in the bedroom and see what there.
Offer to make a tea/coffee and look through the cupboards for the mugs/tea/coffee and make and observation.
You can then decide from what you see if they are normal to you (readers note the 'Normal to you').
Always works for me, not yet had a unhinged playmate
I find that a great way of detecting a nutter is when you catch them rifling through your cupboards and medicine cabinet."
Works for me, happy friendship with many, and no nutters yet.
Many people are just not honest or upront enough for my liking.
Say what you mean, and mean what you say.
I have long given up on what others think of things. Merry Xmas  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well lets just see what happens. I am not here to stalk or be stalked, or to argue and fight.
I just want to have some fun, and meet some nice people on the way. |
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"In my experience it has been when you have had one coffee with someone(that's one coffee) then she goes nuts when you say you are meeting some old friends,screaming that you have only used her till something better comes along!
I of course kept seeing her,told her I was into dressing up and wore a stab vest at all times!!"
Was the ONE coffee on the first meet ?
Was it before or after sex ?
Did you or she make the coffee ?
Was it in your house her house or a cafe / pub ?
Did she mean you were using her to make coffee ?
Did you leave earlier than planned ?
Was there a plan at all ?
Cos ....... see ....... if she went ballistic after 'just one coffee' why do you say you were shagging her?
Sure you are not a fuck and run ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How do you know when your shagging a nutter?
As i lay there in my post-orgasmic glow, she was finger painting her name in giant letters onto my bed room wall, using her own shit  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ditto
hence why i dont show my veris no more
+1 or my friends list!!
saves the people getting jealous
Do People really get that upset??
yes they do.....
OMG I thought this was all about having fun and exploring our boundaries.
Best look out for the unhinged people out there - can't be doing with nuters!!
Look out for the unhinged playmates of playmates too... they're even worse! Jealousy that you're with 'their man' attracts some pretty nasty attention."
worse than the playground sometimes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surely it is not too much to ask to be told you are not what they hoped for rather than just be ignored??? Hate that. And I have to hide friends list and not post verifications!! They say women are jealous, its the men from my experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Surely it is not too much to ask to be told you are not what they hoped for rather than just be ignored??? Hate that. And I have to hide friends list and not post verifications!! They say women are jealous, its the men from my experience."
yep it is grotty when that happens, but then I understand sometimes people don't want the can of worms that goes with explanations...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Crazy women with self-esteem issues are awesome in bed.
Keep them at arms length, tell her you dont see any future except for the Now part.
Sex will be fantastic, until she takes a knife to your pecker.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In my experience it has been when you have had one coffee with someone(that's one coffee) then she goes nuts when you say you are meeting some old friends,screaming that you have only used her till something better comes along!
I of course kept seeing her,told her I was into dressing up and wore a stab vest at all times!!"
Usually about the time the woman jumps up and starts hitting her partner shouting 'Now why dont you fuck me like that'
hmmmmm exit stage right as quickly as possible |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When they ring you and you don't answer because it 2am, then they withhold their number and ring again.... then when you send them a message on here telling them you know what they have just tried to do, and don't appreciate it, they say things like, 'After everything we have done together, you OWE me a call'.... and 'I'm moving away from the area soon, so you owe it to me....'
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