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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi guys ...totally straight guy ....thinking , maybe get a few lads together to form a little group to please the ladies and couples . Like minded easy going lads , who like a laugh but well mannered, clean , discreet and know how to treat a lady right ...... what do you think guys and would you ladies be interested ? |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
Its hard to find the right guys for these groups.. everyone now and then one or two of the guys get the wrong idea, or don't know how to get on with the other guys...
.. hence why I abstain from joining "groups". |
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By *enithWoman
over a year ago
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"Its hard to find the right guys for these groups.. everyone now and then one or two of the guys get the wrong idea, or don't know how to get on with the other guys...
.. hence why I abstain from joining "groups"."
from what I've seen and heard you don't need to join a "group" .... seem to be able to keep several ladies happy at same time!!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i wouldnt have met the amount of women/cpls if it wasnt for my good male friends...and yes we look out for eachother.... never been asked for a cheeky sly bj either lolol-thankfuck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi guys ...totally straight guy ....thinking , maybe get a few lads together to form a little group to please the ladies and couples . Like minded easy going lads , who like a laugh but well mannered, clean , discreet and know how to treat a lady right ...... what do you think guys and would you ladies be interested ? "
If it was what i was looking for(and sometimes it is...) I'd always look for it myself...your idea of easy going, well mannered and like minded may differ wildly from mine...I wouldn't truat anyone else other than my partner to know what I like or want...
But good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi guys ...totally straight guy ....thinking , maybe get a few lads together to form a little group to please the ladies and couples . Like minded easy going lads , who like a laugh but well mannered, clean , discreet and know how to treat a lady right ...... what do you think guys and would you ladies be interested ?
If it was what i was looking for(and sometimes it is...) I'd always look for it myself...your idea of easy going, well mannered and like minded may differ wildly from mine...I wouldn't truat anyone else other than my partner to know what I like or want...
But good luck "
wile I totally agree, I an safely say ive met around 10 couples with my friends,and for the most part we can dicuss the tpes of meets that are good for us them (not every couple/fe) will be interested in me,a mixedrace type,some wont want my over 40s friends....
but all communcation can be sorted way before a meet
and like Ive said...Ive never really had any of the ppl omplain my pals(and me I hope) are overbearing,pushy,disrespectful etc etc etc
half the battle for alot of cpls/single fems is that they seem to complain there is no decent single men out there and most they meet are timewasters,stalkers etc etc etc....when there is a group of single men(or married whatever) that are pretty well established as being good for most meets.
take from what u will about single men banding together in some fashion positively and not see it as a group of immature twats thinking of the next "whore" to fuck,
we really arent that different from the way cpls behave...Oh...maybe tht due to one half being male too..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well good luck to you! You have a hard job ahead of you, find the suitable guys, then of course you will be going head to head with some established groups of guys who have verifications as to what they provide whereas as you don't even have a single verification! On top of that you don't accommodate so you are going to have to sort a venue etc etc. Not as simple as it looks really!
Are you sure you have thought this through chap? 
Think I will stay as i am and muddle on through Hehe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not trying to put you off, more like trying to help you explore the cold hard facts! Hehe
Joining another group would be a good idea, you could gain inside knowledge on the mechanics of it all! |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
To the OP, I'll just say this... be wary of guys that want to join your new group with the sole aim of you sourcing the contacts (ie, the ladiers in question, hence the legwork) while their contribution is to turn up, shag and go.
The same goes for groups that are happy for you to join, but the catch being you go through the initiation of "referring" so X number of ladies over Y amount of time before you are acceted as a ull fledged member - in essence, they sit back while you "hand over" your contact list but in turn they have no intention of inviting you to any of their get togethers.
Yes, you learn a thing or two over the years |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To the OP, I'll just say this... be wary of guys that want to join your new group with the sole aim of you sourcing the contacts (ie, the ladiers in question, hence the legwork) while their contribution is to turn up, shag and go.
The same goes for groups that are happy for you to join, but the catch being you go through the initiation of "referring" so X number of ladies over Y amount of time before you are acceted as a ull fledged member - in essence, they sit back while you "hand over" your contact list but in turn they have no intention of inviting you to any of their get togethers.
Yes, you learn a thing or two over the years"
I'm guessing that if his 'contact list' is so huge he wouldnt be needing to join an established group!!!
I occasionally play with such a group and the only request made of me has been to be to turn up to an event when I have said I will. Nothing more.
Whats the worst that could happen. He turns up and theres 6 guys and no women, and he's the entertainment!!!!! Lol. Seriously hook up with a group. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not trying to put you off, more like trying to help you explore the cold hard facts! Hehe
Joining another group would be a good idea, you could gain inside knowledge on the mechanics of it all! "
Only if you are qualified |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To the OP, I'll just say this... be wary of guys that want to join your new group with the sole aim of you sourcing the contacts (ie, the ladiers in question, hence the legwork) while their contribution is to turn up, shag and go.
The same goes for groups that are happy for you to join, but the catch being you go through the initiation of "referring" so X number of ladies over Y amount of time before you are acceted as a ull fledged member - in essence, they sit back while you "hand over" your contact list but in turn they have no intention of inviting you to any of their get togethers.
Yes, you learn a thing or two over the years"
Like Jimmy Greaves said - It's a funny old game
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By *obletonMan
over a year ago
A Home Among The Woodland Creatures |
"Quite a few people have mentioned "established groups" if one were in the market for such a group, where would you find such a list? Just curious... A friend wants to know...
D&K"
You could check out city_slickers - I've been to a few of their parties and was very impressed.
They arrange organised club nights or can set up a private meeting with a few guys of your choice from their stable |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
"Quite a few people have mentioned "established groups" if one were in the market for such a group, where would you find such a list? Just curious... A friend wants to know...
D&K
You could check out city_slickers - I've been to a few of their parties and was very impressed.
They arrange organised club nights or can set up a private meeting with a few guys of your choice from their stable "
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Would also recommend their parties. |
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"Quite a few people have mentioned "established groups" if one were in the market for such a group, where would you find such a list? Just curious... A friend wants to know...
D&K
You could check out city_slickers - I've been to a few of their parties and was very impressed.
They arrange organised club nights or can set up a private meeting with a few guys of your choice from their stable "
Thanks all.
Op - sorry for the slight hijack!
D&k |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
"I don't know much about city_slickers, apparently turned down someone I know female) for being ugly."
Can only speak from our experience but have always found those we have met through them to be really nice decent guys.
But understand others may not agree.
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It's probably been suggested before but wouldn't it be handy if instead of male/female/couples people could also register as a "group". Would make searching easier?
Ignore my stupidity if this is already possible.
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